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a help for a friend please people?

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ayalabestia

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hello, im a 19 year old male and i have been smoking weed for around 2 years now.

were i live weed is totally iligal and beside that my comunity in my country is a very close comunity people. what i meant with that is that the people say everything to everyone and if someone finds out that you are doing any drug the story goes quickly to everyone and you get like super f*cked up.

the thing is that on the 10//9/2010 a book of a rehab came to the homes of my comunity and that book talk about alcohol ,tobbaco,drugs and it tells the parents about it and it haves a wide seccion of the weed sutff. besides that it tells about how to catch your son addictions and stuff like for example:

-"what to do if your son gets home with cigarrete smeell" or
-"search your sons room everywhere even in his private personal stuff " ,
-"figure out if your son gets high to home" ,
-"how to chek if your son is taking pills" ,
-"smeell your sons hand to chek if hes been smoking"
-"cro:cronic"

and many things and tips of how catching your son if hes in weed or other drugs...

the thing is that my parents hided the freaking book from me and my bros for us not to know about it .and now shes been acting weird and kinda talking me bad about alcohol harmness
shes kinda thinking that im in weed or something and shes kinda asking me alot of questions when i whant to hang out or go to somewhere.

the thing is that shes kinda very close to catch me!
and i mean i can stop smoking now but the thing is that she could make me a test and it will come positive so idk what to do to make my mom stop folowing the stipid book.

what would you suggest me to do till im clean in around 3 months.
 
Well if you exercise and drink plenty of water I doubt it will take 3 months to get clean. Instead of smoking weed, start saving money and doing new hobbies and whatnot. [the first part of your post is good advice but we should not encourage people to be dishonest to their parents while they are still under their care - n3o]
 
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I guess you are pretty young, not a legal age.
Anyway you should respect and follow the rules set by the roof you live under.
Think about if you suspected someone for doing something that you despise and hate in your home.

When you get old enough and have your own home - smoke away.
 
theres nothing ignorant about not wanting your kids to be on drugs.

If you quit smoking now you should be clean in like a month. Id say just stop smoking until everybody forgets about this rehab book and things go back to normal. Who knows maybe if you quit until this blows over youll realize that you were smoking too much or something in the first place. Taking a break never hurts you can always start again.
 
"Who knows maybe if you quit until this blows over youll realize that you were smoking too much or something in the first place. Taking a break never hurts you can always start again."

thas a really freakin good advice from a friend!, thx man/
 
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