7 Reasons Parents Should Not Test Kids for Drug Use

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When Kim Manlove and his wife discovered that their teenage son was abusing pot and alcohol, they did what they thought was right: They purchased commercially available drug-testing kits and began administering random urine screens at home. "We thought we'd be able to handle it on our own," recalls Manlove, 56, of Indianapolis. And for several months it appeared that their efforts were working. The drug tests, obtained on the Internet, consistently indicated that 15-year-old David was alcohol free and that his marijuana levels were decreasing, which they interpreted as a sign that he was quitting. Not so. Their son had switched to drugs that the tests couldn't detect, such as prescription pills and LSD. When his parents finally caught on, they enrolled him in treatment. "Things were beyond our capability," says Manlove.

David completed the program, but his desire to get high ultimately cost him his life, Manlove explains. Enticed by the notion that inhalants wouldn't register on his weekly, now professionally administered urine tests, David and his friends spent an afternoon huffing an aerosol (computer duster) and diving into a swimming pool because they'd heard the underwater pressure would heighten the rush. Instead, doing so triggered what's known as "sudden sniffing death syndrome," the gravest consequence of inhalants. David had a heart attack and drowned at age 16.

The Manloves' experience underscores some of the pitfalls of at-home drug testing, an increasingly popular practice among parents aiming to stop or prevent their child's drug use. And with countless test kits available, experts say that it's an increasingly difficult practice to resist--though parents should.

"I don't recommend that parents ever use home drug tests," says pediatrician Sharon Levy, director of the Adolescent Substance Abuse Program at Children's Hospital Boston. "[They're] going to be misled." The tests are often billed as preventive, but there's no evidence that they actually keep kids away from drugs, she adds. Levy's stance is echoed by numerous others, including the American Academy of Pediatrics, which issued a 2007 statement opposing home and school drug testing until further research is done. In hindsight, Manlove agrees: "I'd go straight to the professionals, no question," he says. "Shame" and "embarrassment" are the primary reasons that he and his wife didn't seek help sooner.

Here are seven reasons why experts say drug testing should be left to the professionals:

1. It can become a missed opportunity. Manlove, who now works as a substance abuse prevention specialist for the state of Indiana, believes that the six months that elapsed between he and his wife's initial discovery of David's drug use and their procuring outside help allowed a minor problem to become major. "That delay really worked against us," he says. "If we had sought professional help earlier, I think we would have had a better chance of preventing this outcome."

2. It's easy to cheat. With all the ways to cheat urine screens, says Levy, experts worry that parents could be falsely reassured by negative drug tests while their kid actually has a problem. "My clinical experience tells me that parents are fooled all the time," she says. Furthermore, Levy says parents aren't encouraged to watch their adolescents urinate--but some testing facilities can require that urine collection is witnessed by an observer to prevent tampering. "We do it under controlled circumstances, and we know the tricks of the trade," says Peter Rogers, a clinical professor of pediatrics at Ohio State University medical school who conducts substance abuse testing. That's why, he says, if a drug test is warranted, it should be handled by experienced professionals.

3. False positives can mislead you. Poppy seeds, cold medications, and even antibiotics in high doses can potentially cause false-positive results on certain types of tests, says Levy, leading parents to falsely accuse innocent teens of illegal drug use.

4. Some tests are confusing. Home kits can be difficult to navigate, says Levy, and to ask parents who have no experience with laboratory medicine to do them correctly is "tough." Moreover, she says, parents have to be pretty sophisticated to know the difference between similar-sounding drug types such as opiates (e.g., heroin) and opioids (e.g., oxycodone). Get the wrong kit, and your results could be meaningless. "Unless you have a really good indication of what your kid is using," says Manlove, "you're really just taking a shot in the dark."

5. They give you limited information. Most drugs clear the system pretty quickly, says Levy, so parents would have a tough time catching a child's occasional use.

6. And they can be costly. A package of home tests can be pricier than a visit to a medical professional. Manlove paid roughly $50 for a six pack of urine tests, though costs vary widely.

7. You're a parent, not the police. Some experts worry that the practice of home drug testing may damage the parent-child bond. "I'm not sure that's the relationship that parents want to have with their kids," says Rogers, who himself is the parent of a former teenage drug abuser (who's now a sober 21-year-old). "They shouldn't be policemen, just parents."

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7 Reasons Parents Should Not Test Kids for Drug Use

By Lindsay Lyon, U.S. News & World Report. Posted August 7, 2008.

Why experts say drug testing should be left to the professionals.

http://www.alternet.org/drugreporte...hould_not_test_kids_for_drug_use/?page=entire
 
I hope these parents are happy knowing they essentially had a hand in their son's death. Great parenting.
 
Poor kid. Thats such a bad way to die..from Huffing computer dusters. I have a friend who actually abuses this shit and I told him how bad it is, but its hard to get through to someone who really likes the effects from it. Since they get such a great rush..its easy to get, and its not expensive like other drugs.. All of these reasons make it appealing for some people so it makes it hard to get them to stop.

There is a episode of Intervention on tonight(Canada) about a girl who huffs computer duster. Looks like an insane episode. I bet it already played in the USA.
 
Ham-milton said:
shit, they didn't know.

Oh, I don't know, how about sitting down and talking to your kid instead of blindly drug testing him and throwing him in rehab?
 
It doesn't help that those in power attempt to brainwash people at every step that "drugs are bad" and that any drug use equals abuse and must be stopped by any means necessary. The kid AND parents were victims of the War on Drugs®.
 
I think the kid was really stupid to "huff" any fucking thing. I mean, I feel sorry for him and all, but everyone knows that shit will fuck your brain up and quite possibly kill you. More media insanity. They try to find the most outrageous examples of drug use and apply it to a lot of kids who just sit around and smoke weed. I don't think most people would go to those lengths to get high, but it makes a sensational news story. Jeez, the real victim is the man named "Kim Manlove".
 
YEA WTF. I ,ean my parents just were like hes experimenting let him figure it out. I think if parents push to hard it makes the kid want to do that thing that the parents are so against more. but i dont know
 
StaffWriter said:
I think the kid was really stupid to "huff" any fucking thing. I mean, I feel sorry for him and all, but everyone knows that shit will fuck your brain up and quite possibly kill you.

True. Not to mention, five minutes looking for info on a website like Bluelight would have shown him huffing things is one of the dumbest things you can do. :\

Jeez, the real victim is the man named "Kim Manlove".

No kidding. LOL! :D
 
when my parents started drug testing me for pot the first thing i sought out for was a drug that didnt show up on drug screens ... i heard from a "realiable" source that lsd would do the job so i got some cid without looking up any effects i sat there looking at my 2 tiny little sheets of paper thinking to myself theres no way in fucking hell this is going to get me higher than weed well you figure out the rest i spent the night curled up on my bed untill 730 came around and i had to go to school with nickel sized pupils still trippin balls cuz i dropped the tabs at 1130... "i need to make i trip report about that night it was crazy"

i still don't smoke weed my parents instilled paranoia in me and almost every time i smoke i still get this edgey feeling but theres not many other drugs i havent done so the moral of the story is dont drug test your kids
 
If one enjoys smoking weed, and they can't do it any longer, starting to take pills, LSD, and inhalants isn't a good substitute, nor is it a good idea.
Of course, being human and having feelings and emotions, I feel horrible for the kid and his parents. They all got fucked in this situation.
 
My dad used to drug test me. It kept me totally clean for 7 months. I even tried to put bleach in the damn thing, nothing worked so I stayed sober. Maybe kids should learn to listen to their parents more often.
 
Finder said:
Oh, I don't know, how about sitting down and talking to your kid instead of blindly drug testing him and throwing him in rehab?

they did exactly what the government and the society was telling them was the right thing to do.

I don't blame them.
 
Sad story. Poor ignorant kids. Poor hopeless parents. Happens all too often.
 
Ham-milton said:
they did exactly what the government and the society was telling them was the right thing to do.

I don't blame them.

Of course you don't. People should never be responsible for their own actions. Personal accountability in the US is almost completely dead. :|
 
they did exactly what the government and the society was telling them was the right thing to do

Yeah,that's pretty sad really. That should read 'American society' where all human rights and dignity have fallen by the wayside.

Somehow 9/11 has made the U.S super paranoid and the citizens sit around while all their basic human rights are sytematically stripped away from them.

it's going to take some forward thinking people to get things back on track. Looking at this from Canada it is hard for me to fathom how people just let this happen.

9/11 was a terrible thing but living in paranoia is letting the jihadists win IMO. Not that increased precautions aren't warranted. Just people need to be vary wary about what they allow to happen. Skeptisism should be applied to every 'security' measure.
 
I first started using hard drugs when I started getting tested for cannabis. As did a bunch of my friends.
 
i feel bad 4 the parents because in the end they just trying to help and make there son have a gud life( in their eyes) and ended up loseing there son
 
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