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2 months without logging onto bluelight starting monday for charity

Mugz said:
I fuckinII fucking wont, ffs, I wish someone would just believe in me. It fucks me off so much that noone in my whole life has any faith in me at all. Might aswell take a sabbatical from life :(
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No, what you need to do is set yourself a task, a difficult one, and stick to it.

When you say things like you just said, this is the right time to do it.

A decent difficult task, that once you've completed you'll think to yourself you've really achieved something, that you and no-one else ever thought you would.

The worst thing you could do for yourself now, is set yourself a task, and give it up.
 
If u can Mugz then why not try to use your 2 months away from here to do 2 months without taking any drugs of any kind unless prescribed by a Doctor.
It would be good to give your mind and body a rest from the chemicals you have been using.
You never know you could feel so much better mentally after just a month or two of not using.
 
B&W said it earlier Mugz you should come back and tell people ONCE you've done something instead of continually telling us you're going to do stuff then never doing it. You've got unbelievable track record of making epic plans and not following through on any of it, is ir any wonder no one believes you? If you did something you said you were going to just once we might believe you every now and then.
 
I think folk don't believe you Mugz because you have said in the past you were starting something only to never finish it.
Why not use this opportunity to show everybody that when you say you are going to do something that you actually can and will do it.
Prove all the doubters wrong.
 
If just one person other than myself believed that I could do it I wouldn't be so fucking upset right now, but noone does, I'm just mugz the failure, granted that is because I fail at a lot of things but I just need one person to actually believe it and not just say it, but believe it, one person other than me.

I'll show you all anyway, but it would be nice to have some belief beforehand too.
 
Stop being a big baby. If you want to do something then do it whether other people believe you or not.
 
Mugz said:
If just one person other than myself believed that I could do it I wouldn't be so fucking upset right now, but noone does, I'm just mugz the failure, granted that is because I fail at a lot of things but I just need one person to actually believe it and not just say it, but believe it, one person other than me.

I'll show you all anyway, but it would be nice to have some belief beforehand too.
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Catching feelings off of taking a break from BL & people not believing you'll succeed? Hahaha.
 
Mugz:

Man from I own personal experience about life goals, plans and so on, I truly feel that the best way to do things is by doing them yourself and not relying on others, not even in terms of moral/emotional support, you don't need that, you're strong and motivated enought to grab life by the balls and put yourself on the right trajectory.

From what I've seen people who talk about their plans and make them public, never end up doing anything at all.

For instance for most of last year I worked my ass off as I wanted to save money to leave Europe. I got myself a visa and a plane ticket and by that point the only person who knew about my plan of coming to Australia was me. No one else knew. I didn't share my plans on facebook, I didn't tell my parents nor my friends. I got my visa in january and I bought the ticket in April. I told people I was leaving in the summer, like a month and a half before I actually left(end of August).

Same thing in 2010, I applied for a job in NY, got hired, got a visa, plane ticket and only told my parents after all these things had been arranged. I flew there on a monday and told my mates on the friday that I was leaving, we were down at a pub and I just told look I'm leaving for the US in two days.

I am absolutely certain that if I had wasted time looking for people's approval, wanting their attention or support, I would have never done a fucking thing in my life. I honestly think that talking about your plans brings bad luck(I'm very superstitious), I never tell anything unless it's all already sorted out and I have my suitcases by the door.

Obviously failure is always a possibility, for instance my Aus expedition hasn't turned out as well as I expected and by January I'm likely to be back living with my folks, skint and looking for a job. But guess what, fuck it, if you never try you can never fail. I couldn't care less if people back home mock me for coming back, or for failing to get a good job down here, they're fuck-heads who have barely left their hometown in all their lives anyway.

It's better to try and fail than to do nothing at all.

Good luck man
 
Mugz rather than be upset that no one has faith in you to deliver, you should ask yourself why people don't have faith in you. Turn questions inwards, taking responsibility and all that ;) Trust is earned.

Good luck with this. I guarantee you my fiver if you do it, and if you cheat thats your choice. Even if you're really high, it's still your choice.

You've had a lot of big changes recently and its good you focus on real human relationships for a while. BL is just a habit for you I'm sure, break the habit and after a few days you won't even miss it. And trust me, you won't be missing anything, same shit, different day.

Good luck old chap.

lol like someone said its as if you're about to step into an abyss or something, not take some time off an internet forum. Lets all get a grip, reality check =D

I'm really tempted to join you but over xmas and NY i know i'm going to need ways to chill and I do like to skin up and lurk.
 
Mental Kenny said:
Mugz:

Man from I own personal experience about life goals, plans and so on, I truly feel that the best way to do things is by doing them yourself and not relying on others, not even in terms of moral/emotional support, you don't need that, you're strong and motivated enought to grab life by the balls and put yourself on the right trajectory.

From what I've seen people who talk about their plans and make them public, never end up doing anything at all.

For instance for most of last year I worked my ass off as I wanted to save money to leave Europe. I got myself a visa and a plane ticket and by that point the only person who knew about my plan of coming to Australia was me. No one else knew. I didn't share my plans on facebook, I didn't tell my parents nor my friends. I got my visa in january and I bought the ticket in April. I told people I was leaving in the summer, like a month and a half before I actually left(end of August).

Same thing in 2010, I applied for a job in NY, got hired, got a visa, plane ticket and only told my parents after all these things had been arranged. I flew there on a monday and told my mates on the friday that I was leaving, we were down at a pub and I just told look I'm leaving for the US in two days.

I am absolutely certain that if I had wasted time looking for people's approval, wanting their attention or support, I would have never done a fucking thing in my life. I honestly think that talking about your plans brings bad luck(I'm very superstitious), I never tell anything unless it's all already sorted out and I have my suitcases by the door.

Obviously failure is always a possibility, for instance my Aus expedition hasn't turned out as well as I expected and by January I'm likely to be back living with my folks, skint and looking for a job. But guess what, fuck it, if you never try you can never fail. I couldn't care less if people back home mock me for coming back, or for failing to get a good job down here, they're fuck-heads who have barely left their hometown in all their lives anyway.

It's better to try and fail than to do nothing at all.

Good luck man
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Good post mate. I agree that you have to do things by yourself if you want to do them, you can't always have someone holding your hand or wait around till you've got someone to do it with. Though for me I find that there's more chance I'll do something if I announce it to everyone than not tell anyone. Because I've told everyone I'm going to do it I feel like I've got to or I'll look like a cunt. It's worked pretty well for me so far. After I graduated uni I did 2 months backpacking in Europe with a mate and I knew that I wanted go go away for longer and further afield ASAP after that so I announced to everyone I was going to Aus the following summer, got myself a job quick sharp, started saving every penny I could, kept talking about going to Aus all the time until it came to the point that I really couldn't not go because I'd hyped it up and talked about it so much. Forced me into booking a flight and going even though the thought of going out there solo into the unknown and not knowing a single person out there scared the fucking shit out of me. I think I hadn't told everyone about it and kept it to myself I'd probably have just came up with shitty reasons not to go...like "I've got no one to go with" or "it'll be shit by myself". Ended up 2 of my mates followed me out there coming out a few weeks after I did but I was loving so much travelling solo that I purposely avoided them because I didn't want them ruining my buzz. Now whenever I plan to do something big I just tell everyone and then it feels like I'm expected to do it and can't not.

Who gives a fuck what people say when you go back home at least you tried something new and had a good time in the process. Not like you'll have missed much back home. Nothing ever seems to change much. :\
 
I was going to say that TC shouldn't be allowed, but then I realized we're just going to switch the room and post it in the TC thread which he won't have access to.
 
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