^Ha, yeah man....I'm glad you appreciate my posts, I know I piss some people off, particularly when I'm drinking....I like arguing just for the hell of it and I think it comes off a lot more serious on a message forum than in real life....
Anyway, yeah...the onlt time I actually got clean for awhile, it was on methadone/coming off methadone.....
I was on methadone for three years total, I went up to 95 mgs and had no cravings for dope whatsoever....It makes you sweat LAMF if you go up past a certain point with it, and I hated that! No matter what I did, my forehead just poured sweat with even the most minor exertion or increase in temperature!
I used a lot of crack in the first year! I actually got pretty bad on that for the first time on methadone!..The first year, I lived with my parents worked full time, and hid in my room on the weekends hittin the crack pipe with a towel up against the crack on my door, it sucked!
One day, I realized how depressed I'd be every Monday going to work broke after getting paid Friday, and it dawned on me.... "maybe if I DONT smoke crack on the weekends, I wouldn't be broke and depressed anymore! DUH!
I went to AA for the next 2 years while on methadone and didn't use anything but methadone....I only told a few people in AA about it though....NA has always seemed really seedy and sketchy to me....My friend used to call this one NA meeting, "The Source awards", because everybody who went up to the podium had do-rags and gold and the "guinea jumpsuit"!...lol
I started coming down on my dose after 1 1/2 years.....I kind of went up and down and changed the way I was detoxing for awhile....I went down from 70mgs to 20(i think) in 2mg a week increments and was completely fine....Then, I said "fuck it" and went from 20 mgs to 0, coming down 1 mg a day!
The end wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be actually! Don't get me wrong, I couldn't sleep for 5 days(my record now is 11) and I was anxious and had the shits for a month, but it had been so long since I used anything but methadone, I was in a good mental space to deal with it....
I was 25 when I got off methadone after being on it for 3 years, and I only really started using heroin at 20....So by the time I got off of it, I was on methadone longer than I was on dope....
Moved to Florida and stayed clean for a year after that from everything, but eventually started smoking weed....that lasted a year...then drinking....eventually got handed 5-6 oxy 40s for free etc etc.....
Fast forward 7 or so years, and I really never made it more than a few months off everything, and that was summer/fall 2011.....I was off all opiates and just drinking until going back home and fucking with dope for 3 weeks in Jan/Feb....Now I'm back in the midwest trying to detox from Suboxone again!....*sigh
I could go on forever about my playing around with suboxone for 7 years, barely taking it at all for almost that whole time, but it would be a boring story!!
If you really can't stop and you think you couldn't handle the suboxone, maybe methadone would be the way to go for awhile, although anyone who's ever been on methadone would probably have a hard time outright promoting it as a good idea....
I think if you feel like you've come to the point that trying ORT is a good idea, you should try it man! It will make it easier to get your life back on track and will probably give your family some peace of mind!