I have not laughed this hard at a Bluelight thread in a long time!! *subscribes*
Obviously, any psychedelic would be a bad idea in any amount. The anxiety from a first date would probably blast you into a bad trip and we obviously know why that wouldn't be good. Even a good trip might have you unintentionally awkwardly staring at the table cloth, talking/rambling about the weirdest shit, and depending on your mindstate, you may even be compelled to admit to your date that you are on something. That will NOT go over well, even if she's into that sort of thing. I'd be insulted if I knew my first date was tripping...I would be like "WTF do you like not care about this at all? Did you assume I'd be such a boring person you felt the need to take drugs to hang out with me? Gahfugyaself!!" *flips you off and walks out, sticking your stoner ass with the bill and a lonely night*
Same would go for pretty much anything that could be considered an experience in itself. Any psychedelic, or anything in high doses would be a bad idea. A tiny bit of amphetamine, or an opiate, kratom, a benzo, maybe some kava, all very reasonable things to take before a date, but in REASONABLE doses just enough to take an edge off, fend off any possible w/d's you are in, calm nerves, give a tad of energy for the night, etc.. If you're getting fucked up, all pinned out on opiates and nodding off, slurring speach and all that, or getting all tweaked out on amps or coke,
you may not realize you're acting strange because you're on the drug. To a sober person, especially someone you're making a first impression on, you might come off as a freakin' weirdo and then you chance blowing a potentially amazing relationship. Also, if the person knows what they're looking at, how's it going to feel when your date says "Wait a minute, umm, are you high???" Now how will you feel? All for what, a little buzz you could've just waited a couple hours for? C'mon, drugs aren't THAT cool...
Just go on your date sober like a normal person and pull euphoria from the simple fact that a pretty girl/handsome guy likes you enough to consider you a potential partner and wants to spend an evening with you. Doesn't that make you feel on top of the world in the first place?
EDIT: After re-reading my post, it appears like I'm calling a specific person out. I am not, this is a generalized statement, not particularly aimed at the OP or anyone else.
