I just became a regular uncle for the first time 2 years ago. I'm 36, my sister is 33, and my brother (whose kid he is) is 29. Of course, the youngest was the first to have a kid. They also have another one due in July. My sister and her husband are unsure about having kids but probably will in the next couple of years. I am super conflicted about kids, I absolutely love kids, truly, and they love me. I find kids fascinating and so much fun to hang out with, I guess, being very in touch with my inner child, I relate to them. Their innocence and lack of all the shit things that (most) adults develop is really refreshing and nice to be around. I know I would be a great dad, and I don;t want to miss out on one of the fundamental experiences of being a human. But also my band is on the road a lot (usually) and we're trying to get as far as we can go, and I wouldn't want to not be there consistently for my kid. And also my girlfriend, who I love dearly and want to remain with for the forseeable duration, doesn't want kids. So... dunno if it's in the cards for me, but we'll see.