Damn dude, be careful with the pills. Hopefully being sick did get you over it. And the lady sounds nice, something positive to focus on, and I imagine she was a nice, healthy Shroomy around too. I know my using, whether I was honest about it or not, has screwed up some of my relationships/potential for such in the past. The worst being when you're both getting high, ugh, talk about toxic.
My past two relationships were chaotic, and my opiate use was a major contribution to that. I would lose my sex drive completely when using heavily and that messed us both up. If you are both using, at least it's potentially fair (drugs come before such morals and values, however). Sucks to see someone else being hurt who doesn't deserve it (even if it's something like not getting any, or watching me hurt myself, wasted time and money etc.).
This time I have been clean since meeting her and I have a new job. I am sick for the second day in a row, but my spirits are high. Why would I use more when it makes me feel this shit. There is no point but there is no point getting caught up in dope sickness either so I am just trying not to think about it. She is a lovely lady and since I helped her with her assignment today she owes me dinner before she heads on vacation. Just an excuse for another date really and I would maybe like to make out with her this time.
It is not possible for me to have a healthy relationship and be a heavy opiate user. Even nodding out and getting high for 5 days straight like this would be really hard to conceal if I was doing it on a regular basis, and it's just not something I'd want to do often due to the constant ups and downs. I almost always get high as fuck sometime during the holidays, so fuck it.
Worst is also thinking back to how a relationship would have / might have gone in a different direction if you weren't constantly relapsing on oxy's. I wouldn't consider this 5 day binge a relapse because I am over it already. Not fiending another hit or anything but really I was pushing my limits. As I am physically sick without them now and it is the 2nd day. Tomorrow, I won't be right either so it wasn't worth it as I already feel great most of the time.
Yeah she only knows the sober and tripping me. I had to convince her I am not a junkie, and pretty much stick with weed and psychs. I'm like... when we were partying that 2c-c shit ain't coke it just looks like it, psychedelic like lsd. That cleared things up lol she is cool with psychedelics and dropped acid with me at the end of one of our days together but she takes her time to analyze and think. She never forgets anything, it took me so long to realize that, but she has a photographic memory. I will ask her a question and it seems like she is off in her own little world and then she'll answer it a week later, after I forgot I asked it. She is crazy like that, acid and stimulants are her drugs. She would hate opiates oh man if she saw me nodding the fuck out she'd be like WTF that looks like the most boring thing ever opiates would bore her to death. All the waste time sick, and nodding off and stuff oh that would kill this girl. She likes the odd stimulant a little white. So do I so no problem there. Oh she is so damn cute and attractive I could write essays about her. She said something really damn cute to me today... randomly... she is like that. Wonder if I will get kisses next time. lol.
But yeah especially once you have had a habit in the past the brain doesn't forget. 5 days fucked my head up seriously and altered the course of this week for me. Luckily I have some chill time just working mornings, and helping her with her assignment I can do from bed. I will have to get up at some point and have our dinner date I think I know where she will take me it's a nice old fashioned pub. So hopefully that is a few days from now as I will likely be sick for as long as I was high.
Reminding myself of the sickness once in a while isn't so bad. It's not like I'm straight up heroin sick right now... feels like the very tail end of a hardcore heroin detox 10 days in or somethin... I've never been in a relationship where we both did dope. The chicks I have dated all enjoyed alcohol, and stimulants. Little Mdma, and white. Didn't smoke weed and I smoke all day so our drug use was separate and mine was far heavier. This girl is too nice to fuck with for a high man I already potentially did by getting myself oxy sick. If she wanted to hang out tonight I'd be a little overwhelmed to say the least. Driving someplace right now would be irritating as hell... those 5 days sorta fucked me up but I was nodding super hard and I'll feel better soon : )