I'm here with you. 14 months clean, relapsed bad, a month again. My woman left. I knew we couldnt last long, we fell for each other so hard, but she was unhappily married, in another state. So I have the guilt of setting myself up for failure. it just happened. Was ok a few, then virus hit us, and work stopped, money stopped, my hobbies, along with everything else was gone. Sitting home alone, my mind started going bad. Now, I have a bad habit, in bad depression, but, I want my life back. I want to get clean so bad. But, afraid of 1st, going thru the induction process again, 2nd, once I'm clean and stabile again, how do I stay positive, keep myself from relapsing again. How does anyone stay clean, when we cant interact with others that are clean. I love playing guitar, I cant even hold a beat, or feel music at all. I'm in a hole, I dont see a way out of. I cant be with the one I love, I cant do anything I love doing. Stuck all alone, just fighting depression, which has been a loosing battle. Someone help. Please....