As a former annoyance and obsessive shit poster, it's taken a few years for me to learn some skills, like considering other people's posts, and trying to think before I post and be considerate of others. I feel a lot better about myself for it, but I completely understand we're all coming from different places in our recovery. All good. Its nice to see people bring things like this up on Bluelight, if you look closely you might notice the 12 steps playing out, at least that's what I see in OP's posts.