I try to have discipline and use drugs and not let them control me, which has been working somewhat since I went to rehab in 07 but if we are talking down right addictionwhich to me is waking up and first thing wondering how am I going to get my shot/bottle/pipe etc and fucking off everything else in life (family, work, friends,)until I am 'fixed' then do me that is a down right weakness.
Anyways just my 2 cents..
Peace
The question as framed asks if addiction is a weakness. I cannot understand how anyone can argue a compulsive reliance on something extraneous to them could be anything other than a weakness. If you do not control it (the addiction), it controls you...at least to some degree.
Does that make the addict "weak"? Not necessarily. Indeed, I would prefer to say "no" because that label has a negative connotation. I have lost friuends to drug addiction and the last thing they needed to hear in active addiction was "you are weak". What they needed to hear was "It is in your power if you take it."
Having been very anti-drug all my life, I started IVing Ice (methamphetamine) coming up six months ago.
Am I addicted to it? Don't think so, not
yet. Am I developing an unhealthy reliance on it for my social life? Absolutely, it is much too much fun.
Can I sometimes say "No" when offered? Yes, as recently as the last two nights. Do I sometimes fail to say "No" when I know I should (whether to be make sure I'm right to go to work on Monday, or because I am run down, or because I know I've already had enough)? Yes, most recently last weekend and, increasingly, more often.
I have always taken great pride in my strength of will. But now I can understand directly how an addiction can take hold of your life if you are simply enjoying it. And my strength of will mean jackshit if don't remind myself to enjoy it by all means but keep my guard up; don't accept what I know to be pathetic excuses to use because it feels good.
Because by the time it ceases to feel good - and becomes just about feeling less bad - it is too late. It has you in its grip. You are out of control.
Even if you function easily in the rest of your life.
Now, obviously, I am talking about drug addiction in my case (OK, ice) but its no less true of the compulsive shopper or the chocaholic or whatever. It's just the consequences can be so much worse.
Long story short...yes of course it has to be a weakness.