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paulin318

paulin318

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So I just met this new girl and we have hung out twice. I am having a roll party soon and want her to try it she has never rolled but I dont know how to bring it up to her any advice? Thanks
 
Build a proper friendship with her first... If you say "hey, wana come do drugs with me?" right off the bat she'll either already be a drugs fiend or she'll tell you to fuck off. If you like her, then build the bridge first before you set it on fire....
 
Ya I have been working on the bridge building and kinda brought it up already but didn't get to finish the convo she seemed interested (we were drinking though) so thats the only reason I am stuck dont know how to bring it up again? -_-
 
this is a kind of hard question because we dont know the chick. i have know clue what her personality is and what her outlooks on life are. I think this is up to your judgement to see if she wants to roll. if she does give her a standard 80mg-100mg dose i think and take it from there. IMO.
 
paulin318 said:
Ya I have been working on the bridge building and kinda brought it up already but didn't get to finish the convo she seemed interested (we were drinking though) so thats the only reason I am stuck dont know how to bring it up again? -_-
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Bridges aren't built in a date or two...

why are you so interested in getting a girl you met know to try MDMA?

Are you asking for tips on how to manipulate her into taking it or something?

Be a decent guy and wait a month or something. If not you're just some creep trying to give her drugs. Have you guys had sex yet? Are you just trying to get laid? I mean you barely know her why else would you want to give her MDMA? It doesn't make sense any other way with a girl you don't know....... If she was your SO for awhile maybe, but wtf?
 
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Don't do it. Introducing people to drugs is never right. Even if it's E. From my experience, you're putting someone down a dark tunnel, that you have no idea whether they're mature enough to make it out of.

Now if she asks to do it, then that's different.
 
Were having a party in a few nights time and most of us are rolling/taking MDMA - do you want to come along.
 
Well first off I am not a creep or trying to just get laid or manipulate someone. I was just trying to ask how to bring it up in a convo because we had discussed it before. IDK guess I made it sound like I'm a creeper not the intentions behind it all. It is more kinda fell for this chick and wanted her to experience how you can really get to know someone when rolling. You know what I mean by this I know theres other ways to get to know someone but I had the roll party already planned before I met her so wanted to experience it with her. You cant tell me that you wouldn't want to roll with someone that you clicked with even if it was a few dates IDK.
 
I'd throw a term like rolling at her to see if she even has a clue.
IE: "I was at bassnectar a week ago, place was a complete roll fest."
Do something that doesn't imply you roll or are involved with it, but somehow mix it in the conversation to see if she reacts positively (Oh I've always wanted to try it, yada yada yada.) or negatively (God I hate ecstasy! drugs killed my father and raped my mother!) etc. etc.
 
^ Good idea , best way to go about it really.

If someone has in their minds to take drugs, at some point,
They WILL take drugs no matter what really lol,

So at least let it be with friendly people all having a good time
 
Hide a pill between your cheeks and moon her if she says "WTF?!" and looks away than wait, if she says "hey whats that in your ass? can i try it?" shes a keeper

But seriously if you want to do it soon and you know shes really kinda down for anything or already dabbles in the drug world you should just say "hey there's a party next week and were rolling would you want to come?"

drop hints or if you don't want to risk you losing her just yet than just lay low for a bit maybe she'll be around when your friends are talking about it and that could let her know with out you getting your balls burnt.
 
paulin318 said:
Well first off I am not a creep or trying to just get laid or manipulate someone. I was just trying to ask how to bring it up in a convo because we had discussed it before. IDK guess I made it sound like I'm a creeper not the intentions behind it all. It is more kinda fell for this chick and wanted her to experience how you can really get to know someone when rolling. You know what I mean by this I know theres other ways to get to know someone but I had the roll party already planned before I met her so wanted to experience it with her. You cant tell me that you wouldn't want to roll with someone that you clicked with even if it was a few dates IDK.
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Just go get some, test it, if its good, ask her if she's interested. Tell her you would like to. See what happens.
 
Renz Envy said:
Don't do it. Introducing people to drugs is never right. Even if it's E. From my experience, you're putting someone down a dark tunnel, that you have no idea whether they're mature enough to make it out of.

Now if she asks to do it, then that's different.
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I agree.

If something went wrong now or in the future then you'd be responsible.
 
severely etarded said:
Just go get some, test it, if its good, ask her if she's interested. Tell her you would like to. See what happens.
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I used to just let them see me roll.. and they would "want to see what it was like" after.. But Renz Envy does have a good point.. A couple ppl I have introduced to E kinda got into different stuff after that.
 
AgentEran said:
But Renz Envy does have a good point.. A couple ppl I have introduced to E kinda got into different stuff after that.
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qft.

One of my best friends dated a girl a couple times, she got him some beans because he wanted some and she had connects but never tried them. Well she ended up trying them with him (he had rolled several times before already, she was a 'virgin' to MDMA). After that it was non-stop rolling for about a month for her, she ended up fucking all these random guys and acting like a fool. it wasn't like she cheated on him; he just couldn't stand her non-stop rolling rolling rolling so he broke it off as soon as he saw where it was headed. now they don't speak, heard she's into all kinds of drugs. she was smokin hot too. smokin... hottest girl I've ever seen him with

so yes, consider Renz Envy's point (and this little anecdote) carefully before giving her MDMA
 
Andronicus said:
I agree.

If something went wrong now or in the future then you'd be responsible.
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I disagree entirely, especially in relation to the part in bold. I don't even know where to start here, but you are completely and utterly wrong.

By your logic, every single one of us has someone to blame for our drug abuse, addictions etc? The first person that gave us a drink of alcohol/puff of a joint etc. is responsible for all actions in relation to mind altering substances after that?

I'm sorry, but what a load of crap. We make our own choices in life.

Disclaimer: I am not condoning illicit drug use, nor denying the dangers. I am also certainly not saying that it is a good idea for the OP to introduce this girl to MDMA either - I do not know her, or even know anything about her (age, mental state etc) so I simply won't comment on it. This is more of a general statement really - I'm a big believer in taking responsibility for one's own actions/choices.
 
The only flaw in your plan is that people aren't really 'themselves' when they're rolling. You can learn everyones deepest darkest secrets, even though they didnt even really want to say but for 'some reason' felt 'compelled' to say. You can be somebody's best friend for a night. You can make connections with people and forge bonds that seem unbreakable, until the morning. MDMA makes everyone a more exagerrated, emotional, giving and deeper person of 90% of those who take it, but its not really genuine.

It's only when you have these unbreakable bonds and you already know alot of this person's dark secrets that the bond you make when you roll together is genuine.... Sorry to be a long-winded spoilsport but I see this ending badly IMO
 
Renz Envy said:
Don't do it. Introducing people to drugs is never right. Even if it's E. From my experience, you're putting someone down a dark tunnel, that you have no idea whether they're mature enough to make it out of.

Now if she asks to do it, then that's different.
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I second this- introducing someone to the world of drugs is serious. Whether they deal with it well or not, it's not something that I would want to bear responsibility for. The honeymoon period for MDMA can be lifechanging, and not always for the better, in my experience.
 
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