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girls watching porn... hot or not

I dont find it hot that a girl would watch porn (I doubt they do), I think I they did and admitted it, it would signify they feel sexually liberated and are not total prudes.

Is men watching porn, hot to women?
 
Coolio said:
My next date with a girl is to masturbate to pornography together. It'll be fun seeing how we compromise on what to look at or watch as we're going at it.
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now that is HOT i would love to do that and add no touching each other to the mix


Lysis said:
Porn is cool at first, because it kinda gives you ideas, especially if you're new. I watched it when I was younger, because I felt like I was new, but it doesn't turn me on at all. I have too much fondness with physical touch, and I started getting bored with porn, because it's alllll the same damn shit. LOL Girl sucks on cock, guy licks pussy, then penetration. Meh.
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lol true but i can't watch "professional" porn anymore i have grown sick of seeing the fake women and looped scenes. So i watch amateur porn that has "real" women that look like women you see everyday
 
kingme said:
why would there be any difference between guys and girls watching porn?
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I'm pretty sure you intended this to be a rhetorical question however I'm in my warm happy place and feel like rambling so I'm going to answer.

I think in a way (obviously not literally) it is different for girls to be looking at porn than guys (not that I think it should be), the difference being the way that society views it and the different pressures put on each gender to conform to a norm.

Without going into the why just think of two grown men walking together down the city mall holding hands maybe even kissing and then think of the same situation but with two women, It's obvious that western society treats them differently. Same goes with a guy wearing a skirt (exception for the scotish) or girls wearing power suits (not overly womanly cut ones), society will definably judge them.
And I think it's the same with porn. For me personally a girl being open enough to admit looking at porn is a turn on, and yeh I think it would be great watching it together. However society norms don't readily accept that point of view and people like this guys boyfriends are definably not abnormal nor should they be looked down upon for holding old fashioned, most probably unjustified views. Most of us on this website have probably been looked down up at some point of time for just being on bluelight when someone walked in the room, or doing drugs or what have you. Society hasn't learned to fully embrace harm reduction of having fun, but that's not a 'totally' bad thing.

Everyone has the right to an opinion but nobody has the right to force their opinion on anybody else. Live your life to fulfil your expectations and no one elses. Live in the present and without regret (if you have regret, think of the things you learn't from the experience and move on). And if you're happy with your decisions and you haven't harmed anybody else making them than you have probably lived the life millions of people have prayed,died,fought and looked for.

Of course all that is only my oppinion. ;)
 
I honestly could not care less, unless it somehow negatively affected the real, physical love-making that we enact.
 
stonerette69 said:
so i love to watch porn.. dont get me wrong im not like addicted but when its late and i have nothing to do i just browse the web and find a good porno..
i told my ex bf this and he flipped out on me telling me it was wrong and dirty...
just wondering y'alls opions :)
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your ex bf is as ignorant as a troll. why would you associate yourself with someone so sexually oppressive?

i think the question of the OP is misogynistic and closed minded. why is everyone so concerned with women enjoying their sexuality in a free and uninhibited manner?

thats a rhetorical question...

my gf is an adamant connoisseur of porn. i think she watches more than i do. we browse together often, luckily we have almost exactly the same tastes.

i think women expressing themselves in a visceral sexual manner is quite "hot." the medium with which that is expressed is irrelevant.
 
This thread makes me think of a 56-year-old, lonely woman who's getting off watching pictures of handsome, well-built young guys... lol
 
Defo hot, or at least defo can be.

My g/f loves some very dirty porn now and again, and on some special occasions we might well have a bit of a porn-binge together - tis great!
 
Porn is available for anyone to view..... I see no reason to pass judgement for either gender! I have every intention of watching more porn but I always get sidetracked with researching shit ad infinitum. I'm sure that exposing myself to that kind of imagery would heighten my chances of emulating such acts (a study has actually confirmed that women who read erotic fiction have more active sex lives than those who don't - hence I feel porn would have a similar effect upon the lives of its audience) ;)
 
Yeah it's quite hot - me & my ex used to occasionally watch some porn and fuck like bunnies for hours - spurned on by what we were watching, and occasionally try something we hadn't before - was always fun.
 
Absolutely NOTHING wrong w a girl watching porn. There is nothing more attractive than a girl who understands, and explores, her own sexuality.

Plus it provides an excellent 'couple activity' for plenty of bonding : )

HOT!
~J
 
I just starting watching porn again. I like watching porn when I am stoned. But I dont like all these dpa's and facial, and anal. Overload of the felatio. Really what want our of porn is to see a girl get eaten out until she comes, then the guy or girl just fucks her brains out. I am boring and selfish sexually. I would watch more porn if I really could see the guys takeing care of in girls in porn.
 
The way I see it, guys know other guys are, as women will tell you, "pigs," which is precisely why many guys don't like their ladies going to clubs and dancing with other guys, when they see it as just having fun dancing, and the guy most likely sees it as an opportunity to rub his dick on something warm and maybe later lead to a bed (but I digress), so I think it bugs some guys when their lady does something that's generally seen as a male activity, that girls might call "objectifying" or whatever. Am I making sense?
 
Not entirely. Expand on this. Honestly I didn't give a blow job until I was 22. Now most girls start with giving head these days I went the other way around. Straight for the vaginal. Most people my age and younger see oral especially on the guys as not being intimate at all. I disagree. What could be more intimate then sticking someones genitals in your mouth. Once finally did it it wasn't so bad. I didn't love it but I would do it again. I just don't like the idea of a guy thinking I don't have the same right to the same pleasure. As for the more kinky or dirty stuff I think for me it depends on how many times I am with a sexual partner. If I am with someone for a while the kinker and dirtier the sex might get real dirty and kinky. As far as porn goes I want guys to consider this some of the girls might genually enjoy what they do. But what people also need to keep in mind is is these girls are getting paid thousands of dollars a scene to do these scenes. I'm not saying I will not watch the facial and dpa scenes I just prefer what I mentioned above. If I am not turned on by a porn scene I just make fun of it. Sex and porn is both an amusing and fascinating subject for me.
 
I didn't know it was an issue. My ex and I used to watch it from time to time but my wife isn't into it, she thinks they are all faking it and finds it mildly amusing.. It's not the be all and all after all.
 
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