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I just recently found out my girlfriend is injecting heroin behind my back

Dr.DOB said:
i dont think shes taking advantage of me
and she would do it without me anyways
i dont think you understand that
also she wont get any STDs
she only shoots with me
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If you yourself wind up starting to IV H/dope, or if you start to IM K don't share needles with her. Start using condoms too when you have sex.

If you're going to IV drugs don't share needles/rigs with anyone.

Not even your girlfriend/partner, wife/husband, or best friend.
 
Dr.DOB said:
i dont think shes taking advantage of me
and she would do it without me anyways
i dont think you understand that
also she wont get any STDs
she only shoots with me
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You stated in your OP that she stole K from you and replaced it with flour. If she was fuck'n with tar at the time she probably went straight to her dealer and traded for a balloon. She is also bumming rides and God knows what else from you to support her addiction. That's taking advantage of you.

You are right. She will continue to shoot dope without you until the day she dies, or decides for herself that its time to quit and get help. She won't want to quit while she still has people to support her habit, though.

How much do you trust her not to shoot with other people? With your life? Because that's what you are gambling with. Man some junkies fuck their dealers for smack. Don't share needles with her and use a damn jimmy cap. Shit, I'd make her get an STD screening every few weeks if I was you. Seriously, you can't trust a junkie. Sorry if I sound harsh man, but its only because I've been there and seen it happen. Yeah, you might have some perfectly unique situation where it all just works out, but EVERYONE who has been in your situation thought that same thing.
 
Don't bother artic, he clearly doesn't care for himself if he's going to gamble his life away for a vagina. I don't think he got the memo that there are millions of females on the planet and lots of them don't have the issues his girlfriend has. He's codependent and probably addicted to not only drugs but the drama. Maybe he will see the error of his ways when something truly terrible happens, maybe not. But he's grown. No one can make him choose correctly.
 
Dr., from the title and first bits in your OP i thought you were saying that finding out ur gf is shooting H n stealing your K is a problem. then your last paragraph sums up your feelings in a far different way;
"So basically the moral of the story is that sometimes your girlfriend can be addicted to something that may seem detrimental to your relationship, but can actually enhance it ten fold."

you've defended your point of view to everyone who commented.
so exactly what kind of assistance do you want/need?

do you honestly see no troubles in your relationship? i mean, she calls you doctor and god too which is most def an intoxicating mix all on it's own.
c'mon man... how many days before it all falls down?

i truly wish you and your gf the very best of luck and much love. y'all gonna need it
-izzy
 
Bro. U dont kno an addict till ur are one. She's going behind ur back doing god knows what. Drop her. I kno its tough but u got to.

Just went thru the same thing.

Man up and do it. Its tough but you;ll be stronger after u do it.
 
Sounds to me like she was on an acid trip, making your impudent cock look like it was throbbing at the same time that the walls were bleeding and her putrid, stinking yeast infection exploded on the bed along with the vomit from both of your mouths.

Thanks for the funny story you god among dogs -- lol

...oh, actually, that made me think. Perhaps she is dyslexic and she meant you "fuck me like a dog" when your piss dribbled on her thigh when you had one leg up on her in the kitchen.

ROTFLMAO
 
ch00n said:
So let me get this straight, you were mad at your gf for banging H because it's dangerous, then you reversed your position completely just because you got your dick wet.

cool story brah
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LOL - this!!

seriously.... some people choose to stay in the dark... it is their choice. I had this happen to me as well. a lover stealing from me. he also proceeded to bust into my old man's house and steal laptops (which were later recovered on someone's roof in a neighbouring suburb). anyway, this is not a lesson that can be taught, only learned. enjoy the ride bro :p
 
axl blaze said:
I think it's better for ya'll to just find out on your own. no offense or anything, it is just best that way
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This is not harm reduction, moderator!

But to the first couple posts, pass the popcorn please!
 
Damn dude, ya'll got a nice poly-substance abuse, co-dependent situation goin on there.

Even your responses... you don't really sound like you want it to stop. If she's going to college in the fall anyways, it doesn't sound like you are in this for the long one, so you might want to get out of it or just enjoy the ride bro, it doesn't really sound like this is going anywhere good.
 
m060mm said:
This is not harm reduction, moderator!

But to the first couple posts, pass the popcorn please!
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um, what? I already tried to tell him why IV H use is bad for him and his girl, but alas as I said, it is only something someone can learn from empirically

obviously, you have never been in this situation, as you sound like you have no idea what you are talking about
 
Dr.DOB said:
She eventually tells me that she stole some of my K and replaced it with flour.
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God damn that's ruthless. If she'll do that for K, imagine what she'll do for some diesel. I mean to replace your mans K with some flour that's pretty fucked up, you said you used to inject her with it, what if somebody else injected that fuckin flour? I'd rather just be ripped off then have my shit replaced with flour. Pretty soon you'll be comin home and be like "Damn...where'd the TV go?"
 
seems to me like the op likes drama and attention and thinks that being with someone who is unstable and untrustworthy makes for an entertaining story he can then milk for attention/sympathy at a later date.

which is what he has done so far. if you need to make your life THAT "interesting" go for it.

self preservation is a skill that you have to learn, and in this case quickly...
 
anazillaaah said:
Don't bother artic, he clearly doesn't care for himself if he's going to gamble his life away for a vagina. I don't think he got the memo that there are millions of females on the planet and lots of them don't have the issues his girlfriend has. He's codependent and probably addicted to not only drugs but the drama. Maybe he will see the error of his ways when something truly terrible happens, maybe not. But he's grown. No one can make him choose correctly.
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ja


Fuck dude

You are deeply in denial.

JUSTIFICATION JUSTIFICATION JUSTIFICATION.

THou protesteth too much - split up, this is going somewhere REALLY bad if you're loving the fact you got some hot sex, while your girl is nodding out - she's anaethetizing her inner demons, and it sounds like you have been doing the same since you were 12.

Why not get a job you love, instead of wearing a fucking monkey suit all wekk - only to look forward to the weekend?!

To put it bluntly...you sound like you're smart, but you are FACILILITATING her.

Just flat out refuse to help her score/inject H/have anything to do with it.

Also, she was totally manipulating you - making your ego massive with all the lush comments, so you'll fuck her and leave her alone so she can screw herself up with the skag.

Ouch dude. watch thaT, hombre.

axl blaze said:
it is only something someone can learn from empirically
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sieg heil my friend. "I can't help you, if you won't help yourself..."

Experience is wisdom.
 
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Jblazingphoenix100 said:
ja
Why not get a job you love, instead of wearing a fucking monkey suit all wekk - only to look forward to the weekend?!

To put it bluntly...you sound like you're smart, but you are FACILITATING her.

Also, she was totally manipulating you - making your ego massive with all the lush comments, so you'll fuck her and leave her alone so she can screw herself up with the skag.
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What is a monkey suit, do you mean a formal suit?
I love the job I have and I enjoy putting on a suit everyday and getting respect from my colleagues. I don't only wait for the weekends, probably because I do H daily but also because I actually like when I'm at my job I get lots of love as well as some hate. Yes I'm facilitating her but I love her and she loves me. We have been together for almost two years and I was the one who introduced her to heroin so this is kind of my fault. Look she is bi polar, she could be medicating with a prescription drug and you probably would advocate that, but instead she is doing an illegal drug that works better than any schedule III substance. Yes she did give me a lot of compliments, but I for some reason think they are genuine. I could be weary and presume she doesn't really love me, but I'd rather be optimistic rather than paranoid. Some people smoke weed everyday to make themselves happy and nobody looks down on them on here, some peoples weed happens to be heroin, its just a different type of person.
 
Fair dos. Fair dos.

I certainly would NEVER advocate a prescription drug. EVER.

Drugs don't make people happy. I have done enough of them, and I'm sure you have too - they just create a gap in time when you can pretend nothing from the past is real, and you're in a lil bubble - Nothing wrong with medicating with heroin...IF you have some debilitating disease, and are in serious pain.

She has something which needs work and effort put in! You have to work to be happy if you;re not - the only way by doing this is breaking the cycles that trigger the crappy times - then if you're left with ups and downs...well, you're just like the rest of us.

What I mean is - you're not helping her be good to herself, you are just enabling her, you are enabling her to keep herself from being truly happy, or as happy as she can get - nodding isn't happy!

Also - I'm not one to say her compliments aren't genuine, just that using them in abundance at this particular time - well, it's obvious really.
 
I think we all really need to stop feeding this attention to the OP because he's clearly not going to listen. And i bet he's relishing all this.



And ugh i'm sorry if nobody else feels this way but heroin in just such a dirty, yucky drug and so are the people that become junkies from it. Gross.
 
You shoved heroin up your asshole with this girl. LOL. If that is not a sign your life needs a change, I dont know what is
 
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