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My friend might become an abuser

sheepie

sheepie

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Okay so quick story. This girl is KIND OF an alcoholic. She doesn't drink every day or anything but when parties do come around she drinks a LOT and she drinks before she even goes to the party. So she has a little bit of an addictive personality.

Anyway, she's been in a relationship with a really nice guy for some 6 months. I figured it would be really cute to give them MDMA.

I educated her on some keys of ecstasy use.. ex, it's a spice of life, if you plan on doing it regularly then that's fundamentally wrong, wait at least a month in between, preferably only a couple times a year, etc etc

So I sold her two, thinking she would do them with her boyfriend. But then I realized all she was looking for was a "high"... Basically, I got a txt from her boyfriend about a week later and he was like "she took the pill!!! what should i do?" I told him take the other one!!!! but he pussied out.

Later that night I met up with them because my friend was having a party and everyone was invited. She claimed she was a "changed woman" because of E... Although, my original idea was for it to help their relationship get closer.

So another two weeks later I found out she took the 2nd cap, which was supposed to be for her boyfriend. I got angry and confronted them.

This all happened around october. I told them I wouldn't sell them any until new year's.

So we're at a new years party and I met her... she was already drunk. I told her I wouldn't sell her any for tonight because she's already pretty wasted. She said she wouldnt do it tonight anyway... and then I was like "O RLY? well I'm not selling you any unless you promise me your boyfriend will do it with you" and then she said she couldn't make that promise.

So I talked to her boyfriend. He was really hesitant about the whole thing. He doesn't want to take it because he had a bad experience with weed. I told him that he can definitely handle it. I mean he quit cigarettes. Quitting ecstasy is a piece of cake compared to that. But he still didn't want to. So I ended up not selling any.

Now she's texting me saying that if I don't sell her any she'll get other people to get her some... that will probably be cut. And she's blaming me for ruining her because I'm not selling her MDMA. She could be bluffing, but maybe not.

What do you think I should do?
 
I've been rolling for many years and never really met anyone that negatively affected their life by taking E. It's nothing like opiates where people begin pawning off all their wordly possessions to get. EVERYONE loves it when they first start doing it, but almost every person I've ever met also slowed down after a while. Here I am nearly a decade into my rolling career and I just rolled last night for the first time in 2 years.

What I'm trying to say is it's hard to 'abuse' ecstasy since it isn't really physically addictive. I would rather give my friend a pure product than have them go out and get some junk off the street. I'm not saying I would help my friend dose every other day, but at least a couple weeks in between drops should be plenty.
 
First off, stop pushing drugs on people. Her boyfriend does not have to do E just because you think he should.

Second, how is that girl an alcoholic just because she predrinks? It's a normal thing, you drink before you go out so you're a bit looser and not an uptight prick for a couple hours,

Third off, stop talking to this girl. People like that have their own finger on their self destruct button.
 
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She asked for it first. I never pushed it on her. I just said I'll sell it to you so long as your boyfriend is doing it too. And maybe it is creepy, I don't care. She said it did help their relationship. But relatively speaking it's a waste of E if she didn't do it with her boyfriend. E might become a selfish pleasure drug rather than a relationship-opener if she continues down this road.

Thanks for the advice guys
 
I personally do think that MDMA can be addictive, psychologically. When people used to say they were addicted to x, I didn't believe them. But then I realized that I, myself, had an x problem. I was rolling every weekend, sometimes on random days like a Monday. And beyond the frequency, I had jacked my tolerance so high that I was taking about 8 over the span of a Saturday night, because in my mind I could always roll harder (btw, I weigh 135lbs). It eventually took multiple friends having a mini-intervention, telling me that it was getting out of hand. I have since spread out each time I roll, and appreciated whatever roll I get. To get to the point, MDMA is psychologically addictive, and it's easy to let it get out of hand.

Now for your friends problem, explain that you understand how amazing rolling is, but you will enjoy it more if she makes it something special (such as only for certain events)

best of luck :)
 
Eventually she will get negative effects and stop. This one girl i introduced to it rolled 3 times a week for 3 weeks then stopped for a long time. She thought what she was doing was fine and i wasn't around to stop her. Now she barely rolls since she associates it with negative effects from abusing it.

Sad sure but thats what happens when people who dont know or use drugs for other reasons abuse ones they cant. Inform her that what shes doing is bad but other then that theres nothing more you can do.
 
Don't give her any and let her learn her lesson. Explain to her the cautions of bad pills and after that it's on her. i was going crazy with E till I had a bad pill expirience a while ago and only rolled once between then and New Year's. New Year's I had a another bad one but not until after and not being able to sleep for 2 days.
 
start running man this girl sounds crazy to begin with and its obviously not getting any better. What ever you do dont sell her more drugs that puts you into a risky situation.
 
Taking MDMA with your boyfriend/girlfriend is not the only way to have a therapeutic roll. I have had very beneficial experiences alone, although I do really enjoy sharing it with a close friend. It allows you to turn inward and really come to a lot of insight about yourself without the distractions of having to interact with people around you.

But anyways don't bother with her if she is trying to lay guilt on you for not selling to her. You're not responsible for what she does. If she knows the risks involved then it is up to her to deal with any potential consequences.
 
Agreed with Legerity. Don't give her any. I highly doubt she even has other friends that will give her shit. She's just trying to guilt you into supplying for her. If she's trying to blame her newfound addiction on you, then she's not the kind of friend you want to have. If she wants to go and get dirty pills, well then by all means, let her learn the hard way. I'm sure you care, but sometimes you need to project some tough love and hold your ground.
 
Why would you not want to do with your significant other, that's a little fucked in and of itself, but yes, it's weird that she's wanting to do E all by her lonesome, I'd think that after doing it, she'd want to share it with him. Good for you for not selling to her when she's drunk, that's an awful mix.
 
Yeah, everytime I drink on E, I lose control and some STUPID shit happens. No bueno.

That's a tough spot though, because what if she gets a pipe bomb from someone else and she has an adverse reaction to the adulterents? You made the right choice though. Don't partake in her disrespecting her body
 
You got to learn to worry about yourself and hope for the best for others if you give them the right information. IMO there is only 2 reasons why people get addicted to a drug A. In there mind they seem to think there more pros to cons to doing there preffered drug non stop and B. They just did not/do not have enough information about the said drug.
 
Wow first of all admitting your a drug dealer and then telling us that you sold/gave drugs to somebody you know has an addictive personality (and you say your their friend).

You have opened Pandoras box now and there is no way of closing it.

What you should do is think before you act or learn to live with the consequences of them.

Not really that 'cute' when you think about it.
 
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