Harambulus
Greenlighter
I often get really frustrated the day after I took mdma at raves cos I see plenty hot girls and they really turn me on not only for their physical attractiveness but for being into the same scene/music. I mean I find it super super sexy to see a hot 'rig slut' dancing to some deliciously grimey dnb or marching it out to some militant industrial teckno/gabber 
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I have however found a few issues with this proposed line of action...
Firstly at raves girls are not usually there specifically to pull and are often there with their bfs usually. As it's all about PLUR and all that I feel like it's a social violation to be getting all 'horndog' on girls at a rave although I want to lol! Also they mostly wanna dance rather than stand around waiting to get picked up like would be the case at a meat market.
On the flipside you could say love can happen anywhere and all that but I'm just saying those are some obvious hurdles to be met.
That said though, I have pulled a couple of times while at raves/E oriented settings but it certainly hasn't been consistent but saying that my effort to do so hasn't been consistent either.
I'm not talking about getting with someone you already knew from your social circle who you went to the event with but specifically meeting them that night and having a 'chemical romance'
Now conversely there is going out to 'meat markets' where the girls are specifically going out to pull. I find these places abhorrent in terms of decor and general standard of consciousness of the people that go although for the sexual thing it is more conducive. I go to these places when not rolling to pull and usually wanna just get in and get out (no pun intended) as I hate the shallow environment. Even though it is shallow and all that I find making a connection with a girl your into at these places is still legit.
Anyway, back to raves. I really fucking love raver girls as they seem more ripe for a giggle -generally less conservative- but I am not so familiar with pulling at these scenes. Most of my sexual encounters come from the said meat market places and so my 'game' (to use a trite metaphor) is tailored for those places.
Because I love raver chicks so much though I'd love to pull a hot raver chick cos I could see them more cooler girls to chill with rather than 'pump and dumps' as is often the case with 'meat market' stock.
So I'm wondering if anyone has had any chemical romance stories, as I said, from meeting them 'cold' at raves and how it went down plus how I might go about tackling such an endeavour as a specific goal at a rave without coming off like a dirty 'letcher' to be caste out from the PLUR bubble of love.
What has usually been my experience in these places is I've been high the girls are high as well so they are happy to give hugs and all and it feels good at the time but it's really nothing cos you aren't making a connection but really just enjoying the tactile sensations while your on the drug.
I think the most fulfilling experiences I've had on mdma have been making connections with new people, be it guy or girl, though for this thread I'm talking bout with girls so it could develop into a sexual thing.
One of the times I did pull a girl while rolling at a club it was really cool as we just got chatting and made a good connection and convo was just flowing and 'it just happened' as the old cliche goes. She turned out to be pretty psycho tho and had just got out of mental hospital. Went back to my place with this other guy who I know who also happened to know her and this other girl who was her sister. He ends up fucking his sister in my bed for a bit but my one would start doing stupid stuff like saying spiders are everywhere every time I tried to do more than kiss her and saying how her last bf hung himself. I think she was just making excuses now tho in hindsight more than anything cos back then I was less experienced and I think I was trying to get down to business too fast (actually I was still a virgin back then now I think of it so no wonder I wasn't 'smooth') so she was just saying anything to make me stop going so fast. I eventually just gave up and they all left.
Ye so what are all your experiences with this?
How do you make a connection beyond that of the drug haze. I don't think it will be that hard once one on one with a girl it's just I have never put my mind to doing it and usually just give up and dance instead. The main problem though I think is that I am guessing most girls aren't single there and come with bfs vs. the meat market places where girls are much more likely to be single and also wanna meet a guy. So those added obstacles are what will prove challenging.
Thoughts?
. I have however found a few issues with this proposed line of action...
Firstly at raves girls are not usually there specifically to pull and are often there with their bfs usually. As it's all about PLUR and all that I feel like it's a social violation to be getting all 'horndog' on girls at a rave although I want to lol! Also they mostly wanna dance rather than stand around waiting to get picked up like would be the case at a meat market.
On the flipside you could say love can happen anywhere and all that but I'm just saying those are some obvious hurdles to be met.
That said though, I have pulled a couple of times while at raves/E oriented settings but it certainly hasn't been consistent but saying that my effort to do so hasn't been consistent either
. I'm not talking about getting with someone you already knew from your social circle who you went to the event with but specifically meeting them that night and having a 'chemical romance'
Now conversely there is going out to 'meat markets' where the girls are specifically going out to pull. I find these places abhorrent in terms of decor and general standard of consciousness of the people that go although for the sexual thing it is more conducive. I go to these places when not rolling to pull and usually wanna just get in and get out (no pun intended
) as I hate the shallow environment. Even though it is shallow and all that I find making a connection with a girl your into at these places is still legit. Anyway, back to raves. I really fucking love raver girls as they seem more ripe for a giggle -generally less conservative- but I am not so familiar with pulling at these scenes. Most of my sexual encounters come from the said meat market places and so my 'game' (to use a trite metaphor) is tailored for those places.
Because I love raver chicks so much though I'd love to pull a hot raver chick cos I could see them more cooler girls to chill with rather than 'pump and dumps' as is often the case with 'meat market' stock.
So I'm wondering if anyone has had any chemical romance stories, as I said, from meeting them 'cold' at raves and how it went down plus how I might go about tackling such an endeavour as a specific goal at a rave without coming off like a dirty 'letcher'
to be caste out from the PLUR bubble of love.What has usually been my experience in these places is I've been high the girls are high as well so they are happy to give hugs and all and it feels good at the time but it's really nothing cos you aren't making a connection but really just enjoying the tactile sensations while your on the drug.
I think the most fulfilling experiences I've had on mdma have been making connections with new people, be it guy or girl, though for this thread I'm talking bout with girls so it could develop into a sexual thing.
One of the times I did pull a girl while rolling at a club it was really cool as we just got chatting and made a good connection and convo was just flowing and 'it just happened' as the old cliche goes. She turned out to be pretty psycho tho and had just got out of mental hospital. Went back to my place with this other guy who I know who also happened to know her and this other girl who was her sister. He ends up fucking his sister in my bed for a bit but my one would start doing stupid stuff like saying spiders are everywhere every time I tried to do more than kiss her and saying how her last bf hung himself. I think she was just making excuses now tho in hindsight more than anything cos back then I was less experienced and I think I was trying to get down to business too fast (actually I was still a virgin back then now I think of it so no wonder I wasn't 'smooth') so she was just saying anything to make me stop going so fast. I eventually just gave up and they all left.
Ye so what are all your experiences with this?
How do you make a connection beyond that of the drug haze. I don't think it will be that hard once one on one with a girl it's just I have never put my mind to doing it and usually just give up and dance instead. The main problem though I think is that I am guessing most girls aren't single there and come with bfs vs. the meat market places where girls are much more likely to be single and also wanna meet a guy. So those added obstacles are what will prove challenging.
Thoughts?
