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I am SOOO scared about my g/f I don't know what to do.

JamtasticX

JamtasticX

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I tal;ked to her hours ago, she said she was fine, taking a shower, and would call me backj. Ttons of people on dif numbers have called, and nothing, were calling all local hospitals.


I have no bike or car, I'll walk to her house, this is no joke. Im afriad she did something and I dare not say it. Different callers, textgs, voicemail, nothing gets a response/

Im so scared, and it's SOOOO far to where I need to be, FUCK.


Somoneone please condole me somehow, I know she got home ok, and said shed call after shower,eat, and NOTHING, ugh, Im about to steal a car t0 find \her
 
Can you get a cab? Bum a ride? Seems like the most important thing right now is just to get there! Do what you need to do to get over there hon. Hope everything turns out okay.

She may have just crashed and is sleepy to the nth degree, but nothing worse than that. That certainly happens to me on occasion. Take many deep breaths and action. Positive vibes your way. Hope it's okay. I certainly know that feeling of being so scared and almost helpless. But you're not helpless. You can get there.

Had she been doing anything that would put her in danger? I know you've called everyone but is there someone who lives closer to her who could get over there more quickly than you can? Deep breaths.

I'm such a natural worrier. It did just occur to me that everything is probably fine. Keep that in mind while you travel to her place. But really, try to find a motorized way to get there.
 
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I'm sure there is some explanation.
Just take a few deep breaths and try to keep your head about you.
Continue to call her, but stay calm.
Think positively.
Often times people worry and it turns out to be nothing more than a misunderstanding or miscommunication or something.......
Keep us posted! <3
 
This is crazy, I got no car \or \bike so Im running to her house/

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Edit: Damn 7 mies round trip @ 3am FUCK
 
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Honestly. thats just SOOOO RUDE Please send best vibes and good wishes.

If I didnt love her woiu;d i be runnin around @ 3 am to find her
 
Mate I really hope she's fine and just fell asleep or something. Take care okay?? Let us know how it turns out <3
 
either try to find her or don't.

but even if the worst has happened,
being affraid won't help u or her.

fuck fear
 
I walked to her house, her cars there , but I know shes there, Im adraid she nodded out and died. By now it would be too late anyways, I just hope her phone was oin silent and she fell asleep.
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JamtasticX said:
Ruined my night, KPins, Atic\van, Dope, Vodka , but nope, instead that all worse off, have nothing left, and am sore and very angry, ugh
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A curious reaction to the thought that your girlfriend may be lying dead somewhere.

It's been 11 hours, even if shes just passed out every hour counts, she can come to all sorts of harm so if you haven't heard from her you need to figure out a way to gain access to that house.
 
(While I understand your frustrations, we need to be respectful and kind. I will edit other posts here as well but please keep this in mind when posting in the future- Thanks-O)
 
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edit: Forget it, I was trying to "kindly" say what I said before but I'm prob just pissing the mods off at this point.

But I would like to say I did feel disrespected by his story, and his disrespect towards his girl saying essentially "she ruined my day cause shes dead". And a lot of other activities he mentioned that do not coincide at all to the logic of his story. NOONE runs 7 miles in the night to NOT at least call the police or break into a house.
So I felt lied to as well. But I assume you can percieve "kindness and respect" however it floats your boat.
 
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^^ I understand what you're saying man, but as ridiculous as this situation might be we still need to be sensitive and respectful to the OP.
 
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JamtasticX said:
Honestly. thats just SOOOO RUDE Please send best vibes and good wishes.

If I didnt love her woiu;d i be runnin around @ 3 am to find her
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What happened man? R you OK ? Is she OK?
I hope itz all good.

I hope that the man she was with is ok too.
 
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