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Sick of lack of female company

No effort gets no results. No risk equals no reward. Jump in with both feet. I promise you there are a bunch out there just waiting for you to make your move. Wakes on the lake gets the cake.
 
I phoned NHS direct they asked a few questioned and then phoned an ambulance. I ended up staying in 2 nights, apparently majorly damaged my liver (But they never said don't take anymore paracetamol (for headaches, I don't get'em anyway) or drink alcohol).

Once again I regret doing this and felt like an arse getting in the ambulance. I feel fine now and the psychiatrists (Saw 2 of them) even said they don't think I'm depressed. It was alcohol induced and I'm gonna lay off the stuff for a while (At least 6 months).

Everything else I take doesn't damage my liver thankfully and I'm popping Milk Thistle daily along with other Vit's.

Thank you for the responses.
 
scootipuff said:
It's also pretty important to remember that when a girl is getting to know you, if you come across as the kind of guy who would even contemplate suicide in regards to any aspect of your relationship, friends or otherwise, she'll probably run in the other direction as fast as humanly possible. The happier (fake it till you make it) you are with your own life and friends and the less that happiness depends on a woman, the more attractive you'll be to the opposite sex.
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what he said
 
When I was getting to know her I didn't come across as depressed/suicidal. It was apparantly just the being tired (I was using opi's/benzo's at the time, she didn't know) whilst her and other friends went through shit loads of grams of mephedrone/4-methly-methcathinone. :\
 
what mr f. said .
scored several times with craigslist . decades ago the action was in the personals contained in the art and entertainment weeklies .
put your back into it and you will find a girl on craigslist .
 
I vote no on using craigslist to find a female companion. It's not secure, you really don't know what you're getting until you meet up with them, and if it turns out (worst case scenario) that they've got ulterior motives or they're not who they said they were in the ad, it's too late. And for someone who has confidence issues to begin with I really think that avenue would be too difficult and risky...

Dating sites are a tad more reliable because generally (depending on the site) the members have to verify that their identity is true.
 
Found a Prostitute, but she's an old class mate from school!

For the people that mentioned getting a hooker, I've found this girl who I knew from school. She was in some of my classes. Anyway the otherday I saw her in town she was pissed off and cold turkeying even though she'd had some (Not all) of her daily methadone.

I bought some stuff off her (Obviously not allowed to say on here) and we went back to her flat where she shot up half a teenth and I snorted a line. It was good shit.

Anyway I remember at school there was a point at which I did fancy her and later that evening I found out she's on the game. I felt sorry for her and gave her a cuddle.

Now back to the "You need to fuck a prostitute to get it out of your system and feel better!", I no longer fancy this girl but I do feel kinda sorry for her. I would fuck her, but I don't know if I'd do it straight up "Hey! Here's however much money for a shag!", I think it maybe cause I know her.

The good thing is I definately have nothing STI (Sexually Transmitted Disease) wise and she apparently gets tested and has nothing either. I know the needle exchance where she goes do free STI tests and Hep B' vaccination.

She has her flat and I know the law over here is if there is only 1 girl in a flat fucking 'punters' then it's legal. If there's 2 it becomes a brothel and is illegal, which is fucking stupid really when they need at least 2 people, so the other can be in another room making sure the one doing the fucking isn't being murdered.

So yeah, do I go for it or not? I want to but I also feel as though I'm taking advantage. :\
 
How about you talk to her and see how she feels about it? Whether she would feel weird because you know each other, or if it would be less awkward because you know each other. Do you intend on seeing her again afterwards (like, as friends)? Because you have to be prepared for it to then possibly be awkward once you've had sex.

It really depends on what you're looking for...companionship, or just sex...
 
I never ever see her now, but I know it's companionship I'm looking for really. :\

I know if I saw her afterwards I'd probably feel guilty, but if I didn't have sex with her I know I could go round and get high with her (I wouldn't be using H as much as she does, I use it once every 3-4 months).

She was telling me how fucked up things are and how she has no friends and part of me was thinking, "I should go round and see her." but she's in a very self-destructive aggressive place right now and I'm not sure if me trying to help would tip me over the edge too either make me more depressed and suicidal or more depressed and back to using H again, though I can't see that as I prefer methadone.
 
pfft..... lemme see..... the last time I even touched a woman was my ex-wife, and she left me in November of '08. But even before that it'd been months since we had sex.
Being that it's been so long, and that I'm a fucked up 31-year old gimp vet with little to offer any girl, it kinda turns off the whole "caring" aspect of not having a girl's companionship.... more out of self-preservation than anything. If I had really let it get to me, I'd have blown my head off a long time ago.
And even if I DID find a girl who didn't mind being with a hideous chud like me, and didn't already have like 3 kids, how the fuck are we supposed to relate to each other, or have things in common? That's a recipe for success, lemme tell ya'll.

So if any of yeh start getting really antsy about not gettin' any or having a girlfriend..... go burn some ants with a magnifying glass or fly a kite. works quite the charm for takin yer mind off it.
 
Gaz_hmmmm said:
I never ever see her now, but I know it's companionship I'm looking for really. :\

I know if I saw her afterwards I'd probably feel guilty, but if I didn't have sex with her I know I could go round and get high with her (I wouldn't be using H as much as she does, I use it once every 3-4 months).

She was telling me how fucked up things are and how she has no friends and part of me was thinking, "I should go round and see her." but she's in a very self-destructive aggressive place right now and I'm not sure if me trying to help would tip me over the edge too either make me more depressed and suicidal or more depressed and back to using H again, though I can't see that as I prefer methadone.
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What the fuck are you taking advantage of? Do you really think you would be running game on a prostitute? Open your eyes man! Ill tell you what I have a whole flock of crazy bitches in and out of my life non stop and your welcome to them! Within 24hrz you will be back on here begging to get away from that shit!
 
drug dependence + serious relationship= disaster

Proof- 3 ex wives + at least half dozen failed relations...

Results- yrs therapy, std, obesity, hair loss, erectile dysfunction...etc

Solution- couch, tv, lots of pizza & fried chicken, rogain/toupee, valtrex, viagra, sheepskin slippers, and prostitutes. ;)
 
Gaz_hmmmm said:
I never ever see her now, but I know it's companionship I'm looking for really. :\

I know if I saw her afterwards I'd probably feel guilty, but if I didn't have sex with her I know I could go round and get high with her (I wouldn't be using H as much as she does, I use it once every 3-4 months).

She was telling me how fucked up things are and how she has no friends and part of me was thinking, "I should go round and see her." but she's in a very self-destructive aggressive place right now and I'm not sure if me trying to help would tip me over the edge too either make me more depressed and suicidal or more depressed and back to using H again, though I can't see that as I prefer methadone.
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Fuck that. She's not worth it. With her being a junkie I can guarantee nothing good will come from a relationship with her. I wouldn't touch her with a barge pole. I personally don't find heroin addict women attractive - I find it quite repulsive in a sexual way. I don't look down on them as I'm on methadone myself, but I just find it really unattractive, much as a woman might find a guy who lives at home with mum, goes to Star Trek conventions and plays Pokemon.

Oh and I wouldn't trust what she says about STIs. Due to addiction, telling lies comes easily for addicts. Don't risk your health for a fuck.

Do you really need female company anyway? Just have an interesting job or college course and have male friends and more importantly a hobby. Masturbate regularly or see an Escort every few weeks (no need to visit a 'brothel'). Just don't go shagging heroin addicts, it's not safe.
 
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