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Responsible 'Drug-Friends'

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arthunter888

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Out of your total number of 'drug-friends' (friends you do drugs with), how many of them are responsible and where/how did you meet them?

You know like the ones that are responsible, considerate, trustworthy and could pass as 'true' friends, not losers with sociopathic tendencies (no offense but drugs do this to a lot of people IME).

Also what drugs do these 'true' friends favor, and did you meet them before or after they started using drugs?
 
None of my drug buddies could be true friends, but I think about half of them are trustworthy and responsible, and the other half are shady and uncaring. They're mostly meth-heads, and I met them after I started using.
 
Usually this little mushroom eats psychedelics with people.... not all of them he calls his friends though. There have been quite a few random trips with random people, but through most of them, he was able to see some good in the person he used substances with... not all of them were responsible... but they shared some virtue in the times we spent together.

Right now... this little mushroom has a few good friends he is able to eat chemicals with. In addition to eating these chemicals... this little mushroom and his friends explore the dynamics of trust. This little mushroom has maybe 6 or 7 good friends he is able to open up with and explore truth and meaning with.... Although sometimes he finds himself opening up to randoms just because of the situation... sometimes strangers are easier to tell things to... because it may not matter so much if they judge.

The people this little mushroom trips with... are the people he tries to keep no secrets from... If a question arises... it is answered in the most truthful way... This doesn't mean everything needs to be spilled out all at once. Ask one another questions.... That is the best way to find meaning.


It is cool having people to eat psychedelics with. For a while this little mushroom was a solo tripper with random trips with this or that person, but now he has a more steady base of people to explore with. RCs too... which is really cool. People with similar interests kick ass.


Bottom line: the responsible people are the ones I stay in contact with. The ones who challenge me, and explore options with me that may utilize my full potential. We push each other to the common good. We make collisions.
 
A lot of the friends I had basically grown up with would be considered 'drug buddies', but we've all know each other for years, well before anyone started using any substances. Then a few here and there would experiment with a certain chemical and introduce it to another member or two of the friend group, and it essentially snowballed to small groups of us rolling, tripping, etc together. And of course, after this came a few of them who got a little TOO into the whole scene and lost themselves in too many drugs, quit college, you know the story. A blessing and a curse to a number of us..
 
All of my drug friends have been my friends before any of us started with the drugs. I trust them with my life and are all pretty responsible and pretty good people. My current group of friends consists of my best friend since grade 2, my best friend for almost half a year now then my buddys girlfriend and my ex-girlfriend that ive known for 2 years now. Then my friend from grade nine and his friend from school who've i known for almost half a year now. There all pretty decent people and more or less pretty responsible.
 
I've yet to meet anyone who wouldn't fuck me over, for some it's just small stuff like pinching sacks or BSing trying to set up a deal to get the middleman fee (like saying so-and-so has good shit when really they don't even know if so-and-so had anything). I don't consider anyone I associate with in the drug world to be a friend, even those who were lifelong friends growing up; their use changed them. I've just seen to much fucked up shit. Thats not to say they're arn't those who I can trust with money/drugs, its more that I know no one in that realm who is interested in anything other than drugs in our relationship.
 
Generally if we were friends first we are legit friends. As the sketch nature of the drug associated with the relationship (e.g. people I'd blaze with vs. people I'd shoot with) increases, the legitness falls. And no, that isn't a one way street; i mean less to them and they mean less to me.
 
i know both. some are people who only do drugs on weekends and live a productive life, others are those who indulge in drugs as often as they can and their school lives suffer.
 
When it comes to drugs, no matter how well their manners are and how well they carry their life outside of drugs, you can never trust them. Drug world has 2 things Money and greed, never a good combo I try to keep my "family life" as far away from these people as I can.
 
The same group of friends I've hung out with since high school is the group I kick it with today. We are all responsible and keep each other in check (only one of us went down the other path: ripped us off, stole, etc.) and he's no longer in touch with us.

I honestly am glad for the friends that I have. We are a really unique group of people that are scaringly similar, but responsible.
 
Thing with me is that I really do not have any drug friends anymore. Like I have stated, I moved recently so the groups of friends that I had are back home. We all know that people we use with are not really "friends".
 
Drug friends responsible? Ha! I wouldn't count on them driving me to the OR, I usually keep my drug friends for the weekend binge and have a stable array of friends for the latter.

I like to keep business and pleasure apart.
 
DarkSkys said:
Drug friends responsible? Ha! I wouldn't count on them driving me to the OR, I usually keep my drug friends for the weekend binge and have a stable array of friends for the latter.

I like to keep business and pleasure apart.
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quite true
 
Well, in all my years as a highly addicted pillhead, I personally never ripped anyone off, never tried to fuck anyone over, and maintained, as best I could, my fundamental character traits. I also always held a steady job, and, for the most part, made sure the bills got paid and food put in the fridge before I bought drugs. Not because I consider myself morally superior to anyone: I just knew that to live otherwise would severely curtail any enjoyment of drug use and would make it more difficult, in the long run, to be able to do them. If that makes any sense!

As far as people I knew in my using days, there was (is) one and one person only who was genuine, responsible, and had his priorities straight. He also happened to be one of my dealers for quite some time, and we are still the best of friends today, although neither of us has anything to do at all with any kind of drugs any longer.
 
Most of the people that i do drugs with are trustworthy but a lot just try to use me to get free pot but if they never contribute to me i just don't see them. i know a fair few people that do pot and other drugs that i can consider true friends, my oldest child hood friend is a chronic pot head but him like me understands the value's of careers and we put work before anything else.

But there was this one guy... every time he invited me over he'd run out of smoke and he'd ask me how $$$ i had and i'd say and he'd be like "we could buy a stick man" then i'd say "no... i could buy it."

and always me forking out money for him, thank god he moved to another state i don't want anything to do with him.
 
didn't know there were any responsible drug friend.. i only know the irresponsible ones
 
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