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socially inept people

i really dont understand wat the hell the point of this thread is but all yall seem to so I guess ill leave it open since theres mad responses, but wat the hell...there is barely even a topic here lol. "do u kno any ppl who aint social enough to go out and party" OK....And then wat? I dont understand wat the point is....U crazy druggies, makin a subject to talk about outta nothin ;)
 
Wow, that describes me to a tee as well. I'm going to ask my doctor about it ASAP.

Best of luck to you ascker. I'll send you a PM with my email/AIM(cause of your Greenlighter status) in case you'd like to discuss things more.
 
na I don't think I am. I choose to be reserved a lot because of the people who go to my high school... i'm usually a lil awkward around people the first one or two times I'm with them but when I feel I like the person and am comfortable getting to know them and vice versa thn I'll open up. drugs definetly help and if I'm drunk or high with someone the firs time I chill with them it definetly helps in the future. but yea usually reserved by choice I hate my school, it's filled with lames

it's all about who I'm with really
 
into "partying" to me infers being into socializing with others, as that is what "partying" is, in some sense of the word. To truly enjoy it, is to have grown up associating and testing / honing ones ability to commune and socialize with your fellow human beings.... To be socially inept / aspergers-eque is to, on some level in my opinion, dislike the way people socialize or see something abhorrent in it...

...unless I am going too far and by "partying" you just mean the hedonistic use of drugs and pleasure like sex/masturbation etc.

To many I would imagine drugs would be an escape from inadequacies, so social ineptitude would indeed be one among those many escapes to which drugs find their way to "help". It makes sense that many non-social drug users do so for that very reason; that they are ill-equipped to manage with what socializing entails.

I am one of those to a degree: I certainly wish to express myself in person better than I feel I can a lot of the time. I am overly verbose when it comes to the written medium so here I am as I come across in that convoluted context; which is flawed in the opposite manner and often not very concise and just plain badly written from a rambling mind. ;-P

i think he was asking about the 2nd type of party, the selfish ones who do it for pleasure, however theres always the excuse that they are doing it with others.

i know people who do both types of party... those who do the 1st are awesome, however those who do the 2nd fall into all categories- some are pure evil junkies, but i hav friends like that and they just cant help but love it. they might b good ppl, but it is an addiction to them and sometimes they feel trapped by it. (even if they arent technically addicted; they get that reward from it they cant help but try and get again)
a lot of the times it depends what drugs people are on- ego boosting drugs such as speed and coke encourage the 2nd type of party, lsd, mdma encourage the 1st and stuff like weed ketamine and alcohol can be either or either.. just depends what ur going for and what tends to happen
 
im not socially inept; i hate so many asspects of society it isnt funny, and i know that some people are just pure dickheads, but i feel if i ever choose to make a difference it isnt gona b by not socially interacting with others.. plus i always feel rewarded when i meet people who are just good fucking people who care about others instead of their own fucking ego ..

i view drugs as ways to enhance a good time, although there are times when a day is planned just to get fucked up. as long as i remember im doing it in order to have a good time with freidns, i feel its all good even when im coming down- at least were getting tired/scat/woteva togetha haha
 
i really dont understand wat the hell the point of this thread is but all yall seem to so I guess ill leave it open since theres mad responses, but wat the hell...there is barely even a topic here lol. "do u kno any ppl who aint social enough to go out and party" OK....And then wat? I dont understand wat the point is....U crazy druggies, makin a subject to talk about outta nothin ;)

isnt that what bluelights about =D :p im never coming back if i find out otherwise 8) (well drug culture anyway... i do try and remember HR;))

i think everyone is just understanding it in their own way...
 
Wow, that describes me to a tee as well. I'm going to ask my doctor about it ASAP.

ive allways had mild anxiety, and if u can deal with it without drugs i really advise u do. because if u get dependant on that drug, if u ever wana feel normal without it again its gona b a lot harder then if u just learn mental pathways around it and use it to ur advantage.

maybe urs is really bad, and u actually need sumthing to help, however IF u can -do it. i feel better that i didnt take what would have been the easy road for me.
 
I think I'm going to ask for buspar, benzo addiction doesnt seem worth it. Never taking an SSRI though.
 
I think you can call me as socially inept. I can't really communicate normally if there are more than one people in group. In group's I tend to get shut downs and lose myself on thoughts. I can be totally quiet the whole time maybe saying only word or two. Even drugs don't always help with it, maybe some stimulants and opiates only. Sometimes it's pretty annoyning even to me as I'd like to socialize with other people but my head just goes blank or shut downs. I can socialize normally only if there are only one or two people with me.

Also I enjoy doing almost any drug alone. I'm introvert and loner, and I like it that way.


that's me to the point except stimulants give me extreme anxiety and make me even more quiet.
 
I'm usually too scared to go to parties. If I use H though, I love being around people and parties, I change.
 
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