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Men who won't eat a pussy ~ ( ? )

ahahaha. a diary of my sex life would be quite the best seller. i fucked my bf 4 times in like less then 24 hours this week...and on my birthday we went at it for an hour, stopped for about 45 minutes, and went for another hour. i was on ecstasy for that tho....lol.

but yeah. and don't worry, anytime there's oral, you will be the first to know! lmfao ahhh i'm so weird :]
 
beamers said:
No I don't think it goes the other way, in my experience, I've never turned down a sexual request/kink from a woman. In fact I got sick of having to tease it out of them. I can only post my own experience.



There is no moral equivalance here for a few reasons:

1) Sticking an inanimate object up a guy's ass brings a woman no pleasure, she has no nerve endings in a dildo or cucumber.
2) What happens when you break up? and you will break up.....the female is seen as sexually experienced for taking it up the ass, whereas he is seen as less than a man and is ridiculed.
3) Her motivation for doing it is simply to humiliate him or to "get" him back.
4) Do you really want to date a guy that takes it up the ass? What would you tell your girlfriends and what would their reaction be? How will he be perceived once everyone on your circle of friends knows?



But that's my argument, men aren't allowed to have sexual boundaries. It's unacceptable for a man to refuse something, you've just proven my point.



Where are these girls? and how much begging is required, is it worth it? I need to find one of these girls or on second thoughts.....

I've only had anal sex with one girl and she asked me if I wanted to try it, to which I responded "don't do it just for me, do it because you want too" and she said she wanted too and we did it on ocassions.

I still have plenty of things I'd love to try for the first time with the right partner, so far I seem to find good girls that have hang ups in the bedroom and I tend to break up with them once I find out we aren't sexually compatible (once again there is a double standard for using this as a breakup reason, men can't do it without paying a price as you will no doubt chide me for doing this), begging is a useless proposition, as doing it without sincerity is no fun either. It has to come from the heart. Everyone has different expectations in the bedroom and finding someone that is on your spectrum of kinks is half the battle. Don't bother trying to change someone, just move on and keep looking for that special girl that has a twinkle in her eye.
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on the "There is no moral equivalance here for a few reasons part"

That has got to be the dumbest thing i've heard in this thread. Just because women don't have a penis doesnt mean they can't get satisfaction from giving guys penetration. Fetishes, dominance, mental stimulation all that is related with pleasing the woman.. Which is very important to mentally stimulate your partner sexually as well. Have you ever taken it up the ass? it can be very very pleasurable for men (rubbing there prostate). If anyone cares about what other people think relating to what you do in the bedroom is fucking retarded. Why does anyone need to know your business in the bedroom? You say... why would you want to date a guy that takes it up the ass? Why wouldnt you? guys that are open minded to things like that are always better in bed... You sound insecure with your sexuality.
 
Betterdaze said:
Your husband must have been feeling inadequate and self conscious in a way. Then on the other hand you probably both we're. That's great to hear your juices are flowing now.=D
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A VERY TRUE CONCLUSION!! I felt "broken" and he actually gave up trying to make me cum. I used to fake it when we met and we had great sex. (not cumming didnt mean our sex was bad. it was still very satisfying to express our love physically) BUT i felt very horrible faking it and eventually told him the truth that i just couldnt do it. He tried for awhile but eventually gave up. saying that i was probably broken becuase i masterbated too much and must have overdid it on my clit (i could always make myself come, just not together). so then it was sex for him and him only. I felt like a human pocket pussy. He actually said that he wanted to have sex with other women to see if he could actually make someone cum or if it really was my problem (im only his second ever partner). It was a sad state of affairs in our bedroom. He would cum then get up and leave the room. NO effort to make me even attempt to cum. This went on for 6 years. I cheated on him with 9 people thinking it could be him....but I still didnt. He knows I cheated now and understands why I did what I did.

Then one late night at a friends house i was riding him (high on something I wont mention) and i did it. We both were shocked. After that he tried and tried and made me cum successfully every time. He would pride himself in making me cum in every way possible. INCLUDING ORAL. I really feel that someone in a sexual relationship of any kind should have oral in their repertoire. The only reason to turn it down would be hygiene. And if your not getting it because you are not clean....grab a sponge and a bar of soap.

I wouldnt trade my sex life for anyone's. We appreciate our growth more than anything. we truly are a god and goddess in the bedroom.

Celeste Eve
 
cowgirrl225 said:
on the "There is no moral equivalance here for a few reasons part"

That has got to be the dumbest thing i've heard in this thread. Just because women don't have a penis doesnt mean they can't get satisfaction from giving guys penetration. Fetishes, dominance, mental stimulation all that is related with pleasing the woman.. Which is very important to mentally stimulate your partner sexually as well. Have you ever taken it up the ass? it can be very very pleasurable for men (rubbing there prostate). If anyone cares about what other people think relating to what you do in the bedroom is fucking retarded. Why does anyone need to know your business in the bedroom? You say... why would you want to date a guy that takes it up the ass? Why wouldnt you? guys that are open minded to things like that are always better in bed... You sound insecure with your sexuality.
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Thank you!
 
My unbelievable love for pussy

If a girl is hot and has a shaved clean pussy, i would honestly eat it for 2 hrs straight. I love eating pussy more than almost anything on this planet. I love everyting about it.
 
I personally love too eat pussy. I'm the type who rather have my girl get off before me. It's almost like a challenge and I havent heard one complaint yet ;)
 
hmmm a landing strip lol...
i love shaved, love the trimmed bush, dont mind a hairy pussy.
i tried to eat out a hairy pussy b4 and i just wasnt as appealed as i always am~ luckily she shaved it for me the next week and i had fun with it
 
a couple of years back I was working with a load of African and Jamaican dudes, and probably only about a third of them would 'admit' to giving a girl oral sex and the rest of them used to rip on them for it and basically imply that they were only doing it cos they weren't good enough with their cocks to get the girl off and so they had to resort to other methods. I couldn't say if it was a cultural thing though, or just these guys, although I suspect it may be cultural especially with the Jamaicans, they do use 'Bloodclaat' to express displeasure, which would probably signify some kind of cultural phobia around menstruation.

Personally I really enjoy it, when I get the opportunity. I've been with a couple of girls that said they didn't enjoy it so much and preferred penetration to receiving oral sex.
Interestingly enough they were also the girls that gave the worst head I've ever had as well...
 
when we get down to business I'm there to bring as much pleasure as possible to the situation...glad he's the same way...not much turns me off when I'm in bed with my man, it's a different kinda thinking during sex, I for the most part turn my normal thinking off and just go with the flow of whatever feels the best. It's comparable to meditation, it's so relaxing and refreshing.

It took me and him years to find a partner that we are so compatible with sexually but trust me it's worth it. It takes practice for both men and women to be good in bed. When I first started having it at 15 I wasn't too thrilled and pretty much disappointing. But I never gave up. I knew one day I'll find a partner with whom I can have amazing sex. I learned a lot about myself, about what brings me pleasure and found an amazing, hot, open guy. Life is good.

Glad to hear so many women also have great sex lives. And to those who don't -->don't give up looking, it will be worth it!
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It took me 6 years to have an orgasm with my husband. Not even from oral. Then 3 years ago...it just happened. Now I think i am the easiest thing to make cum. Super duper fun times. My husband is so good at licking me out I can cum in about 2 minutes. I can also have multiples at the drop of a hat.

I think we appreciate the time we have together now in bed MUCH more because of it being so lackluster in the past. YAY for closing in on 30yrs old I guess.

Celeste
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^Sexual Success Stories vol. I

although:
I think women are a lot more open minded to what pleasure their guy than guys are to pleasuring women. I hear lots of horror stories about guys wanting all sorts of things from women like oral sex, anal sex w/o caring at all for the pleasure of the woman. I barely hear the same stories the other way around. Where is the tread about women who don't give head? I bet it wouldn't be very popular cuz a lot less women don't give head than guys who don't eat pussy.
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this, sadly may be the truth in this weird-ass culture we live in but I can't come nearly as hard if she isn't/hasn't. Her pleasure should be proportional if not exponentially more than mine. I've gotta feeling you gals are reaching different worlds of orgasms in comparison to ours. So, it gives me pleasure to put you there, whatever the toll, tee hee hee. As far as anal goes, if i've been bad lately give me a good spanking, get behind that strap-on and fuck me vicious, honey!
 
If the smell bothers u then let ur partner know and send them on their way to take a shower. Communication is essential in a relationship and if u can't tell ur partner that their hygiene is off then there is something wrong. If I felt that my partner's dick didn't smell good enough then I'd tell him to go and clean it and then come back for his BJ. That actually never happened thou. Even if he hasn't showered for days I'd still blow him. It turns me on so much that the smell is insignificant.

Jeez. It's like all the guys who don't wanna eat pussy point to the hygiene thing and I bet not one of them actually tried to fix the situation. That makes me think that it's really not about the hygiene after all. They don't want to do something that will bring pleasure only to the woman but not them. They don't want to give a few minutes of their time to make their girl feel super good. I'm glad I'm not with a guy like that. My partner loves to eat my pussy and so has every guy I've had. He begs me to let him do it when in fact I prefer sex over oral. But there are women who love oral and not giving them that pleasure is a mean, selfish thing to do IMO.
 
Eating Pussy (YES PLEASE!)

Eating pussy is fantastic, dont matter wether its shaved, brazilian or hairy, and if its a bit wiffy then tell the owner to wash it! People should be open and honest about their sexuality and their needs.
PS I love a women who will stimulate me anally.<3
 
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