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MairyJayn

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Well, lately, reading on these forums, and in other places such as my friends, I've noticed a very large trend in potheads not doing shit with their lives, and being largely stereotypical stoners. My question to you is, one, what are you doing with your lives currently, and two, how many successful pot smokers do you know in your life?

I smoke weed everyday, countless times a day, and I'm currently studying Computer Engineering in college, I've got near straight a's, a job, and a lot to look forward to in life. Pot just affects me differently I suppose, I like to get stoned and do my homework, I notice that I am a little slower, things aren't so quick to the mind, and my mind wanders a lot more than necessary for homework, but I find it enjoyable, it makes the homework more interesting when you're mind is thinking about what it can truly mean instead of just solving problems. I've even managed to ace most of my exams while stoned. Most of my friends are far from this though, and need to be sober for exams, and most of their homework.

It seems like weed makes a lot of people slower and dumber, much more so than myself. I wonder if perhaps it has to do with my intelligence, but it seems like more than that. The school I go to is mainly an Engineering school, so it's filled with all sorts of smart kids, some of which are stoners. Even the stoners here, less so than back home, are pretty stereotypical. Forgetful, absentminded, lives largely centered around weed(not saying that my own isn't really). I just want to know if there are more people like myself, that can control themselves, and still have intelligent conversation while baked out of their minds.

Maybe it has to do with length of time you have been smoking weed. I started when I was 13, pretty occasional back in the day, moved it up to a few times a week. Getting caught by police, parents, and being sent to rehab for marijuana addiction all put some holes in my weed smoking, but after dealing with everything, I went straight back to it every time. Eventually my mom stopped caring about me smoking in her house, and since I haven't stopped smoking. I've been smoking everyday, probably 10-15 times a day for the last 2, 2 and a half years. And the only thing I really notice about my pot smoking, is that I forget a good amount of things in the past. Not things like school work, appointments, classes, due dates, what people ask me to do. But more like just what I did. It might also have to do with the large amounts of alcohol I drink some nights, but everything past a couple weeks just turns into a blur, and I only remember certain events. I can be reminded of a lot of things, but I can't just unlock those memories when I want to. Something just clicks and I remember. I've been smoking for so long, I honestly don't remember what it was like before I started, but I've always had a poor memory for that kind of thing, so I'm not so sure weed has really affected my memory at all.

Well I feel like I'm rambling and bragging, but I really just want to hear what you're long term stories with pot are. How long you've smoked, how it has affected your life, why you still smoke it/quit smoking, why you smoked for so long/still smoke. What have you done with your lives, and you do you think pot has had any great significance in your life. I guess I started this thread to reassure myself that I won't become a brainless pothead if I keep on smoking, and that other people have done it before.
 
first off - be prepared to be flamed up the ass.

but - im glad someone had the balls to say all of this.

i'm only an occasional smoker. finishing college and working full time are my top priorities.

however, i will agree with you that a lot of ppl in the CD do seem to be your stereotypical stoners; however i have not met them.

just seems like everyone i know that smokes regularly - doesnt seem to really have any goals in life other than getting another gram of some high grade....
 
Personally in my group of friends I dont see many of them doing much. I describe myself much as you have yourself and I strive to succeed in everything I do. A few of my friends are as determined as I but most of them are just lazy motherfuckers :) . We smoke basically all day everyday and I do enjoy doing intellectual things while stoned but most of the time it's just driving around smoking more.

My one real close friend basically turned his whole life into smoking weed. He's usually always broke so now a days he just smokes when we smoke him up but he completely stopped coming to school. Missed the whole second semester of his junior year in high school... I'm actually kinda worried about him but he doesn't seem fazed.

Anyway, to wrap up I believe you can be successful and have that drive to succeed but its the minority among habitual pot-smokers. The stereotype is the stereotype for a reason, its where the majority fits in.
 
What have you done with your lives, and you do you think pot has had any great significance in your life?
As far as the generic answer your looking for goes, not much because I'm young, I'm just your average college student. I don't have the best GPA, but that has absolutely nothing to do with weed, and if anything marijuana has only helped my grades/motivation over the years.

I don't really feel someone's grades, or how much money they make, ect, ect is the only way to answer "what you've done with your life" though. I've gained a large group of amazing friends I will no doubt have for life, traveled, had my heart broken, broken someone's heart, spent alot of time high, detoxed, spent alot of time clean, fought, forgiven, ect. The list could go on and on, and almost everyone out there has a list like that they could list here too. Those are the things I think about when I think about what I've done with my life. Because I've managed to succeed in the most important aspect of life, and that is to find a way to enjoy it. Because as cliche as it is, you only live once.

To be honest, that post made you sound like you think your the only stoner that has their life in order (JIMO). I have many close friends that have 4.0+GPAs at Ivy League schools and they smoke 3-5 times a day. Yeah, there are plenty of lazy stoners out there. But thats not because they smoke, its because most people fucking lazy (with or without weed). And I'm not saying pot can't cause people to be unmotivated, but that side effect varies person to person, and you shouldn't be surprised your not the only pothead thats not living at home with no job :\.
How long you've smoked?
Since I was 14, so about 6 years.
How it has affected your life?
Positively
Why you still smoke it/quit smoking?
There are WAY too many reasons to even attempt to list them here.
Why you smoked for so long/still smoke?
See above answer
 
Depends what you mean by "something" really. I've probably wasted a few oppurtunites via smoking/drugs-in-general, but how could I have lost something I've never had? I feel I've gained a lot more in regards to what life may really be.

I don't think intelligence has much to do with anything really; its more whether one has an acuity for something, as you may with computers.

Real life is even very real, so why worry? :D
 
was gonna post tjis, have no clue what to do with my life now....interested in lots of things....
 
currently im finishing my final year in schooling and still smoking during the week and weekends
i want go to university after school and still smoke
i understand what you mean by lazy people sitting around smoking weed all day, but even if they didnt smoke it i reckon theyd still be lazy just builds to the stereo type
 
but even if they didnt smoke it i reckon theyd still be lazy just builds to the stereo type

Beat me to it. Yea I believe that people who are useless stoners, would more than likely be useless with or without weed.
 
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I think Joe Rogan and Adam Carolla are my 2 favorite celebrities, just because they aren't retarded haha.
 
My closest friends and I smoke pot(and more) daily and have for 5-6 years strait. We are all close to getting our degree's and have jobs. I hearthis alot and I always think what a fucking cop out. Truth is it's just easy to cop out and blame an external source, it's alot harder and deeper to say the truth that it's within you. Amotivational syndrome is a crock of shit IMO. While I will say I know people who do fit this stereotype all that means is I know people with different personalities. People that like drugs like an easy way out and there isn't an easier way than a stereotype, that way you can just tell your parents "I dropped out cause the weed makes me lazy" instead of "I dropped out because you will still support me if I do and it's an easier way to live at least for a few months". I don't get high while I have shit to do but even if I did it doesn't make me lazy.
 
I have done fuck all with my life apart from getting wasted at every opportunity. Ive smoked weed daily for about 6 years now and i havnt lifted a finger as far as work and stuff goes, im just not interested.

Im a music producer so thats how i fill my time, i dont get paid for it or anything but its a hell of a lot of fun and thats all i want out of life really.
 
Michael Phelps. Won the most gold medals than any other Olympian.

Smoked pot.
 
I didn't read much of your first post because the first paragraph makes my head spin.

You can't judge all stoners based on what you see in a few threads. Besides that, you've been peeping and participating in threads here for less than a month! Not really a fair representation of all stoners, sir.

Secondly, blindly answering your general question:

I smoke daily. Headies, mids, KB, whatever. I work 40 hours a week in the summer making $20 / hr at an internship. I go to college full time during the rest of the year at UNH, with a double major in Psychology and Philosophy, with a 3.26 GPA enrolled in honors courses. I currently have a full-tuition ride. I have a girlfriend and a solid place to live with plenty of necessaries and creature comforts.

Smoking has made my life much easier, at the end of the day, it just feels right when I spark that blunt.... But I will concede that weed has cost me much more MONEY then I wish it had.
 
first off - be prepared to be flamed up the ass.

but - im glad someone had the balls to say all of this.

i'm only an occasional smoker. finishing college and working full time are my top priorities.

however, i will agree with you that a lot of ppl in the CD do seem to be your stereotypical stoners; however i have not met them.

just seems like everyone i know that smokes regularly - doesnt seem to really have any goals in life other than getting another gram of some high grade....

I mean no offense to anyone on these forums, I've noticed some quite intelligent drug users here, something I honestly don't see very often, which is part of the reason that I posted here, I knew I would get honest answers. Certain threads sure do sound like a bunch of 14 year olds arguing, but many are scientific discussion(but maybe I spend too much time reading science and tech), but this is all from just a few weeks lurking the forums, as someone else said, I may be entirely wrong about it.

But that makes me wonder something else, what goals do you have for your lives? Personally; Get good grades, get an internship next summer, work hard to get a decent paying job out of college, work harder at being more social, and try to make more friends.

Personally in my group of friends I dont see many of them doing much. I describe myself much as you have yourself and I strive to succeed in everything I do. A few of my friends are as determined as I but most of them are just lazy motherfuckers . We smoke basically all day everyday and I do enjoy doing intellectual things while stoned but most of the time it's just driving around smoking more.

My one real close friend basically turned his whole life into smoking weed. He's usually always broke so now a days he just smokes when we smoke him up but he completely stopped coming to school. Missed the whole second semester of his junior year in high school... I'm actually kinda worried about him but he doesn't seem fazed.

Anyway, to wrap up I believe you can be successful and have that drive to succeed but its the minority among habitual pot-smokers. The stereotype is the stereotype for a reason, its where the majority fits in.

Sounds pretty similar to my group of stoner friends. I try to tell them to do something other than smoke, but they never listen. Scoot by in highschool, about to enroll in a community college right now. Whatever you say just doesn't matter to them, I would try to help your friend. Maybe don't smoke him up all the time, lol reminds me of this huge mooch friend I met in college.

The college I go to is pretty difficult, and he didn't try a single day he went. First semester all we did was smoke, me and 3 other friends. They were some of the only ones I found that could keep up with the amount that I smoke, but they were some of the laziest stoners I've ever met. All they wanted to do was complain about doing homework, play videogames, and smoke pot. Anything but actually work. Mooched off me everyday, all three of them failed their first semester. One of them left then for a community college, the other two lasted another month or two into the second semester before just splitting without a word. But I would agree with what alot of people have said, they were always lazy. Stoned or not, they wouldn't do a damn thing.

I guess it does have to do more with the person than the weed. Does weed attract lazy people possibly?

I don't really feel someone's grades, or how much money they make, ect, ect is the only way to answer "what you've done with your life" though. I've gained a large group of amazing friends I will no doubt have for life, traveled, had my heart broken, broken someone's heart, spent alot of time high, detoxed, spent alot of time clean, fought, forgiven, ect. The list could go on and on, and almost everyone out there has a list like that they could list here too. Those are the things I think about when I think about what I've done with my life. Because I've managed to succeed in the most important aspect of life, and that is to find a way to enjoy it. Because as cliche as it is, you only live once.

To be honest, that post made you sound like you think your the only stoner that has their life in order (JIMO). I have many close friends that have 4.0+GPAs at Ivy League schools and they smoke 3-5 times a day. Yeah, there are plenty of lazy stoners out there. But thats not because they smoke, its because most people fucking lazy (with or without weed). And I'm not saying pot can't cause people to be unmotivated, but that side effect varies person to person, and you shouldn't be surprised your not the only pothead thats not living at home with no job .

Yeah I suppose you're right about that, but really I wanted more of a "do you think you have done enough with your life, do you think pot has held you back from doing things in your life" because you're right, "what you've done with your life" is a pretty vague question. But really I was getting at; "Do you feel satisfied with your life" Though, maybe not, because I'm sure the laziest stoner doing nothing with his life out there is satisfied because he is stoned all day long.

I'm sorry if I was condescending in any way in my post, I felt like I was bragging, but really I was just worried for my future. I'm not surprised that there are successful stoners in the world, I've only met one so far really, but what makes them different than the masses of lazy absentminded potheads? You also said it positively affected your life, well in what ways has it positively affected you?

Depends what you mean by "something" really. I've probably wasted a few oppurtunites via smoking/drugs-in-general, but how could I have lost something I've never had? I feel I've gained a lot more in regards to what life may really be.

Well, I guess I mean something in something other than the stereotype; living with your mom, no job, no future. Going to college to make a decent living. Having friends that aren't stoners. Doing things in your life other than smoking all day long.

Could you explain at all what you mean by saying you've "gained a lot more in regards to what life may really be" ?

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Originally Posted by kevina
but even if they didnt smoke it i reckon theyd still be lazy just builds to the stereo type

Beat me to it. Yea I believe that people who are useless stoners, would more than likely be useless with or without weed.

Certainly a possibility, something I may have to put more stock into. But as I said eariler, do you think that weed attracts lazy people?

Originally Posted by Joe Rogan
"If you have a little low watt brain, and you supercharge it with Jet Fuel... you still have a low watt brain"

So are you telling me you do think it has to do with intelligence, and just that the majority of stoners are stupid people? Do you think the weed has anything to do with that, or do you think that weed attracts the 'low watt' people?

My closest friends and I smoke pot(and more) daily and have for 5-6 years strait. We are all close to getting our degree's and have jobs. I hearthis alot and I always think what a fucking cop out. Truth is it's just easy to cop out and blame an external source, it's alot harder and deeper to say the truth that it's within you. Amotivational syndrome is a crock of shit IMO. While I will say I know people who do fit this stereotype all that means is I know people with different personalities. People that like drugs like an easy way out and there isn't an easier way than a stereotype, that way you can just tell your parents "I dropped out cause the weed makes me lazy" instead of "I dropped out because you will still support me if I do and it's an easier way to live at least for a few months". I don't get high while I have shit to do but even if I did it doesn't make me lazy.

I would have to say that I agree with you, something of the reason that I really hate stereotypes. Once it's been established, everyone just follows in tow, at least for the most part. All I can really think to say is to get your degree and break the trend. Show people that all stoners aren't lazy and stupid.

I didn't read much of your first post because the first paragraph makes my head spin.

You can't judge all stoners based on what you see in a few threads. Besides that, you've been peeping and participating in threads here for less than a month! Not really a fair representation of all stoners, sir.

Secondly, blindly answering your general question:

I smoke daily. Headies, mids, KB, whatever. I work 40 hours a week in the summer making $20 / hr at an internship. I go to college full time during the rest of the year at UNH, with a double major in Psychology and Philosophy, with a 3.26 GPA enrolled in honors courses. I currently have a full-tuition ride. I have a girlfriend and a solid place to live with plenty of necessaries and creature comforts.

Smoking has made my life much easier, at the end of the day, it just feels right when I spark that blunt.... But I will concede that weed has cost me much more MONEY then I wish it had.

If you think I formulated my opinion based solely on what I've read here in a few posts, you are mistaken. The first sentence says otherwise; "Well, lately, reading on these forums, and in other places such as my friends" it comes mainly from the latter half, but just reading some stupid responses in threads was what prompted me to post this.

Seems like you are living a pretty decent life, with shit going on, something to look forward to. You are the kind of person I would like to see more often in the stoner circle. Were you always driven like this? Do you think weed has helped you in any way? Held you back? Do you think you could accomplish more if you didn't smoke?
 
I didn't read much of your first post because the first paragraph makes my head spin.

You can't judge all stoners based on what you see in a few threads. Besides that, you've been peeping and participating in threads here for less than a month! Not really a fair representation of all stoners, sir.

Secondly, blindly answering your general question:

I smoke daily. Headies, mids, KB, whatever. I work 40 hours a week in the summer making $20 / hr at an internship. I go to college full time during the rest of the year at UNH, with a double major in Psychology and Philosophy, with a 3.26 GPA enrolled in honors courses. I currently have a full-tuition ride. I have a girlfriend and a solid place to live with plenty of necessaries and creature comforts.

Smoking has made my life much easier, at the end of the day, it just feels right when I spark that blunt.... But I will concede that weed has cost me much more MONEY then I wish it had.

exactly. I know alot of older heads, with successful jobs, there own business, and are pot smokers. Its just a stereotype, sure theres the typical pot smokers. But theres also a ton of others. you just gotta prioritize whats important
 
exactly. I know alot of older heads, with successful jobs, there own business, and are pot smokers. Its just a stereotype, sure theres the typical pot smokers. But theres also a ton of others. you just gotta prioritize whats important

I realize this as well, but just how many of them are there? And how did they do those things? What did they do differently than the majority of pot smokers to make them successful pot smokers? Thats more what this thread is about.
 
I am going to college in the fall for Pre Pharm and then eventually going Pharmacy. Pharmacy tech certification will be obtained when i get my financial situation sorted out.... So i can be making $15 an hour counting pills....

Currently i hold a job that requires a good deal of responsibility....

I was asked to help do promotions for the first time like yesterday, went well... i now have a 2nd job when i need money....

I moved out of my parents house

I think you have far too much of a steroype to how all drug people conduct their lives.... I used to go to school with a girl. She was one of those beautiful, blond cheerleaders that always walked around with a smile on her face, happy, everyone loved her. She was the kind of person who would never have wished anything bad on anyone, scored a 780 out of 800 on the math portion of the SAT. Accepted into a college i would never dream of getting into before i even applied. She was a closet drug user, we all knew what she did, but we kept our mouths shut about it.... a couple of days after christmas i get woken up by my sister at 7am with her telling me she is dead. She had rolled her car on the interstate for no apparent reason.

Over 1000 people attended her funeral....

Drug users come in all shapes and sizes. Whether its your normal pothead or a beautiful cheerleader with a thing for oxy. The point is not to deamonize drugs but to say that even though she did die, and she was an addict, she was trying to do great things with her life.
 
exactly. I know alot of older heads, with successful jobs, there own business, and are pot smokers. Its just a stereotype, sure theres the typical pot smokers. But theres also a ton of others. you just gotta prioritize whats important

Agreed. Its just like any other stereotype, there may be some underlying truth and statistics to support the stereotype. But that doesn't change that its a stereotype, and thus just a rash generalization.

There may be more young black people in jail, but that doesn't mean they can't and aren't also successful and law abiding. Its the same thing with stoners, sure there are alot of lazy stoners, but its all personal choice. Not some pre-decided notion or a 1 in a million miracle, any stoner could be hard-working if they want to be.

I realize this as well, but just how many of them are there? And how did they do those things? What did they do differently than the majority of pot smokers to make them successful pot smokers? Thats more what this thread is about.

They succeeded by trying hard and being focused, just like a successful person that has never smoked pot would do. I don't think I see the same correlation between smoking weed and being successful that you seem to.

Maybe its just the propaganda that we all heard growing up, but asking the question "how many are there?" is kind of humous if you look past the lies and propaganda.
 
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