Catching your husband in the act..

[M!$TER-ED]

Be prepared for the consequences

 

[mascal]

Do you really think that was wise in the name of harm reduction

and thank you lol

yea, yea. Its the give a man a hamburger, or show them how to ham....ive been doing coke all night. And I was only assuming that the next question would have been, 'can you do it for me?' I buy shit on those sites for a handful of millennials that can't, or just won't learn. Then they get pissed cuz 'something' doesnt arrive the next day like fucking Amazon.

 

[notsmokeymcpot42088]

yea, yea. Its the give a man a hamburger, or show them how to ham....ive been doing coke all night. And I was only assuming that the next question would have been, 'can you do it for me?' I buy shit on those sites for a handful of millennials that can't, or just won't learn. Then they get pissed cuz 'something' doesnt arrive the next day like fucking Amazon.

Thank you was definitely the prioritized thought there --- but ... I'm a good BL member I promise lol

I have literally offered several people 50 bucks to go with me and show me how to activate a burner cellphone and set up a BTC --- I thank you again!

 

[Aera23]

I need a way to watch my husband's phone screen for free and at all times via my phone, is there a way anyone knows ti do that? An app or software or something? I need evidence for court I got babies involved please it's been going on for 5 years we've been married for ten and I can't take it anymore..please help me..I am so isolated and have no friends or family I'm trapped here please...

Contact a private investigator for evidence that stands up in court, monitoring the phone screen may not be admissible

4). Also get a VPN. Doesn’t matter as they’re pretty much all the same.. Nord VPN, Ghost, etc.I like tunnel bear personally cuz, well I like the near icon.

I recommend Tor bridges over VPNs because it is safer and less detectable. VPN IPs are listed in IP lists, whereas Tor bridges aren't listed as publicly (unlike Tor exit nodes)

A web search backs this up:

Using a VPN makes that VPN server function as a semi-permanent guard node. Any VPN service could suddenly become untrustworthy one day, potentially compromising Tor’s anonymity. Again, you should use a bridge.

Source:

Should I use Tor over a VPN, or simply use a bridge?

I’ve seen on several privacy-focused subreddits that using Tor over a VPN should be avoided. Reasons cited include: VPNs do not contribute to anonymity, so combining them with Tor offers no additional benefit VPN usage is easily detectable, whereas bridges are harder to trace. If circumventing...

discuss.privacyguides.net

 

[M!$TER-ED]

yea, yea. Its the give a man a hamburger, or show them how to ham....ive been doing coke all night. And I was only assuming that the next question would have been, 'can you do it for me?' I buy shit on those sites for a handful of millennials that can't, or just won't learn. Then they get pissed cuz 'something' doesnt arrive the next day like fucking Amazon.

I understand your frustration, and I struggle with saying this because everything has to be politically correct nowadays. I don't understand it but, targeting millennials, whether true or not, is against BL policy. Derogatory references to any group or people is firmly discouraged. Yeah I know but that's the world we live in today.

 

[notsmokeymcpot42088]

Yea don't be teaching us how to fish --- just give us the fckin fish and make no assumptions.

hehe sorry I gotta be anti mod when I can

 

[M!$TER-ED]

Yea don't be teaching us how to fish --- just give us the fckin fish and make no assumptions.

hehe sorry I gotta be anti mod when I can

No problem

 

[notsmokeymcpot42088]

Thanks for being cool about it -- youse good people. Thank you for contributing to the site too -- god knows I dont want the responsibility or work!

No problem

 

[SoCalShordie]

I need a way to watch my husband's phone screen for free and at all times via my phone, is there a way anyone knows ti do that? An app or software or something? I need evidence for court I got babies involved please it's been going on for 5 years we've been married for ten and I can't take it anymore..please help me..I am so isolated and have no friends or family I'm trapped here please...

To be real, I know how to do this. However, any “evidence” obtained this way would be highly illegal and inadmissible in court. What is it you’re trying to prove, his infidelity to you? Or is he hurting your kids?

 

[SoCalShordie]

Where’d she go?

 

[Ki3ly]

^^^^ I don't know. However, I hope it got better and all. Well, you know at least Safe from the Perp.

 

[SoCalShordie]

^^^^ I don't know. However, I hope it got better and all. Well, you know at least Safe from the Perp.

Was he a perp tho? Couldn’t tell if she was talking about cheating or what she was tryna catch him doing

 

[mascal]

Contact a private investigator for evidence that stands up in court, monitoring the phone screen may not be admissible


I recommend Tor bridges over VPNs because it is safer and less detectable. VPN IPs are listed in IP lists, whereas Tor bridges aren't listed as publicly (unlike Tor exit nodes)

A web search backs this up:

Source:

Should I use Tor over a VPN, or simply use a bridge?

I’ve seen on several privacy-focused subreddits that using Tor over a VPN should be avoided. Reasons cited include: VPNs do not contribute to anonymity, so combining them with Tor offers no additional benefit VPN usage is easily detectable, whereas bridges are harder to trace. If circumventing...

discuss.privacyguides.net

Yes. TOR bridges are better. But you still want to run a VPN, then connect to TOR. Ideally, software like VMWare establishes a stand alone computer, within your computer. Takes up space and RAM memory, but you create an entire new set of MAC numbers, and through any SOCK-5 proxy you can log in from 'anywhere.' And if shit ever goes south? You open the Folder with your new/2nd computer, Erase the VMware file, then immediately copy a set file into that same folder. If your VMware puter/folder had 250GB, the file you copy/paste should have 300GB. This over rights, copies over, hides, etc. the VMware stuff. People forget that. Deleting is not enough, need to copy over the old file.

Perhaps I need to stfu. But this shit was basic like 6years ago, still works, but if the Feds want your shit then eventually they will be knocking on your door with a grin and warrant. Make it difficult for them. I guess that is my point.

 

[notsmokeymcpot42088]

Was he a perp tho? Couldn’t tell if she was talking about cheating or what she was tryna catch him doing

It has been very unclear.

OP Some clarity would greatly help us decide where we stand --- may just be me

 

[mascal]

Was he a perp tho? Couldn’t tell if she was talking about cheating or what she was tryna catch him doing

I think she just wanted evidence for herself. Don't remember any talk of kids. And yea, court wise, I'm assuming is for a civil matter, any evidence found 'illegally' may be dismissed. May not. Everything is waiver-able.

I was trying to help because I know a few women who were basically on house arrest from their dudes. One actually had to hide a few bucks and ID, break out, run to the bus station, and meet up with her sister and father to get away. Pretty wild.

 

[mascal]

I understand your frustration, and I struggle with saying this because everything has to be politically correct nowadays. I don't understand it but, targeting millennials, whether true or not, is against BL policy. Derogatory references to any group or people is firmly discouraged. Yeah I know but that's the world we live in today.

Can I be a bit less specific? Instead of saying group A doesn't want to learn, or is lazy. Should I say, "people don't want to learn or are lazy." I'm not trying to be a smart ass, but with everything discussed here...ok, im being a smart ass.

 

[SoCalShordie]

I think she just wanted evidence for herself. Don't remember any talk of kids. And yea, court wise, I'm assuming is for a civil matter, any evidence found 'illegally' may be dismissed. May not. Everything is waiver-able.

I was trying to help because I know a few women who were basically on house arrest from their dudes. One actually had to hide a few bucks and ID, break out, run to the bus station, and meet up with her sister and father to get away. Pretty wild.

I also had to make a great escape once or twice and take a bus to another state bc of abusive exes.

 

[mascal]

Thank you was definitely the prioritized thought there --- but ... I'm a good BL member I promise lol

I have literally offered several people 50 bucks to go with me and show me how to activate a burner cellphone and set up a BTC --- I thank you again!

Yea don't be teaching us how to fish --- just give us the fckin fish and make no assumptions.

hehe sorry I gotta be anti mod when I can

Alright man. I've been bored lately. What kind of fish do you like? I live right next to a river and an Ocean.

 

[mascal]

I also had to make a great escape once or twice and take a bus to another state bc of abusive exes.

Sucks. Possibly a bit exciting from an outside perspective, on the escaping part. But still a shitty situation. Glad its over for ya.

 

[Aera23]

Yes. TOR bridges are better. But you still want to run a VPN, then connect to TOR. Ideally, software like VMWare establishes a stand alone computer, within your computer. Takes up space and RAM memory, but you create an entire new set of MAC numbers, and through any SOCK-5 proxy you can log in from 'anywhere.' And if shit ever goes south? You open the Folder with your new/2nd computer, Erase the VMware file, then immediately copy a set file into that same folder. If your VMware puter/folder had 250GB, the file you copy/paste should have 300GB. This over rights, copies over, hides, etc. the VMware stuff. People forget that. Deleting is not enough, need to copy over the old file.

Perhaps I need to stfu. But this shit was basic like 6years ago, still works, but if the Feds want your shit then eventually they will be knocking on your door with a grin and warrant. Make it difficult for them. I guess that is my point.

A VPN only helps if one is about to start Tor, and doesn't want to stop an already downloading torrent (that's probably the only time I used Tor with a VPN, even on an onion-server I run, I use bridges)

VPNs increase latency a bit, which may be fingerprintable... tho I'm not sure how it would be fingerprinted.

In fact, Tails OS, centered around Tor (and has mac spoofing!), doesn't seem to support VPN apps.