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Brokenbeyondrepair722

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Georgia
Hello Hominids!

My name is Arjun, but you can call me Arn. I am 27 years old and living in the US down south. I have been using blue
light as resource to help answer questions and learn what to do and what not to do. I decided to make an account and contribute; I am doing this because recently I have solemnly accepted the reality that getting clean is not going to happen in the near future, however I do hope that one day I will stop. I IV methamphetamine, and I have been using this way on and off (but mostly on) since 2023. I have some knowledge on the situations, and issues that tend to trail this habit. I am also here to find some support for myself as my life is becoming steadily more challenging. With that being said I am always available if someone needs to vent, needs to not be alone, or just wants to chat.

Shame is an awful thing; it reinforces itself.
The more we feel ashamed the more we suffer from low confidence, meekness, and we become overly apologetic. This then affirms the shame not only within us, but it also becomes broadcasted to the world through our mannerisms, and behavior.

Do not feel ashamed for how you have suffered, not all of us face situations that others can see themselves in.
 
Welcome Arn, it's good that you joined us. What part of southern US do you live? I grew up in Ga. but also lived in Loisianna and Tennesse. I live in central ny now, quiet a change in the weather here from the deep south.
 
Hello and welcome, Arn

As I’m sure you know, many of us here can strongly relate to your struggles. I wound simply suggest you don’t give up on giving up… and have yourself a fine ol’ time until that day comes ;)
Thank you Shambles; really, I thank all of you for the warm welcome. I had actually given up on myself in the past. I let things get out of control, but I am slowly putting the pieces together. I do have a question that maybe someone here could answer.

Is there anything I should know in general while spending time on BL? Any advice, cautions, and the like?
 
Thank you Shambles; really, I thank all of you for the warm welcome. I had actually given up on myself in the past. I let things get out of control, but I am slowly putting the pieces together. I do have a question that maybe someone here could answer.

Is there anything I should know in general while spending time on BL? Any advice, cautions, and the like?

Aye -- Dont Dox yourself. (Make your real life identity known to the site) unless you are prepared to deal with LEO -- I do believe things people have posted here have been used against them in the court of law. (Not positive, decade ago ish maybe more).

I'd stay out of the politics forum (Unless you a stubborn fcker like me) -- I was not even aware we had a "point/banning" system for 20 odd yrs before I started to post there. Been warned from who I would call the 'far left' mod and had to sit a few days for calling it like I saw it on the guy I feel is the 'far right mod'.

Don't tell people where you get your dope - especially if it is online. (Or accept the risks that come with that)

The statute of limitations is a thing -- I quit using about a decade ago and pot is legal where I live so I am pretty comfortable telling my stories. I DID sit on them for 7 years or so though.

DO ask whatever the hell you want and expect intelligent answers (exception the lounge) and do not accept bullshit and misinformation. Call em like you see em to the best of your ability
 
Is there anything I should know in general while spending time on BL? Any advice, cautions, and the like?
90% I f people here are sound. There are some arseholes and the odd creepy weirdo.

Just behave yourself, have fun and beware of the odd unsolicited PM offering you stuff or asking for something. Some people do have an agenda. Bit like being in a nightclub really. Mostly cool but keep an eye out for freaks. You'll be fine. Have fun!
 
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Thank you Shambles; really, I thank all of you for the warm welcome. I had actually given up on myself in the past. I let things get out of control, but I am slowly putting the pieces together. I do have a question that maybe someone here could answer.

Is there anything I should know in general while spending time on BL? Any advice, cautions, and the like?
Rule of thumb be yourself and enjoy the company.
 
From me and many of the rest?

Let's hope not!!

Right

Yeah it was a simple answer that is probably obvious, but an important one nonetheless that is probably the only "rule" I give 2 shits about.

I often edit and delete. It's just the bipolar life, I'll use that excuse honestly. Because for the past 10 years I've been trying to pretend that it didn't affect me. Well, it does.
 
Funny enough, my girlfriend was actually the one who pointed it out last year. She's like, "you know it's more than just the extreme and long mood episodes, right?"

I'm like... Oh shit... Perhaps, perhaps..

Lol
 
Right

Yeah it was a simple answer that is probably obvious, but an important one nonetheless that is probably the only "rule" I give 2 shits about.

I often edit and delete. It's just the bipolar life, I'll use that excuse honestly. Because for the past 10 years I've been trying to pretend that it didn't affect me. Well, it does.
SEE, THAT IS THE PROBLEM!!
I AM THE ONLY SANE HUMAN BEING ON THIS PLANET!! OH, SHIT, THEY ARE COMING TO TAKE ME AWAY..
.....NOT AGAI
GET YOUR.. OH SHIT THEY BROUGHT A SWAT TEAM THIS TIME. NO, IT'S ALL OF YOU!! YOURE ALL FUC

This is Social Worker, Dr. Ima Stooge. PHDUH. The gentleman known as jnobody will gone from your little chat group for the next 90-180 days.

Unless, he escapes again. If he does, please call 1800 Find Him. ext 6969
 
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