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Serious Clutter and Crap !!! * please read first post

kiely said:
I love your signature.

I found my weed pipe. But it's lost again. :rockon:
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Aye, cheers 😉

That's good. Definitely don't declutter until you find it!!!

A good aged and well smoked pipe is a special thing. Once you start to smoke it a few times in a row and it heats up and starts releasing oils. That smell. Like...good stank... Mmmm
 
Can one of these help to. :unsure:

Right now I feel like only a miracle will help. I'm very tired. And it's not really that much.

However the smaller the piles of it the worsed it gets !!! Tedious I guess.

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Maybe tomorrow better. If I can sleep on it.

I feel awful about it. It has to be done.
 
kiely said:
Can one of these help to. :unsure:

Right now I feel like only a miracle will help. I'm very tired. And it's not really that much.

However the smaller the piles of it the worsed it gets !!! Tedious I guess.

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I don't think so...

... Unless they're maybe Thai imports.
 
kiely said:
Maybe tomorrow better. If I can sleep on it.

I feel awful about it. It has to be done.
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Don't feel awful. You'll get it sorted.

You can work on your strategy today.

What's the best substance to drive you through a whole day? Meth - cheap, effective, but not a positive life choice. Ephedra - natural, effective, can be anxiogenic, still healthier than meth. How about some amphetamine or methylphenidate? Depends what activates you? Weed? Find your pipe...

I know what you mean. When the piles get smaller it's harder to whittle away the shit. When you first start there's loads of shit to go yeah fuck that... Oot!
 
As far as my clutter. I keep a memory box where I have all my sentimental things stashed. Other than that, I don't care enough about material objects to hold onto them. A few years ago I could fit everything I owned in a carry on suitcase. I still don't own a lot. It really helps to not be held down by 'things'
 
kiely said:
So .... What is a good way to organize clutter? I have a lot of little clutter that is everywhere. I need to organize and get motivated to do this.
Or maybe I should just burn and shred and throw it all out. I am just worried about missing something in the whole mess that might be important.


So I try to hold on to everything. What would be the best way to go about organizing clutter and a good way for finding a place for it. For Real.


I am trying to find some motivation to get started learning to get rid of Clutter like as in all of it. Everywhere.

I want to get rid of everything that is very Cluttering, as much as possible and to learn about how to resolve in the most fun way possible.

Leave your comments on what is cluttering your life and your feelings about it all.

I hope this thread goes somewhere. Because we all have some kind of Clutter in our lives that we have to Dump somewhere.

So why not here ?
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My parents would hord, yard sale things, their parents stuff, other stuff. When I was younger I had lots of baseball cards, games, whatever.

I think being forced into tough situations had me reevaluate what was necessary. So being forced to live on 3 days of clothes for 5 years helped. Now I delete photos regularly, Google accounts, text conversations and contacts - if they truly are important, you'll remember them.

As for how I determine what I don't need, having someone or an organization to give them to helps the mind a lot. Knowing that possibly someone else could actually like them. So, donation places for clothes, eBay for collectables, trash for junk honestly.

These days I simply don't buy things. For every thing you move on from and do not replace, that's more space where you live makes the room feel better.

So yeah a combination of feelings good about giving them to other people, and selling things so that I can buy more relevant and efficient things, and trashing things that serve no purpose and are not sentimental, and then for sentimental useless things just put in a box.

I find categorizing them first like that helps. Don't have to do it all in one day. Maybe take the month to really analyze what category they belong in

You'll feel better about the decision you make if you know you put a lot of thought into it.
 
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I was spending too much time out doors I guess. It wasn't cluttered anywhere when I was out doors.

So everything just piled up. It has to be moved out and thrown out, yes. I absolutely want to

throw everything out that I can. I love my book shelf though. That stays.

I am never getting rid of that. Because it was acquired somehow. The shelf alone is worth more if not

as much as the books alone . ... Oh and I have a lot of kindling in other locations. This is scaring me.

I should just do astronomy and enjoy the stars more. I will just organize the book shelf. It got all messy.


Pots and pans because they are cool. They are nice ones and very valuable.


But there are these weird little annoying things all over the place too. Scattered.

They are these DVD's and then blue rays and then music CD's. And it's stuff that I can watch and listen to. So why get rid of it.


Yeah to the Bunker we ride. Some day.


It's really not that much. It's just a mess right now. Everywhere somehow.


And see if I die for sure they will be cursing me for the task probably. Who wants to leave around piles of mess.


But you know ... stuff.


I'm trying to keep things that are fun.


Oh and everyone else can't help me do everything. They have their own stuffs to do.


Really. Electronics mufflers low jack. Trim the branches to get to the road.


I could sell my artwork but I collected it so I want it.


And then I see reports about that meteor that it's under some type of intelligent control.


Or that we have a chance, an actual chance ... to dodge the impact. We still have a chance.

It's been said. He he. I guess YOLO. I guess I should just enjoy one day at a time.


But I can't. It's cluttered. I just counted around five tin cans, and at least five straws platic bottles paper plates glasses and

cups just by glancing around. And more shit dishes papers take out. Damn. I never used to be like this.


I gave two black and white striped blankest away ( to a family member ) to cover the couches with. To match

the decor. No dogs or cats on the couch. That's all that's on the couch. We all have to stay warm for

the winter anyway.
 
Thank you for all of the good advice and comments. Just the help and advice makes me understand that something

has to be done. As soon as I can get on it all I will feel much better. If I ever get around to going to therapy for

something it would be great to go for understanding why do some collect junk. Yes Me I guess so far.
 
streaM Freak said:
My parents would hord, yard sale things, their parents stuff, other stuff. When I was younger I had lots of baseball cards, games, whatever.

I think being forced into tough situations had me reevaluate what was necessary. So being forced to live on 3 days of clothes for 5 years helped. Now I delete photos regularly, Google accounts, text conversations and contacts - if they truly are important, you'll remember them.

As for how I determine what I don't need, having someone or an organization to give them to helps the mind a lot. Knowing that possibly someone else could actually like them. So, donation places for clothes, eBay for collectables, trash for junk honestly.

These days I simply don't buy things. For every thing you move on from and do not replace, that's more space where you live makes the room feel better.

So yeah a combination of feelings good about giving them to other people, and selling things so that I can buy more relevant and efficient things, and trashing things that serve no purpose and are not sentimental, and then for sentimental useless things just put in a box.

I find categorizing them first like that helps. Don't have to do it all in one day. Maybe take the month to really analyze what category they belong in

You'll feel better about the decision you make if you know you put a lot of thought into it.
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Wow that was written like a doctorate of significant mastery. Thank you. You're definitely some kind of a god.
 
BadBoy377 said:
What's your jam anyway @kiely ? Like what kinda tunes you listen to?.
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Awe. I forgot. Ozzy.

Ozzy 🤘 Hehe Whata ya saying. 😉😉

I have a CD in the vehicle. I should take it out before it melts or gets stuck. It doesn't though.

Someone put a creed in a CD player in their vehicle and it never came out.
 
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