A fair amount of mildly anti-male stuff in this thread.
TheUltimateFixx said:
after a certain amount of time spent in women's company you notice some shit men don't seem to have to put up with ; or at least not to that extent.
Men put up with other shit. If you haven't been in a relationship with a woman, you're probably not going to pick up on it. Female toxicity is different than male toxicity. I'd take male toxicity any day of the week, personally. It's much simpler, less maddening and easier to deal with... High school boys will fight and call each other names, but high school girls are insidious and manipulative (towards boys and girls).
I'm not saying one is worse than the other, but I'm tired of this idea that men are the one's who need to work on shit. Females definitely have their fair share of issues.
Also not suggesting that you're saying otherwise. I know you're a man, but you're unlikely to experience the full spectrum of female toxicity if you're gay.
Because the majority of blokes who send unsolicited dick pics are really pushy and creepy with it. Like they haven't even so much as exchanged 10 words with that woman - sometimes none at all.
Why would anyone think somebody wants to see your genitals before there's been ANY indication she might be into you, or any flirting or whatever -? And plenty guys think it's fine to send out a pic of their dick and literally think that's a conversation starter, like wtf???!
Sending such a pic entirely uninvited is then also more often than not followed by a request, or rather an aggressive demand, for the woman to immediately send a picture of her relevant parts in return, and if she goes 'what the heck I don't send nudes to random strangers' the response tends to be.... unpleasant.
Keep in mind how many men act predatory towards women and you'll see why getting such pictures makes them uncomfortable.
It's different in the male /male dating scene because they all tend to be cock-obsessed, happy to wave theirs about and expecting to 'see the goods' before they even consider you. It's all a bit more direct. I'm not gonna think the guy is automatically a creep or a predator because dicks are pretty much the visual currency, and most gay blokes are happy to show and to see.
The types of men who think it's appropriate to send dick pics to some woman they barely know on the other hand usually come with a whole bouquet of red flags, that's why women feel like they're being harassed.
Men being men doesn't mean they're being predatory / creepy / etc. Men and women are different. Women walk around in sexualized outfits. Maybe I could say that is predatory / creepy?
I go to nudist festivals. Nothing wrong with seeing a penis. It's not scary. If you don't have hang ups, you shouldn't really care.
Lots of guys wanna fuck you; take it as a compliment, ladies.
xtcgrrrl said:
I think you’re one of the more empathetic and big-hearted people on here so no wonder you get mistaken for a woman, dude.
I sincerely don't think women have bigger hearts or are more empathetic... at all.
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ITT: men are ugly, gross creepy predators and women are beautiful empathetic victims.
I call bullshit. Doesn't reflect my experience in the slightest.
I'm not triggered, I just have to defend men when shit like this goes on. I've been in social situations where women have declared that men are pigs and straight blokes actually fucking agree with them! WTF? Get your balls out of your wife's purse and stand up for your brothers.