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Why do women fall for nutcases?

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keseyhitchens said:
It's about being witty. Saying and doing random, funny, and sometimes a bit inappropriate. Not being boring. Like with my ex. I'd just start dancing randomly all goofy in front of her. Talk to her in funny voices. Be a total goofball. Then have a deeply intellectual conversation on the existence of God 10 minutes later.
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This is how you become a pretzel 🥨 Being a jester is not a routine I would indulge in again, but I did when younger. I have no patience as an adult to keep the other half entertained out of fear of losing their attention. Fuck that. A pet dog demands less of you than that arrangement.

Bill Hicks talking about Ted Bundy wedding proposals, the female ego, and Satan.
 
-=SS=- said:
This is how you become a pretzel 🥨 Being a jester is not a routine I would indulge in again, but I did when younger. I have no patience as an adult to keep the other half entertained out of fear of losing their attention. Fuck that. A pet dog demands less of you than that arrangement.

Bill Hicks talking about Ted Bundy wedding proposals, the female ego, and Satan.
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On this, you and I agree. Just be yourself, don’t pretend to be anyone you’re not. (Although I didn’t watch that YouTube video cuz of lack of captions.)

 
Foreigner said:
IMO anybody who is attracted to unstable people when there are stable options available, it's because of how they were raised. If they grew up in an environment where their support people were nuts, then that's what "love" will look like to them. Men are attracted to nutcases too, I've seen it.
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It's true. The crazier the girl the better the lay.

I'm ashamed to admit it but it's true. I'm just being honest.
 
BadBoy377 said:
It's true. The crazier the girl the better the lay.

I'm ashamed to admit it but it's true. I'm just being honest.
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My guess it's because so-called "crazy" people have fewer inhibitions and care less (or are unable to care about) social norms.

The trick is to find a stable person who knows how to keep their shit together when it matters, but also know when to let go/surrender when they're having sex.
 
Foreigner said:
My guess it's because so-called "crazy" people have fewer inhibitions and care less (or are unable to care about) social norms.

The trick is to find a stable person who knows how to keep their shit together when it matters, but also know when to let go/surrender when they're having sex.
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You make a good point
 
Phobos said:
Well I do have a collar here but it's not a priest model.
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A man with a collar….🤤

But intentions are everything.

Takes a certain kinda man to know what to do with the possession of a woman’s full vulnerability
 
Kellsee said:
A man with a collar….🤤

But intentions are everything.

Takes a certain kinda man to know what to do with the possession of a woman’s full vulnerability
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The collar is not for me, at least not most of the time... ;)
And you're right, I never thought about it before actually doing it but being dom ain't easy, at all.
 
-=SS=- said:
This is how you become a pretzel 🥨 Being a jester is not a routine I would indulge in again, but I did when younger. I have no patience as an adult to keep the other half entertained out of fear of losing their attention. Fuck that. A pet dog demands less of you than that arrangement.

Bill Hicks talking about Ted Bundy wedding proposals, the female ego, and Satan.
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I actually enjoy making the person I'm with laugh. I could reduce both my late wife and my ex to states where they were pleading with me to stop. Just keeping them in a state of pissing themselves with laughter, was a wonderful feeling (knowing I could make the woman I love be overwhelmed with laughter, felt great).
Being a jester is something I enjoy doing, it's not like I feel it's hard work and making my partner laugh is a way of showing my love...
 
fastandbulbous said:
I actually enjoy making the person I'm with laugh. I could reduce both my late wife and my ex to states where they were pleading with me to stop. Just keeping them in a state of pissing themselves with laughter, was a wonderful feeling (knowing I could make the woman I love be overwhelmed with laughter, felt great).
Being a jester is something I enjoy doing, it's not like I feel it's hard work and making my partner laugh is a way of showing my love...
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Yeah, 100% agree, mate. 👍
 
This frustrated me when I was younger. Women always told me that I was "too nice", and then proceeded to go out with the biggest scumbags on the face of the earth. I think that a lot of it is low self-esteem.

There's also that phenomenon of women falling for serial killers in prison. There are several theories about that, including the "celebrity" aspect.

Luckily, I find that older women prefer a gentleman.
 
To be honest, the nicest boyfriends i had are the ones I did not fancy.
I start to fall for the ones who don't treat me nice, before they actually strart treating me bad.
My Dad treated me bad, but don't want a boyfriend like he was, physiclaly violent, I would be scared. I just seem to fall for the ones who are not interested in me as a person for some strange resaon.
 
This may come across as pretentious but just hear me out

I’m trying to be really honest with how I feel about this

I’m just not sure that a really sweet nice guy would know how to handle what he’s gonna be wanting to do to me….if that makes sense

Idk how to explain what I mean here.


I’m not gonna go to my place on my own.

You are gonna have to put me there. But I’ll never stay unless you make me like it and the more I like it you are gonna love it.

If you get that then….nutcase or not….we are probably fixing to fuck

If we shared the same physical space long enough

I’m also very sapio sexual and sarcastic humor turns me on
 
3dmusic said:
I just seem to fall for the ones who are not interested in me as a person for some strange reason.
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We always seem to want what we can't have, in relationships and everything else. Just human nature, I guess. Sometimes I've found that the pursuit was much more exciting than the reality of actually being with them.

I always tend to fall for women that I have zero chance of being with. Right now I have a crush on a woman that lives in another state with her boyfriend. I think that it's because my last few relationships ended pretty badly, and it's safe for me to admire someone from afar.

Dreamflyer :)
 
Kellsee said:
This may come across as pretentious but just hear me out

I’m trying to be really honest with how I feel about this

I’m just not sure that a really sweet nice guy would know how to handle what he’s gonna be wanting to do to me….if that makes sense

Idk how to explain what I mean here.


I’m not gonna go to my place on my own.

You are gonna have to put me there. But I’ll never stay unless you make me like it and the more I like it you are gonna love it.

If you get that then….nutcase or not….we are probably fixing to fuck

If we shared the same physical space long enough

I’m also very sapio sexual and sarcastic humor turns me on
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All that means is you want someone to put the effort into being with you. Doesn't sound pretentious to me, tons of ladies feel the same way. That's why there's so many damn frustrated incels out there, they can't express themselves so they're just spinning their wheels and don't stand out.

Honestly I think "nutcases" just attract others of like mind by nature. Vanilla gets boring after a while, I want me some mfin caramel caribou, if you can't connect on a mental level than it's likely you won't connect on a physical level. At least that's what I've found. All about communication.
 
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