Xorkoth
Bluelight Crew
Was looking through old threads and saw @Delsyd 's name. How's he been doing, anyone still stay in touch with him?
Yeah, he's one of my best friends, we live in the same town, he moved here just a year after I did, so we've been hanging out regularly for... 13 years. He pops in here from time to time still. He's engaged, has a baby (the cutest little girl EVER), who is going on one year old, and another baby on the way. He's really happy and doing great.

Another you might remember is samadhi_smiles. He is also one of my best friends, he and Delsyd and I have a group text that we talk in every day. samadhi_smiles is doing very well, too. He is in all likelihood the most vibrantly happy person I have ever known. He and his longtime girlfriend have a kid, he's almost 4, and he's such a cool, smart kid, I'm "uncle Xorkoth" (he doesn't call me Xorkoth though

samadhi_smiles was the first BLer I ever met, he and I spent the night in my house just after I bought it, camping out in the empty living room and getting high on AMT, phenibut and poppy pods, before I even moved in, the day we met. He lived in my spare room for a year while he was working some stuff out in a difficult period of his life (homeless, depressed, serial base jumper). But now, he's got a business he started and operates, figured out how to make $200 an hour staining and washing decks. Made a ton of money in the 2017 crypto boom, too, bought land and built a house on it (mostly by himself from what he learned online, he just hired someone for the concrete slab, excavation, well digging, and electric work, and some of the plumbing). I helped him with his roof.
Currently he's on a 4 month long road trip with his family, having adventures all over the country, and then they're going down to Mexico. Every winter they spend the whole winter, after Christmas, on vacations to all sorts of places. He saved enough money up front and so that he has figured out how to work 10 hours a week and support his family as the sole earner, without dipping into savings. So he usually does that in order to spend as much time as possible at home with his son. He said he feels like he found a cheat code to life, and he exudes a feeling of joy that is contagious and palpable. I'm super proud of him. He's honestly a really big inspiration to me, he came from no wealth at all and in a few years, built up a life to where he works minimally and is able to provide a great life for his family, and he just brings good things to everyone he loves.
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