sexuality is a spectrum and wherever you find yourself on that spectrum at a given point in time doesn’t matter much so long ad everyone is having fun.
More like it doesn't matter
so long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.
I don't know about gayness
For me, meth just
heightens my appreciation for kinky, cis-gendered, hetero sex if the dose is high enough,
but I'm still not turned on by other men. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I'm admittedly not very gender-fluid, but not by choice, and nothing against being gay. I wish I were gay; no expectations to produce children, no worries viz. pregnancy, and sexual intentions are usually clear. And
if you meet someone ~your size: BAM! You double your wardrobe! 
(full disclosure: that's a Seinfeld joke.)
Actually same occurs with Methyl Testosterone which I did allot of back in the day. Roids and must be something about that and also nervous system I guess?
Steroids make you horny because they play the role of our natural hormones.
Testosterone makes humans horny – it gives rise to libido both in men and women.
(BTW, as an aside, the difference b/t “men” and “women”, biologically speaking, isn't defined so much by dicks and pussies; it's maybe best defined as chromosomal make-up, i.e., virtually everyone has either:
1. two X chromosomes, what we biologically refer to as female,
or, 2. an X and a Y chromosome, biologically male [EDIT: said that backwards initially, fixed now]; gender identity is totally different, but I digress).
Testosterone alone boosts libido, advances male-pattern baldness and the development of facial hair, can cause acne, and can cause early menopause in women. Meanwhile, in men taking testosterone or another anabolic steroid, the body recognizes the influx of hormone and the testicles stop producing testosterone for a while, only supply the small bit of estrogen that all men produce. When that person suddenly stops taking steroids, the body doesn't ramp testosterone production back up right away, it takes a few weeks to get back to normal.
Some men on steroids end their cycles with an estrogen-blocker to prevent unwanted side-effects like mood swings, depression, and/or gynecomastia (man-boob development), &c.
I tried masturbating my mostly flaccid dick and caused it to become swollen and mis-shapen for a couple days
So that's most likely the effect of a CNS
stimulant increasing libido but decreasing performance. Taken with
a PDE5 inhibitor (read: Cialis (Tadalafil), Viagra (Sildenafil), Levitra (Vardenafil)), most men see an
increase in both libido and performance. I highly suggest having a sex partner around for this. If you find yourself masturbating too frequently, often the trick to getting out of the situation is to eschew so-called "edging" and just bust a nut and get it over with. The sooner you do it, the sooner you'll move onto better things. My interest in sex tends to drop off post-orgasm, at least long enough to get some real work done instead. Your results may differ.
What do you mean "assigned male at birth people"?
“Assigned male at birth”
as opposed to saying: “born a man/woman but had a sex change”, this latter statement now mostly deprecated. The idea is: we're addressing people by their gender identity and not their biological genetic markers, which unless you plan to get intimate with someone, is no one's business in most circumstances, really. Given that so many of these people are willing to mutilate their genitals, surgically, and go on hormone therapy in an attempt to seek harmony between their sex and gender identity, I'm in zero position to question their convictions anymore than I'll question someone's orientation. I can't choose to be gay (or LGBTQ+) anymore than anyone else can. We are what we are. We can still be secure in our sexuality enough to modify our thinking a little bit and stop feeling threatened by people who are just trying to find their way through this shit world as best they can, same as anyone.
She-males, pre-op transsexuals?
According to GLAAD, "transgender" is the correct term. It's better suited – one cannot change the chromosomes in their genetic material. Therefore becoming "transsexual" isn't technically possible, and it might plant an unrealistic expectation in people's minds. Again, to reiterate a point: gender is fluid and multivariate, sex however is binary. There are only XX and XY individuals. Similarly, there are only two types of genitals, or a very small minority who effectively have both, but there is no "third genital" type. I will admit though the terms pre-op and post-op are taxonomically useful. I'd probably avoid the ridiculous term, “she-male” which feels deprecated, too.
Also, this is not a political issue, before anyone gets started. Too many people conflate
social conservatism/liberalism with
fiscal conservatism/liberalism. If you're too religious, socially conservative, prudish, or uncomfortable accepting gay people and explaining gay couples to your children, you are capable of being a better parent than this; and most of all, please speak with your kids, parents out there. I'm not saying you gotta be all "woke" suddenly, just be mindful to set a tone such that your kid isn't afraid to speak with you about sexuality in an appropriate manner, nor thinks of you as a close-minded bigot or someone too afraid to talk honestly about human sexuality. I swear:
society steals sex from us while we're children, hiding it until we're deemed "old enough",
and then it's sold back to us all during young adulthood in the form of advertising under the notion "
sex sells."
Yeah that rides. I don't mean to split hairs over buzz terms and so-called “politically correct” speech, whatever TF that ever truly meant. But words
do matter, and as much as I hate to admit this, the concept of
microaggressions is fairly legit.
Ever notice the term "
pedophilia" (or the British way, "
paedophilia")
confuses the two Greek terms for love – pathos and eros. You see,
pathos should be reserved for familial love and subject enthusiasm. Platonic love, so to speak.
In other words,
audiophiles love high-fidelity audio.
They don't want to rape expensive sound-equipment, turntables, speakers, and such. They just
love that shit.
Cinephiles love cinema, but they are not known for sodomizing movie reels and raping blu-ray discs, ya dig? If something is said to be
hydrophilic that just means it
loves water. Rape isn't mentioned or considered, AFAIK.
Eros is the Greek term for sexual love. Hence: “
erotic”. So
a pedophile should just mean a person who loves children in a non-sexual manner, like a teacher who loves children platonically, or a pediatrician who says treating kids keeps them youthful, or a guidance counselor who could be making more money in another field, but would rather help teenagers plot the course of their academic lives, etc. I think the term
pedarist is better suited here, except it doesn't seem to include girls… Perhaps the definition should be expanded.
Most people both men and women, and even drag queens or female/male impersonator types do not question their sex/gender at all.
A completely useless point to make here other than to remind everyone that's why it's called a “minority”, and that's
if you're even right. I disagree with your conjecture and personally would guess that people given to doing drag might question their sexual orientation and gender and probably have lots of friends and acquaintances who do as well. But this is just my speculation. Without knowing for sure I think it's best not to jump to these conclusions based on subjective factors alone.
