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I had a threesome last night...

Why feel empty? I goto sex parties sometimes lately it's a hell of a time. Little risky cuz of Corona but I mean it's your own life to do with as you choose. Never let your sexuality cause you to feel guilty or shame or anything of the nature your way to sweet and special of a woman. Once I embraced my promiscuity and stopped worrying about what others thought it was incredibly freeing. It's best to practice as safe sex you can for anything but oral I wrap it up...unless it's with someone that I'm dating on a regular occasion.
 
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I think I can see how being there for my cats instead of opting for an empty, senseless and banal act of passion (diiiiiid we say fun?) :unsure:
Nah... other than the feel good there really isn't a whole lot of sustenance in such things, IMO/E.
Glad ya got out for a while and looks like all this willy-nilly to and fro has helped keep things in perspective. Own it and grow with it is my take ;)
Love always
 
deficiT said:
At least someone's getting laid around here ;)

Haha but sorry that it wasn't fulfilling for you
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I was disappointed with sex in general. It seems the only thing I like about it is the visual aspect. After sex, I realized I didn't want to deal with the other person involved at all, however cold that sounds. It's weird because I consider myself a sexual person but sex itself is almost annoying to me. Still I think about it whenever I see naked women. I don't know. I thought being an adult would be more fulfilling, but enough about me haha
 
I was with a longtime friend + her boyfriend. I really think I need to get my ex out of my head before I have sex again. I’m so pissed about the fact that days after our break up he began long distance a girl from here. He remains 1,000+ miles away. They’ve never met. He left his FB page open on my old laptop. I saw a message to update my FB password and when I clicked on it, up came his messenger with all the sexting and plans for their future. He lives in a tiny town with no cell tower. The landline offers him no privacy from his Stepmom. The entire relationship is in writing, via FB messenger. I have been reading it daily but today when she asked what I was like, he described me as a junkie. I haven’t had an Oxy since 1-7-21. They were prescribed. I’m not on subs or methadone. I just quit. It really hurts to be described this way, while he’s a raging alcoholic who denies he has any problems. I think I need to close down his open FB account and just not look again.
 
BellaJewel said:
I was with a longtime friend + her boyfriend. I really think I need to get my ex out of my head before I have sex again. I’m so pissed about the fact that days after our break up he began long distance a girl from here. He remains 1,000+ miles away. They’ve never met. He left his FB page open on my old laptop. I saw a message to update my FB password and when I clicked on it, up came his messenger with all the sexting and plans for their future. He lives in a tiny town with no cell tower. The landline offers him no privacy from his Stepmom. The entire relationship is in writing, via FB messenger. I have been reading it daily but today when she asked what I was like, he described me as a junkie. I haven’t had an Oxy since 1-7-21. They were prescribed. I’m not on subs or methadone. I just quit. It really hurts to be described this way, while he’s a raging alcoholic who denies he has any problems. I think I need to close down his open FB account and just not look again.
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Yea as addicting as that can be, it’ll only cause more damage :( Just remember alcoholics are the ultimate liars, and he’s enjoying a relationship at distance cuz he can hide all his problems.

-GC
 
pulverstaden said:
Threesomes with peole you know are weird.
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I'm the same way.

I've had the opportunity for a threesome with every single one of my best friends + their girlfriend (or boyfriend) but declined/didn't do it in every single case except for one but she wasn't my best friend more like an acquaintance and it wasn't even a genuine threesome because we took turns doing her.

It's so difficult keeping up with the emotions of one person I don't understand how some people do it.
 
BellaJewel said:
I heard from my friend tonight. They (she + her boyfriend) want this to be something that we enjoy multiple times.
It was hot at the time, but I feel weird today.
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Hey cool so they want you back for another.

If it was hot at the time.. then that's that. It happened. :)

IDK if you're feeling weird because you're judging yourself, or because of the other drama, or anything else but i hope you find peace in this.
 
I’m so sorry Bella, men are right wankers. I’m sorry you found out about his relationship how you did and it is so hurtful to read the things you’ve read. You really do need to exit out of his fb though, you know this. It’s doing nothing but brining you misery. He shouldn’t be still doing that to you. You know the truth and that should be enough. Whoever the woman is will find out soon enough I’m sure, if they actually ever meet which is probably pretty doubtful.

Log out of his fb. Put yourself first and put him behind you. You need to make the first steps to move on. We are always here for you if you need us. ❤️
 
But you should friend him and then unfriend him first. But that's just me. I am mean. 😉
You're fine <3 !
Obviously. 💗
💛
 
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