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Social Can a woman really rape a man?

Does it?

Any guys wanna chime in on this?

Soo, I'm still curious in the answer.

On the one hand, fear boner definitely sounds like something I could believe happens. On the other, you would think fear would cause vasoconstriction, since it's an evolutionary response to danger and danger can result in injury. And you would think vasoconstriction would make erection harder.

Spill it guys, are fear boners a thing? We need to know. For science.
 
JessFR said:
Does it?

Any guys wanna chime in on this?

Depends on the situation. It can be hot. ;)

Dope Queen said:
That's penetration . My throat

As a bisexual guy I can assure you that it can be equally unpleasant to have a woman sit on your face.

What about micropenises?
If it's 2 cm is that penetration?
It certainly wouldn't reach your throat. :D

An enlarged clitoris can be as big as a micropenis. Check mate.
 
ashwolf22102 said:
Are you a male?

Are there any males arguing it is impossible in this thread, or is it just females?

I wonder what the reaction would be if men started arguing that it's impossible for a man to rape a woman.
 
Depends on the situation. It can be hot. ;)

Mmm but that doesn't sound quite like the kinda fear we're talking about.

Clearly the only way we can settle this.. Is practical experimentation. :D

I'll need 20 male opioid dependent bluelighters, and 20 syringes of naloxone.

We'll soon find out if fear boners are real. :D
 

 
JessFR said:
Clearly the only way we can settle this.. Is practical experimentation. :D

I'll need 20 male opioid dependent bluelighters, and 20 syringes of naloxone.

We'll soon find out if fear boners are real.

I'll run it past my wife, but I don't think she's gonna give me permission. :(
 
When a man has penetrative sex with a woman without her consent, that's rape. But what if a woman makes a man have penetrative sex with her, without his consent? That's not rape under the law of England and Wales, but the author of a new study of the phenomenon says perhaps it should be.


What the fuck...
How is that not already legally rape?
 
Soo, I'm still curious in the answer.

On the one hand, fear boner definitely sounds like something I could believe happens. On the other, you would think fear would cause vasoconstriction, since it's an evolutionary response to danger and danger can result in injury. And you would think vasoconstriction would make erection harder.

Spill it guys, are fear boners a thing? We need to know. For science.

No. Excitement causes boners, fear doesn't.

Fear can turn into excitement if you no longer feel threatened though.


If I'm scared, my dick disappears...
 
I'll give you guys another hypothetical.

A woman abducts a fourteen year old boy and feeds him alcohol. She gets naked. He is uncomfortable with the situation and says he wants to go home, but she locks the door and starts touching him and pushing her tits in his face. He gets an erection. He can't help it. He isn't scared. He is confused and uncomfortable. He knows the situation is wrong, but he doesn't know what to do. He says he wants to go home again. She ignores him and sits on his dick.

How is that not rape?

Maybe he gets scared later and he goes soft.

It is still rape.
 
I'll give you guys another hypothetical.

A woman abducts a fourteen year old boy and feeds him alcohol. She gets naked. He is uncomfortable with the situation and says he wants to go home, but she locks the door and starts touching him and pushing her tits in his face. He gets an erection. He can't help it. He isn't scared. He is confused and uncomfortable. He knows the situation is wrong, but he doesn't know what to do. He says he wants to go home again. She ignores him and sits on his dick.

How is that not rape?


Maybe he gets scared later and he goes soft.

It is still rape.


Most 14 year old lads I've known would then go and brag to his mates about how he shagged an old bird :D

But the question was about a woman raping a MAN, not an inexperienced young boy...
 
He might go and brag about it, but it's still going to fuck him up in the same way it fucks up a young girl to be seduced and fed drugs/alcohol like Roman Polanski did. In many cases, I imagine the bragging would be a coping mechanism.

The question is about a man, you're right, and I've posted links of documented cases of women raping men. I don't know how you could need more evidence than that.

I know for a fact that it is possible.
 
Does it?

Any guys wanna chime in on this?

Sure it does...

fear goes hand in hand with anxiety and I've certainly had anxiety kill some sexual situations

I remember one time in Cali when I was about 18 or 19. I had a group of friends and I loved them all. There was this one girl Nina who I thought was cute and also liked me.

One night me, her and another couple (in the back seat) were all making out and basically getting ready to fuck

I can't explain why but suddenly I became very uncomfortable and denied her even though we were swapping spit heavily. I went from extremely horny to extremely uncomfortable and I don't really know why.

I've never had group sex/orgy or anything more than one on one with a girl so I assume that's what killed it for me. I got anxious. Ruined the night.

But yeah, on a basic survival instinct, fear will always override sexual arousal. That's just survival.
 
I only get a hard on if I'm attracted to the other person. When I was growing up, I got erections that'd just show up out of nowhere but not anymore. This is a difficult question to answer. I think a female could rape a male if she seduced him and raped him while he was half-conscious. However, I don't see it happening if both parties are sober. That's not to say that it hasn't happened or doesn't happen. I bet it does, but I think in most cases it involves some type of persuasion by the female and then abuse by that person
 
Re: the whole fear thing. It depends on a bunch of factors.

-How long it has been since you last had sex.
-How much of a raging horn dog you are.
-Whether or not you have a BDSM fetish.

@SnafulnTheVoid said he got anxious about having group sex because he'd never done it before. That makes sense. But, if you're on MDMA or viagra and/or you're drunk it might be a different story.

Personally, I have an extremely high libido and basically anything can give me a hard on.

For me, it is entirely possible.
 
i know this is not rape but, i was haveing sex with a girlfrend at the time she was on top i was like im gonna cum get off ( no condom) she was bigger than me i couldnt get her off me , for weeks after i was scared she was pregnant,
 
Apparently you guys haven’t worked out this isn’t a question, it’s a fact.

For the record, you don’t need physical force to rape a man, you don’t even need drugs, you could simply use threat for example. You could catch him while he’s passed out or asleep. This shit happens.

Yes, dicks just get hard when they’re stimulated, that just happens, just like women who are raped can get wet and have an orgasm- it doesn’t mean she was aroused or consented, it just means everyone’s bodies are designed that way, to respond when stimulated.
 
Yes, dicks just get hard when they’re stimulated, that just happens, just like women who are raped can get wet and have an orgasm- it doesn’t mean she was aroused or consented, it just means everyone’s bodies are designed that way, to respond when stimulated.
But not everybody does, me included. I'm not even attracted to vaginas. It has to be an attractive person with a nice smell, otherwise I have to manipulate the situation somehow and then rape wouldn't be involved
 
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