BLM was founded by lesbian marxists who want communal parenting as one of their goals.
I see what you're saying, for sure. And they may very well envision that extreme, but my point was earlier, which I probably didn't article well enough, was by adding this:
We disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family structure requirement by supporting each other as extended families and “villages” that collectively care for one another, especially our children, to the degree that mothers, parents, and children are comfortable."
it changes it from an extreme absolute, as you're claiming, to a spectrum with an emphasis on community support. It's important to note, as well, they use "disrupt" and not "dismantle."
For dismantle:
"We make our spaces family-friendly and enable parents to fully participate with their children. We dismantle the patriarchal practice that requires mothers to work “double shifts” so that they can mother in private even as they participate in public justice work."
They want to actually dismantle patriarchal practices, which is defined as "a system of social structures and practices in which men dominate, oppress, and exploit women".
And I'm totally good with that, as well.
Sure nothing has to be perfect, but wouldn't it make more sense to be a part of something you can fully be behind? IMO it would be the equivalent of supporting a religion but not agreeing with some of the main principles of it
BLM isn't just about equality for black people.
Sure, it would be smoother if it was perfect. Anything that deals with governing human behavior is always going to be imperfect, as humans are imperfect as well. In this case, I believe in most of the main principles of BLM. It would be the equivalent to people who are religious, I would imagine there are numerous things that are overlooked or ignored in that religion, the religion succeeds if the human behavior is modified due to them believing in the majority. Almost all things related to social constructs deal with the majority versus absolutes.
A better analogy I use for BLM is the vehicle to get us from where we are to where we need to be, with ending racism the main goal. The vehicle may be broken, loud, and ugly. It may make many people outraged and appalled. It may have broken parts which would result in laws being broken (think: riots), but it's the only vehicle available and it's here when enough people want to get in the car. As long as the car gets us to where we want to be, then the people who get in the car will overlook the flaws.
I would imagine this would be very similar to a person who supports Trump. Trump, himself isn't perfect and says outlandish and outrageous things, sometimes downright horrible, but people would be willing to ignore those flaws if the overall Trump presidency is being assessed by the individual as positive.