Chapter II: The Abyss is Eternal !

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Captain.Heroin said:
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That reminds me, I seem to be on the mend Captain, so I'm hoping no Shrine post for me just yet. Also, Covid would be such a fucking stupid, go-out-with-a-whimper-not-a-bang way to kick the bucket. No more fever, tiny bit of acheyness and mild headache now. Barely any cough too. I'm like 70% better.
 
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That reminds me, I seem to be on the mend Captain, so I'm hoping no Shrine post for me just yet. Also, Covid would be such a fucking stupid, go-out-with-a-whimper-not-a-bang way to kick the bucket. No more fever, tiny bit of acheyness and mild headache now. Barely any cough too. I'm like 70% better.
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At least you're just porn cucking it so you didn't really lose a relationship or anything.

Now... wait your 2 weeks after your symptoms are gone, and go get laid.
 
You'll never be like 80 looking back over your life thinking about the night you could have jerked off to porn by yourself - you'll be thinking about the MILF who gave you that look and you didn't pursue her.

I know the nature of regrets. Never once have I thought "wow I could have spent 8 more hours jerking it to porn!", so I really think you have to let go of your comfort jizz rag and move onto real woman, like @DeadManWalkin' would say.
 
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If I may break this down into why porn is damaging...

Imagine you are a socially anxious creature. Sure you're confident and what not, but imagine you can lose that confidence/edge easily.

With porn, there is no rejection. You can pause at any time (you do not have to do the rejecting either). There is no awkwardness. There is no consent needed (so it is more "primitive" than modern "consenting" sexual acts). It requires less cognitive effort.

You, in effect, are using a calculator instead of thinking the math out and getting sexually lazy.

There is no talking to the porn, no suaveness. You need to exercise your suaveness.

There was a study where female volunteers had a button that would trigger an orgasm implanted into their bodies (I don't know why they didn't do this for men, it sounds amazing) and every person they did this to pressed the button compulsively over and over for 30 minutes and the experimenters had to arm wrestle them off the button (this is as long as the trial allowed them to have access to the device).

Imagine porn is short circuiting otherwise beautiful and natural love making behaviors. Imagine @madness00 pinning down some big booty latina and spit roasting her and talking dirty and slapping tits and spanking ass, flipping her around all positions in bed before cumming. Afterward he is full of sweat and exhausted because this is truly exercise and with porn you are doing the least amount of exercise needed for orgasm (like using an escalator instead of the stairs). It is like a man who just wants his woman to give him a handjob with no reciprocation and no woman wants that.

People often turn to porn and away from other people due to social anxiety etc. or avoiding sexually awkward situations. You have to be brave, have fun and get out there and get your dick wet.

Just my perspective. I am sure @DeadManWalkin' would love to contribute.
 
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If I may break this down into why porn is damaging...

Imagine you are a socially anxious creature. Sure you're confident and what not, but imagine you can lose that confidence/edge easily.

With porn, there is no rejection. You can pause at any time (you do not have to do the rejecting either). There is no awkwardness. There is no consent needed (so it is more "primitive" than modern "consenting" sexual acts). It requires less cognitive effort.

You, in effect, are using a calculator instead of thinking the math out and getting sexually lazy.

There is no talking to the porn, no suaveness. You need to exercise your suaveness.

There was a study where female volunteers had a button that would trigger an orgasm implanted into their bodies (I don't know why they didn't do this for men, it sounds amazing) and every person they did this to pressed the button compulsively over and over for 30 minutes and the experimenters had to arm wrestle them off the button (this is as long as the trial allowed them to have access to the device).

Imagine porn is short circuiting otherwise beautiful and natural love making behaviors. Imagine madness pinning down some big booty latina and spit roasting her and talking dirty and slapping tits and spanking ass, flipping her around all positions in bed before cumming.

This is truly exercise and with porn you are doing the least amount of exercise needed for orgasm. It is like a man who just wants his woman to give him a handjob with no reciprocation and no woman wants that.

People often turn to porn and away from other people due to social anxiety etc. or avoiding sexually awkward situations. You have to be brave, have fun and get out there and get your dick wet.

Just my perspective.
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I know, my game is probably a little rusty, but it's not bad. I don't really use porn as a crutch. I mostly use my memory bank. Trust me, I've done ok and I will again.
 
BK38 said:
I know, my game is probably a little rusty, but it's not bad. I don't really use porn as a crutch. I mostly use my memory bank. Trust me, I've done ok and I will again.
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Maybe you just got a little depressed (easier to work past than the social anxiety thing)

You do have some game and are very suave which is why I don't want you to lose it. You're not a lost cause or I wouldn't keep advocating for your dick to get wet.

Especially when you gave me that sweet enchilada line. My love interest laughed and goes "...stupid!" lol and then he said "that was pretty good though"
 
Captain.Heroin said:
If I may break this down into why porn is damaging...

Imagine you are a socially anxious creature. Sure you're confident and what not, but imagine you can lose that confidence/edge easily.

With porn, there is no rejection. You can pause at any time (you do not have to do the rejecting either). There is no awkwardness. There is no consent needed (so it is more "primitive" than modern "consenting" sexual acts). It requires less cognitive effort.

You, in effect, are using a calculator instead of thinking the math out and getting sexually lazy.

There is no talking to the porn, no suaveness. You need to exercise your suaveness.

There was a study where female volunteers had a button that would trigger an orgasm implanted into their bodies (I don't know why they didn't do this for men, it sounds amazing) and every person they did this to pressed the button compulsively over and over for 30 minutes and the experimenters had to arm wrestle them off the button (this is as long as the trial allowed them to have access to the device).

Imagine porn is short circuiting otherwise beautiful and natural love making behaviors. Imagine madness pinning down some big booty latina and spit roasting her and talking dirty and slapping tits and spanking ass, flipping her around all positions in bed before cumming.

This is truly exercise and with porn you are doing the least amount of exercise needed for orgasm. It is like a man who just wants his woman to give him a handjob with no reciprocation and no woman wants that.

People often turn to porn and away from other people due to social anxiety etc. or avoiding sexually awkward situations. You have to be brave, have fun and get out there and get your dick wet.

Just my perspective.
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Very good stuff.
Also, by watching porn you're conning your brain to think you get 10/10 women all the time, when in fact you're fucking your hand.
For this reason your brain starts to think everything is all right. You lose your motivation.
When you stop watching porn your brain starts wanting the pussy, so you get boost of motivation.
I've read stories on how porn has caused erectile dysfunction on young men.
There is not many studies on how entire lifetime of HD porn with fast internet for men who are in their 20's now affects their brain.
The studies that have come out show devastating data.
 
Fuck I need THC. I think on the 8th, I am going to chop the indica plant. I just can't wait any fucking longer, considering it will be a week or two until I can smoke it after that. I NEED THC CAPTAIN.
 
BK38 said:
Fuck I need THC. I think on the 8th, I am going to chop the indica plant. I just can't wait any fucking longer, considering it will be a week or two until I can smoke it after that. I NEED THC CAPTAIN.
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I know that feeling.

If I had to go this morning without THC I would be sweating/sleeping it off and whining and crying. I can't withdraw from THC. I've tried. Too many times. I'm defeated.

BK what is the longest you have gone without touching yourself?
 
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