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jose ribas da silva said:
Don't answer something vague or unspecific, addressing direct achievements is important, I mean, if you still want to have sex with her
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I don't even know what I want and what's realistic. She's over in Austria and a professor now. Yeah, I don't want to come across as sad about it. It's not like I wasn't getting laid or anything, she's just the only girl I really had a much deeper emotional connection with. I'm going to sleep on it, thx dude.
 
BK38 said:
I don't even know what I want and what's realistic. She's over in Austria and a professor now. Yeah, I don't want to come across as sad about it. It's not like I wasn't getting laid or anything, she's just the only girl I really had a much deeper emotional connection with. I'm going to sleep on it, thx dude.
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man if you connected, the same happened to her. So she will appreciate your input, take care, I have noticed that you may not be on the alpha state, you now, because since you have not found any woman like her in this meantime you're feeling "diminished/hopeless". Speaking with her can accentuate this feeling and be unpleasant.
 
jose ribas da silva said:
man if you connected, the same happened to her. So she will appreciate your input, take care, I have noticed that you may not be on the alpha state, you now, because since you have not found any woman like her in this meantime you're feeling "diminished/hopeless". Speaking with her can accentuate this feeling and be unpleasant.
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I feel like you've hit the nail on the head, I'm not feeling myself right now and it just feels painful to think about. If things were going super well and I was more focused on my life rn, I'd feel like I had more to offer.
 
ghostandthedarknes said:
taking an x back very rarely works. you broke up for a reason. just my 2
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Sure, but we split for kind of practical reasons. I was working and living in Amsterdam and she had to go back to Salzburg to finish her Master's program. I dunno, think some sleep will help with clarity.
 
Anyhoooow, enough of my beta whiny bitch boy shit. Carry on Abyss, carry on.
 
So your current feeling is exactly what she does not need to know or notice.. it arises from your insecurities and probably only exist in the fear's world.

In any context in your answer, the best in your situation is faking. Faking exactly the feeling that you would like to be feeling right now and it is feeling the opposite, that will keep the appearances in sustainable way
 
jose ribas da silva said:
So your current feeling is exactly what she does not need to know or notice.. it arises from your insecurities and probably only exist in the fear's world.

In any context in your answer, the best in your situation is faking. Faking exactly the feeling that you would like to be feeling right now and it is feeling the opposite, that will keep the appearances in sustainable way
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Yeah, that's why I'm going to wait until tmrw and I'll msg her back, was feeling kind of low to begin with today. Not the time to even try and "fake" it
 
Take care, you don't need to exaggerated, it is not about showing off, it is about being calm and positive about life, that's the spirit that drives sex, because when acting like that "the showing off contexts" show off on the background naturally and spontaneously.
 
jose ribas da silva said:
Take care, you don't need to exaggerated, it is not about showing off, it is about being calm and positive about life, that's the spirit that drives sex, because when acting like that "the showing off contexts" show off on the background naturally and spontaneously.
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I'm not without any accomplishments, but a little embellishment about how I'm feeling is in order. It's not just about getting into her pants either, I did and still do like her a lot. A good sleep, breakfast, exercise and a bit of Phenibut and wine tmrw should be the ticket. Tx dude, you're quite wise.
 
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Mannnnnn a serial killer doc i've already seen has come on, but my dog is sleeping comfortably on my chest so I can't change it. 99 problems and a bitch is 1.
 
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