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How many people have you had sex with?

schizopath said:
Nice! Ive been recently thinking about dying my hair green.

How did your hair end up?
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It ended up beautiful! My kit came with the bleach. My hair is so dark brown, it looks jet black. Bleaching first is key in order for the color to show up. Go for it! It's a lot of fun.

I just bought a deep conditioner mask to help take care of it. Deep conditioner is your best friend after hair dye. Make sure it's safe for color treated hair. Shampoo that's specifically for color treated hair is important too. Regular products will strip the color right out. Don't know if you're familiar with dying your hair...
 
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Im propably going to try temp hair dye, or something like that, first. Blue is my second option is green hair doesnt end up good. And no Im really not familiar with dying. Ive been thinking about it for so long but never got the courage to actually dye it 😅

Thanks, gonna remember the deep conditioner.
 
schizopath said:
Im propably going to try temp hair dye, or something like that, first. Blue is my second option is green hair doesnt end up good. And no Im really not familiar with dying. Ive been thinking about it for so long but never got the courage to actually dye it 😅

Thanks, gonna remember the deep conditioner.
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Oooh, blue is awesome. Semi-permanent dye could be good. I don't know your natural hair color, but you'd need to bleach it if it's super dark in order for the color to show up anyway.

Have fun! :)
 
SS373dOH said:
Amateurs.
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For me. About 90% of it was penetration. I have been with this many people..... And I'm still clean lol... I also am bisexual maybe gay idk. I just like to have sex and to have another dude put his dick inside me. Lol.... But not openly out. Anyways. Most dudes tell me I give better head then there girls.... I go like a porn star...... And last all night because I do drugs...
 
I think a better question is, how many people have you had anal sex with (i suppose it would include being a recipient, for a woman, or i suppose a man of that persuasion)
 
ThatSpaceyKid said:
For me. About 90% of it was penetration. I have been with this many people..... And I'm still clean lol... I also am bisexual maybe gay idk. I just like to have sex and to have another dude put his dick inside me. Lol.... But not openly out. Anyways. Most dudes tell me I give better head then there girls.... I go like a porn star...... And last all night because I do drugs...
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Thank you for the reply sir, I needed to know every bit of that information.
 
ThatSpaceyKid said:
For me. About 90% of it was penetration. I have been with this many people..... And I'm still clean lol... I also am bisexual maybe gay idk. I just like to have sex and to have another dude put his dick inside me. Lol.... But not openly out. Anyways. Most dudes tell me I give better head then there girls.... I go like a porn star...... And last all night because I do drugs...
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Do the men who you have sex with use condoms or do you not care about that? Get tested again, for everything even Hep C and stay safe, do not share IVs, and have a wonderful Christmas and a great 2020.
 
1) How many sexual partners have you had?
A) I have had 8 sexual partners

2) What is your age?
A) I am 25 years old

3) What is your sex?
A) I identify as a male


I used to be ashamed of having such a low body count, but as ole dude above me stated, I too, am really into monogamy. Also, I have never been the type of dude to just throw my dick off in anything that offers to let me fuck. Call me gay, sensitive, a sissy, or whatever, but sex is a sacred & very meaningful thing to me.
 
SS373dOH said:
You aint having funzy until you get hep c
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I know people who were exposed/infected with Hep C and their body got rid of it and they are not infectious towards others and not infected with Hep C.


I met a bisexual man online who claimed that he had taken part in a study about HIV/AIDS, and genetics where he had been exposed and infected with a strain of HIV and his body basically destroyed the virus and he is HIV negative and not HIV+ or living with AIDS at all.

I do wonder if this is what happened to a gay friends of mine who in the mid or late 1980s had unsafe passive anal sex and swallowed cum from a men who were HIV+ or living with AIDS, and other gay/bisexual friends told me how they had unsafe anal sex as activ/giver with people who were HIV+ or living with AIDS? They said how it was not just a single exposure, and that they have no idea how they were not infected with HIV. This was before the newer meds in the 1990s or today, and there was only AZT.

I also know medical professionals who were exposed to various strains of Hepatitis and even HIV via accidental needle sticks and they too have no idea how they are not infected.
 
Wilson Wilson said:
Male in my 20's and I've had eight sexual partners.

Not very many really but I'm into monogamy. Tried casual sex a few times but it made me straight up depressed the next morning.
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I am also very into monogamy or being mostly monogamous, but I am not sure if most women, men, or whoever wants this now at the end of 2019? There are way too many women, and men who want to 'trade up' or will dump you when someone who is more wealthy, beautiful, captures their interest, or whatever comes along. Or people who are desperate and not the independent type. They are addicted to being desired. It's a high they can't stop trying to achieve. Still hoping to win the jackpot: a sugar daddy or sugar mama who will swoop him, or her up in his/her limo and take him or her back to Beverly Hills, or to their vast mansion estate, or summer home. So scrumptious someone will pay your way through life. You see this all the time.

I used to sort of feel bad that I missed out on the sexual revolutions of the 1960s-early 1980s but I am not sure if I would have survived it? I have older friends who are bisexual or gay men who had sex with hundreds or 1,000s of partners during these decades and they said how the people who basically did anything with anyone at any time did not survive.

I read a memoir titled before night falls by the gay Cuban poet Reinaldo Arenas and he claimed to have had sex with 5,000 bisexual and gay men while all while bisexual and gay men or anyone who spoke out against Castro was put into prison camps and executed by firing squad.
 
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PriestTheyCalledHim said:
I am also very into monogamy or being mostly monogamous, but I am not sure if most women, men, or whoever wants this now at the end of 2019? There are way too many women, and men who want to 'trade up' or will dump you when someone who is more wealthy, beautiful, captures their interest, or whatever comes along. Or people who are desperate and not the independent type. They are addicted to being desired. It's a high they can't stop trying to achieve. Still hoping to win the jackpot: a sugar daddy or sugar mama who will swoop him, or her up in his/her limo and take him or her back to Beverly Hills, or to their vast mansion estate, or summer home. So scrumptious someone will pay your way through life. You see this all the time.
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I'd say the gold digging behaviour you talk about there is specific to certain areas (Beverly Hills obviously being a prime example) and it's not that bad in most places.

That said, the underlying behaviour and drives - the desire to "upgrade" relationships - have always been there and it's really just down to whether an individual opts to act on it or if their other priorities override such things.

If I'm being completely frank, I could probably go out and find a hotter girl if I wanted. I don't do that because I don't think I could ever find someone who is as compatible with me so it's just not worth it. Plus in my experience if you shoot out of your league you just get treated poorly.

And although I'm hedonistic in many ways (I am after all on a drugs forum) I just don't get much pleasure from novelty in sexual partners. I'd rather have one girl who knows me and is into the same stuff as me and who will always have mutually enjoyable experiences with me. And she's someone I have an emotional connection with, which is rare especially for me. A one night stand provides none of that and just has me depressed.
 
Wilson Wilson said:
I'd say the gold digging behaviour you talk about there is specific to certain areas (Beverly Hills obviously being a prime example) and it's not that bad in most places.

That said, the underlying behaviour and drives - the desire to "upgrade" relationships - have always been there and it's really just down to whether an individual opts to act on it or if their other priorities override such things.

If I'm being completely frank, I could probably go out and find a hotter girl if I wanted. I don't do that because I don't think I could ever find someone who is as compatible with me so it's just not worth it. Plus in my experience if you shoot out of your league you just get treated poorly.

And although I'm hedonistic in many ways (I am after all on a drugs forum) I just don't get much pleasure from novelty in sexual partners. I'd rather have one girl who knows me and is into the same stuff as me and who will always have mutually enjoyable experiences with me. And she's someone I have an emotional connection with, which is rare especially for me. A one night stand provides none of that and just has me depressed.
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Ok the 'gold digging' is rather common. I am not rich or wealthy and at times before I learned to save money from work, stopped drinking and using drugs-pub tabs and gratuities, and paying dealers for hash or pot really eat up money-and manage finances and budget, I was broke or could barely pay bills. But I know multiple women who are with wealthy men who treat them like dogshit, and they stay with them mainly because the man has money or is wealthy.

I have met gay men who wanted to be kept by a sugar daddy or who went bankrupt trying to keep up with appearing to have a wealthy lifestyle, and I have met women who do the same.

You will see a lot of this on social media but it is all fake or done for bragging/narcissistic people filling the void for the most part. I want no part of any of this, and a friend of mine who is gay who came from a family that struggled to pay bills said how he has met quite a number of men who wanted him to take care of them and would gladly spend all of his money he has worked decades to earn and save.
 
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PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Ok the 'gold digging' is rather common. I am not rich or wealthy and at times before I learned to save money from work, stopped drinking and using drugs-pub tabs and gratuities, and paying dealers for hash or pot really eat up money-and manage finances and budget, I was broke or could barely pay bills. But I know multiple women who are with wealthy men who treat them like dogshit, and it is all because the man has money or is wealthy.

I have met gay men who wanted to be kept by a sugar daddy or who went bankrupt trying to keep up with appearing to have a wealthy lifestyle, and I have met women who do the same.

You will see a lot of this on social media but it is all fake or done for bragging/narcissistic people filling the void for the most part. I want no part of any of this, and a friend of mine who is gay who came from a family that struggled to pay bills said how he has met quite a number of men who wanted him to take care of them and would gladly spend all of his money he has worked decades to earn and save.
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This is a real phenomenon and I have seen it too. To me the most pathetic form of this is people who rent luxury cars like Lambos just to act richer than they are. There is even a short Vice doc on this in Miami:



People will do stupid shit just to flex. As the old saying goes: poor people stay poor by acting rich, rich people stay rich by acting poor.

Attracting the opposite sex is obviously a part of why guys in particular do this. No one will deny if you are rich it's easier to get girls. They're much less likely to actually like you, but you'll get to fuck them I guess.

What I am saying though is that level of extremity is not the norm. It is common enough we know it exists and have seen examples of it, but most men are not out there pretending to be millionaires and most women are not only settling for guys they think are millionaires.

Most people exist somewhere in the middle and they pair up just fine. I was able to get girls just fine working in retail. I flirted with girls all the time while I was working on the till. I think if all you see is gold diggers and nothing else... gtfo of Beverly Hills haha.
 
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