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Asexual?

nuttynutskin

nuttynutskin

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Anyone else here not really give a fuck about sex? Maybe not so much as not give a fuck but more like been there done that. Maybe it's just normal for late 30's?
 
It is, so you’re absolutely right about that... - I just don’t even care about that shit, I don’t think about it and I cannot even imagine anymore to do it anytime again!

That surely sounds strange for most people, but you wouldn’t believe how good it feels to be completely free of having any more thoughts about it...
 
I am in late 50s , and have been through alot of nasty medical Tx in the last 10 tears. Head and neck Cancer Stage 3, Too much Radiation for three life timed, and Chemo is jaut as bad as people say, Now I am grateful to be here, and I understand that a " New Normal" is new!!
But yes I dont really give a fuck about Sex. There are also performance issue, that not even little blue pills help Lol Lol Haha.
 
I'm still in my twenties, but have felt this way since my late teens. Like, I still have days when I'm horny, but most days I just have no interest in sex. I think a lot of it is the medications I'm on. I'm not asexual, but there's times I thought maybe I was.
 
I do wonder if years of alcoholism and being on benzos has affected my libido. I can function fine, but the urge is like non-existant.
 
I'm early 20s, i have no desire for meaningless sex. Used to do it to cope, but i find i just feel like shit if there's no emotional spark...... which doesn't happen often.
 
Yeah I think it's the combination of meds and drugs that caused it.
 
Agreed with the Meds issue!! I am from an error that a pill can Fix anything , and Drs had no idea what the fuck they where doing but would give you anything as long as you payed
 
Specified said:
Yeah I think it's the combination of meds and drugs that caused it.
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I have wondered... I don't really know anything about those things affecting test levels. But like I said, I can function fine sexually, I just don't really crave it anymore. Besides, I'm not sure there's anyone out there that would put up with me. lol
 
I think finding the right partner is paramount.
I'm in my late 30's and having the most mind blowing, spiritual and physical sex of my life! It's absolutely down to my partner.. it's a session, we explore for hours and are both extremely sexual individuals.
I've been in a relationship where sex was non existent and I didn't give a fuck because I was simply not into him. I could happily go for YEARS without sex. My current partner has fucked me back to life ? And sex is on my mind 24/7 now because of him..

Drug fuelled sex, too ?
 
Quickfixgrrl,,,, Sounds Awesome!!! Hold on to THAT partner.. We gotta want and NEED our partner for sure!! I've been in BOTH a those kinda relationships!! And I gotta say I LOVE bein where your at right now....... NIRVANA BABY!!!!!
 
Hell YES I'm holding onto him!
He's opened up realms that I never knew existed.. it's out of this world.
Nirvana indeed, Bookman!
Bookman11 said:
Quickfixgrrl,,,, Sounds Awesome!!! Hold on to THAT partner.. We gotta want and NEED our partner for sure!! I've been in BOTH a those kinda relationships!! And I gotta say I LOVE bein where your at right now....... NIRVANA BABY!!!!!
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I was tricked into taking an 'androgenic' over the counter gray market steroid supplement last year that, structurally (I checked after the fact of taking two different kinds of it) proved to be ESTROGENIC. I don't know if the manufacturers and or gym selling these products realized the pills were female and not male promoters, and unfortunately for me, one of them was a decanoate--a type of salt with a very long half life due to very high lipophilicity. Now, a year later, I am nearly impotent, do not get erections in my sleep, and almost never even masturbate, which I used to enjoy and do daily as a rule of thumb, sometimes more than 1x per day. In other words, I have accidentally "chemically castrated" myself. My blood testosterone is very low, and my new family doctor started me on a 200 mg testosterone intramuscular injection once every two weeks just this past week. However, I have not seen pro androgenic effects at all yet. I think I may need to add an estrogenic antagonist drug to the mix (will somebody recommend one plz?), but I did not tell my new general practioner the full story yet. He knows that I have very low free T, but he doesn't know that I took a month's worth of long lasting female hormones by mistake last year. I don't have much sexual desire anymore anyway, am mentally morally anguished lately because of my homosexual past, and have an average when erect but tiny when not penis that can really only penetrate a mouth due to overagressive masturbatory technique dating from age 12. In other words, sexually, I am currently a total clunkard. However, I am not ashamed, and in case you haven't noticed, have virtually zero secrets. "He Who Lives By The Truth Comes Into The Light, So That It May Be Plainly Seen That What He Has Done Has Been Done By God."--John 3:21. What do I--little ole useless me do?--why I design your 'cocaine' that you shoot up! For free.
 
Dresden said:
I was tricked into taking an 'androgenic' over the counter gray market steroid supplement last year that, structurally (I checked after the fact of taking two different kinds of it) proved to be ESTROGENIC. I don't know if the manufacturers and or gym selling these products realized the pills were female and not male promoters, and unfortunately for me, one of them was a decanoate--a type of salt with a very long half life due to very high lipophilicity. Now, a year later, I am nearly impotent, do not get erections in my sleep, and almost never even masturbate, which I used to enjoy and do daily as a rule of thumb, sometimes more than 1x per day. In other words, I have accidentally "chemically castrated" myself. My blood testosterone is very low, and my new family doctor started me on a 200 mg testosterone intramuscular injection once every two weeks just this past week. However, I have not seen pro androgenic effects at all yet. I think I may need to add an estrogenic antagonist drug to the mix (will somebody recommend one plz?), but I did not tell my new general practioner the full story yet. He knows that I have very low free T, but he doesn't know that I took a month's worth of long lasting female hormones by mistake last year. I don't have much sexual desire anymore anyway, am mentally morally anguished lately because of my homosexual past, and have an average when erect but tiny when not penis that can really only penetrate a mouth due to overagressive masturbatory technique dating from age 12. In other words, sexually, I am currently a total clunkard. However, I am not ashamed, and in case you haven't noticed, have virtually zero secrets. "He Who Lives By The Truth Comes Into The Light, So That It May Be Plainly Seen That What He Has Done Has Been Done By God."--John 3:21. What do I--little ole useless me do?--why I design your 'cocaine' that you shoot up! For free.
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"morally anguished" is VERY extreme! You realize that there's absolutely nothing wrong with being homosexual, right? I assume you're bisexual from the phrasing you used? Just chill, dude, it's honestly no big deal. And there is DEFINITELY nothing morally wrong with it! You sound like you've been given a lot misinformation by some very ignorant people. Oh and no matter how aggressively you masturbate it ABSOLUTELY WILL NOT affect the size of your penis. You can yank on that thing 'til it bleeds every day and the size won't be affected. If you have a small penis (it is only medically classes as small it it is less than 4 inches when erect, btw) that's just the way God made you. And like you say, nothing to be ashamed about.
You should tell your doctor the full story, by the way. S/he can't help you if they don't know exactly what the problem is.
 
For those that have replied not wanting sex; are you currently in a relationship?
 
Quickfixgrrl said:
I think finding the right partner is paramount.
I'm in my late 30's and having the most mind blowing, spiritual and physical sex of my life! It's absolutely down to my partner.. it's a session, we explore for hours and are both extremely sexual individuals.
I've been in a relationship where sex was non existent and I didn't give a fuck because I was simply not into him. I could happily go for YEARS without sex. My current partner has fucked me back to life ? And sex is on my mind 24/7 now because of him..

Drug fuelled sex, too ?
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Anyone that uses terms like "spiritual" when talking about sex makes me wonder how mentally balanced they are, you smoking N,N-DMT while he eats you out or something?
Also the only real drug to have sex or do sexual stuff on is pure MDPV Hcl (Smoked) may I add.

I suggest you grow up.
 
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