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Kooky Pants

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Wow, don't I sound like a joy to take on. I'll get straight to my point...I'm fairly retarded as to how to navigate forums. I'm on this forum because I need honest answers and advice and I have no clue where else to turn to ask these questions. I'm aware most may judge me and how it is I came to be in this situation so uninformed and gullible. Or maybe not. Regardless, I'm here and I'm scared of what I've possibly done to my body and I don't know if my concerns warrant immediate action/care or if what I am experiencing is not as serious as I think? I don't know where to post my questions, I don't know what tags I'm suppose to use. I'm just scared my ignorance is more serious than I know and I need a legit person to talk to about it.
 
First and foremost, we don't judge anyone ;)

If you can give us a clue as to what you are looking for we can hopefully direct you to someone who can help you. It may not be me, but there are many here willing and able to help you.

BTW welcome to Bluelight :)
 
So it's safe to be specific on here?

Mate, dont worry about any fool on the internet. It's all good. I'm pretty sure you are in company here that has done or been through similar shit, just dont incriminate yourself ie confess to murdering 3 people or shit like that, you'll be fine.

Try basic drug discussion, the folk there will be helpful.

It's better to be specific, otherwise will get answers that dont make sense.

Nice to meet you.
 
Please follow the NMI guidelines. Specific questions in this sub forum may not be answered, but if you give a general idea someone can direct you to where you can go,

Zeph, you have probably forgotten the rules, so maybe you should read them too!

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New Member Introductions (NMI) exists to give new members a chance to introduce themselves to the rest of Bluelight, and to ask basic questions. You're not required to introduce yourself, but it's a great way to get started! :)

NMI is not a drug discussion forum. You'll probably want Basic DRUG Discussion for those basic drug-related questions. But if you're not sure, ask anyway and we can move your thread to the right forum.


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Think carefully before giving out personal details on your profile. We discourage including your name, email, FB, Twitter, Snapchat, and so on until you're comfortable with how things work. :)


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[TD="bgcolor: #c4ffbc"]WE ARE NOT HERE TO HELP YOU SCORE DRUGS!

IF YOU INTRODUCE YOURSELF WITH YOUR CITY LOCATION, WE WILL ASSUME YOU'RE ATTEMPTING TO SOURCE!
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Anyone attempting to do so will have their message deleted, and may receive a warning

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A Greenlighter is a new member who has made less than 50 posts. To reduce spamming, trolling and the sourcing of drugs, restrictions are applied to these new accounts.

This means:

  • Greenlighters can Private Message (PM) anyone, but are limited to 1 PM every 3 hours. Use it wisely. Keep in mind that if you are caught abusing the PM function (trying to source, for example) there will be severe consequences.
  • Greenlighters are restricted to 5 stored PMs (that includes everything: inbox, sent, drafts, archives). You'll have to continually delete old messages to make room for new ones.
  • Greenlighters cannot attach files to messages.
  • Greenlighters cannot create a Blog or post in other people's Blogs.

Once you've made 50 posts, you become a Bluelighter and the above restrictions are removed. Please note that it can sometimes take up to an hour for this change to take affect.

Until then, if you want to contact another member please use the "Send a message via Private Message" link on that member's profile page. Be warned though that some people will have that option turned off.

Please do not post nonsensical posts to gain 50 posts to reach Bluelighter status.


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What makes a good introductory post? Here are some suggestions:



  • A big hello to the rest of Bluelight :)
  • Tell us why you came to Bluelight?
  • Tell us your interests and background, such as being a student, interest in films, video games, meeting other bluelighters, etc?
  • Tell us which drugs you like?



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Hello and welcome to BL. I haven't been here that long but I can vouch that this isn't a bad place and there is almost sure to be at least one or two peoples that can and will help with whatever. None of those peoples will likely be mind readers, however, and you might even run into a smart ass or two ;)

Closed mouths do not get fed so roll those questions out already and I'm sure before too long someone will come along with a good word or two to help you out.
 
Thank you all for your words and advice. If I understand correctly, I should introduce myself on this thread ie: hobbies, interests, etc. and use the general drug forum to ask questions about specific drug related issues? ? Thanks for your patience.
 
Thank you all for your words and advice. If I understand correctly, I should introduce myself on this thread ie: hobbies, interests, etc. and use the general drug forum to ask questions about specific drug related issues?  Thanks for your patience.
What you reveal about yourself here is entirely up to you and drugs are an okay topic here, even in the intro section. If you want to have a big thread on a specific topic a new thread in an appropriate forum would be your best bet. If you just want to have a little chat to introduce yourself or try to make new friends right here is a fine place to do so. Just make yourself at home.
 
We try to keep drug question in the appropriate sub forums not because they are "forbidden" but so that they are visible to more members who can both answer and benefit from your question. The emphasis on Bluelight is Harm Reduction through shared information. That means each and every question deserves to be answered the best they can, and organized so others can learn from the discussion.

It is not about being strict or "rules", but rather contributing to the mission of Bluelight.

So to that end specific drug related questions may very well be moved.

And as far as how much information you reveal, that is up to you but you would be surprised how many people PM and ask for posts to be deleted because their life situation changed and now they don't want that info out there. Posts in NMI with the specific location are subject to editing by staff. There are different guidelines for different sub forums. Please read the guidelines for that forum before posting. The Lounge, for example, has very few rules whereas focus sub forums limit what you can post in them.


Welcome again :)
 
Ok, I'll try this again...
Hello to everyone! I'm obviously new and apparently have Kooky Pants. (I've no clue where that username came from it just popped into my head) I'm from the U.S. West Coast. I like to hike, fish, chill at the beach with my dog, ride my Harley until I've compartmentalized all of lifes problems & can proceed as though I'm fine, date selfish narcissistic men , and now apparently do drugs like a seasoned pro minus the knowledge and smarts of a seasoned pro. Thank you for having me. I look forward to exchanging beneficial information and mutually fucked up stories. *are we allowed to swear ?*
 
Madness I've been searching through the existing threads, typing in key words related to my specific concern with a specific drug. While I am learning a lot and not getting any of my chores done, I haven't yet found my answer. I was trying to avoid a new thread but it seems that may be my best bet. I'm getting there!!!
 
Wow, i'm proud to say someone i welcome used the search tool :)

Go ahead and ask it in the designated forum.
Even if it was asked, a million years ago, we could all use a refresher.
 
*are we allowed to swear ��*

Here in New Members Introductions there's no problem with that because we try to stay casual, but there are some sub forums that don't allow it. Again, best to read the specific subforum guidelines because they vary.
 
Type your search into the search box and press enter. It took me 6 years but I too finally found the search bar.

Fuck me.
 
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