This whole thread has gotten me hot...my last serious gf was pretty pathetic when it came to BJs. She was just too small of a human for my dick. She said she loved anal which was one of the reasons I got with her and in the 4 years We were together I never got it in her ass. And when it came to Bjs she had this fear of choking so she had to control the rhythm, I could never "face fuck" her. The whole thing was just really not sexy. She really ruined me because everything about our sex life became what I know about sex because I never had an active sex life with anyone that long before. So the current girl I'm with loves giving head, and a few times I've tested the waters and held her head in place and slowly face fucked her. Not hard enough to gag her or anything. I really just need to communicate with her verbally and explain to her I'm scared to go any harder because my last gf would have pulled back and slapped me in the face and probably not blown me ever again, not that I would have even cared, but sometimes it was necessary to get my dick sucked to get it hard because of the heroin. And even now on suboxone I can't always get hard right away when we're about to have sex, need a little mouth hug to get it goin. It seems like guys that get off on blowjobs are getting off more on the dominance aspect of it, and being dominant over a female doesn't get me off at all. However, fucking her face so hard that slobber is spurting out the sides of her mouth and her mascara starts to run does sound pretty hot. I've been sick for 6 days now (sick sick, not WD sick) so it's been that long since we've had sex and we've still hung out a couple times but without even kissing each other which in her words has been "torturous" so when I'm finally better I intend to get as nasty as she will let me because I've missed her body. Spent 3 hours last night just cuddling with her just rubbing my hands all over her body and squeezing her ass. So since we started seeing each other I've never been more ready to lay her down and...do stuff to her body. I'll definitely open a line of communication about her restrictions when it comes to blowjobs because she loves giving them (her words, not my impression) my only fear is hitting her gag reflex and getting puked on and having stomach bile all over my DnB