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Do Guys Think All Women are the Same?

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No I don't even need to read the initial post. Grouping all male or females as the same is vastly too broad and an arrogant point of view. All humans are different and unique besides the origin of our cells. An example is all men cheat...I use this because I myself am the so against cheating, simply put it disgusts me. Stereotypes are moronic and the thought of this is chances are developed from insecurity in regard to this specific topic posted
 
RedLeader said:
In the OP, your frustration is essentially over men assuming all women think the same. Now here you are assuming all men think the same. Nobody will end up happy in such a stalemate.
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Don't you see that in a given culture and for a certain generation, men tend to think and behave the same, and women do the same thing, but in their own way. Patterns of behaviour and social interaction emerge. Obviously this is a generalization, and it does not apply to every single man or woman in that culture. It will help teh OP if she knows how they tend to think.
 
I understand that the ability to recognize trends is a valuable life skill. I also understand that irrationally extending trends to blanket statements is a form of self-sabotage. My point was essentially that if the OP is aware that men self-sabotage in this way, then she should also be aware of how women (including herself) do the same.
 
socko said:
Don't you see that in a given culture and for a certain generation, men tend to think and behave the same, and women do the same thing, but in their own way. Patterns of behaviour and social interaction emerge. Obviously this is a generalization, and it does not apply to every single man or woman in that culture. It will help teh OP if she knows how they tend to think.
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As a single (and stubbornly non-conformist) guy, I agree with you here and understand it's not a 100% generalization.

Curious, socko - are you originally from the U.S., or elsewhere? Have you visited/lived in other European countries and seen similar positives to 'average' friendliness of women as you've seen in France - say Czech Rep, Hungary and/or Poland?
 
RRed said:
As a single (and stubbornly non-conformist) guy, I agree with you here and understand it's not a 100% generalization.

Curious, socko - are you originally from the U.S., or elsewhere? Have you visited/lived in other European countries and seen similar positives to 'average' friendliness of women as you've seen in France - say Czech Rep, Hungary and/or Poland?
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I'm from the US. I have also seen that women from Eastern Europe are friendlier too. It's a huge cultural and behavioral difference, and I wouldn't have believed just how big it is if I hadn't traveled.
 
It is a big mistake that both men and women make, when talking badly about thier previous mates. What's that old saying, how they speak about thier former love is how they will be speaking about you one day? Still though, it is human nature to do this, wrong as it is. Having said that, I do not think every women is the same. Each relationship I have been in, there were different things about each that made them unique. And I guess the ending was the only similarity in them all. But that does not make them all the same to me. I'd like to think that each was a step towards finding the right match, and knowing I was not the right match for them either. If you are with someone that thinks like that, well to me that is a very shallow person, one that is not worth the effort with.
 
I could just SMELL the Roosh V. bull shit coming out of this thread.
While a lot of bitter, jaded people (men and women) who have been in failed relationships believe that every member of the opposite sex is the same, it's often due to a skewed perception in which they project their insecurities onto others. You get what you put out, and if after one bad relationship you put out broken, damaged, and withdrawn, that's exactly what you're going to get with your next partner. A lot of it is extremely subtle and these guys may not notice what they're doing, but it doesn't mean that all women are abusive, unfaithful gold diggers. That just happens to be the woman they attract when they choose to think that way. Case in point, couples generally begin to treat each other better when they quit viewing one another as gold diggers, cheaters, liars, and commitment-phobes.

The only reason why the dating pool is suffering in parts of the U.S (if it really is at all) is because more and more men are buying into the red pill shit and adopting a false sense of hyper masculinity. When men are praising virgins whilst condemning women who won't sleep with them, or looking for women who want to marry while simultaneously avoiding commitment, what in the fuck are they expecting to attract? These guys want to blame it on lesbians, feminists, and women with mental illness, but in reality they have no idea what they want and lump women into a category of "they're all the same" because THEY are the ones ruining all of their relationships.
 
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The only reason why the dating pool is suffering in parts of the U.S (if it really is at all) is because more and more men are buying into the red pill shit and adopting a false sense of hyper masculinity.
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Maybe so. But what's driving men towards this RP mindset? It's layers upon layers of social and cultural issues.

People can argue it's women's fault or men's fault, but really both are victims of a much larger problem; the ever-increasing involvement of the state into people's personal lives.
 
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malakaix said:
Maybe so. But what's driving men towards this RP mindset? It's layers upon layers of social and cultural issues.

People can argue it's women's fault or men's fault, but really both are victims of a much larger problem; the ever-increasing involvement of the state into people's personal lives.
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I agree. It's just not helpful when you have men screaming that all women are whores, while women are screaming that all men are rapists. Both parties need to shut up and chill out, but the rise in this "red pill" trend is making both sides worse.
 
The 'red pill' and 'MGTOW' are men pushing back against a culture that constantly belittles fathers and a legal system that doesn't support them. Its men saying, "wait a sec, a lot of feminism is bullshit and has hurt our culture." Men have had it with these SJW's who claim they want equality, yet what they really want is special treatment.
 
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The 'red pill' and 'MGTOW' are men pushing back against a culture that constantly belittles fathers and a legal system that doesn't support them. Its men saying, "wait a sec, a lot of feminism is bullshit and has hurt our culture." Men have had it with these SJW's who claim they want equality, yet what they really want is special treatment.
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It's all fine and dandy to want the legal system and society to take fathers seriously. It's also incredibly important to me that men are given equal standing in custody and divorce cases, and that men who have been victims of sexual assault (whether it was rape or molestation, and whether the abuser was a man or a woman) are acknowledged and given support, rather than laughed at, called gay, or told that they should have enjoyed it. However, when one of the forefathers of red pill philosophy and many of his followers encourage hate and prejudice towards women, it's not about gaining these rights for men. Sure, these people are sick and tired of SJWs, but that doesn't mean they have to treat people like shit based off of what genitals they have. It's fucked, and sadly, the majority of MRAs aren't fighting for actual men's issues; they're just butt hurt man children who think they're entitled to everything a woman could offer them, and they're threatened by the idea of a woman who can say 'no'.
 
It's called fighting fire with fire. Feminists for decades have been treating people a certain way based on what kind of genitals they have. Prejudice and hate? Those pillars of feminism are what created MGTOW in the first place. MRA'S are fighting for men's issues and will continue to do so, get over it. Calling them butt hurt man children won't help your argument any I can guarantee you that.
 
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Well hopefully I will find a great guy in the future who will like me for me.
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It's best to focus on bettering yourself at this point. That's what I'm going to do. Let go of the anger. I understand it, but it's best to let go. The universe is telling you to look in another direction. Eventually, the right person will come along.

Whenever I am ready to date in the future, I need a different approach. Where do you find decent guys? Bars/clubs aren't my scene and obviously online dating isn't working out.

^ I feel good because I'm really not worried about guys now. I can almost envision the type of man I want when the time is right. Just a nice thought. :)
 
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