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Psychedalienation

Psychedalienation

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So my parents found my MDMA
and weed stash in my room. I'm 17, turn 18 in half a month, smoke weed every single day, try other things occasionally (psychs only) and i got kicked out last night in the rain and cold with nothing. I got picked up my weed dealer and old friend and let me sleep at his house. I work full time at Carls Jr and nowhere to go.
I have 30$ to my name until my next paycheck and my parents wont budge. I cant call cps or the police bc they have my drugs and it's like 130mg MDMA and 14g weed.

Ahh what do i do
 
Do you have a history of drug addiction/problems (hat they're aware of)? Or did they just find drugs and kick you out? If this is the first incidence, they may change their mind if you reasonably talk to them- especially after a cool down period for them.

anyway, good luck and I hope things look up for you.
 
Can you talk to your family about it? Is it possible to have a sit down and address everything in an open and rational way? Sometimes people react horribly to situations because they are scared and have no idea what to do. Maybe abide by their rules in their house until you can find a place of your own. Also, do you think you have a problem? It's important to be honest with yourself. I'm sure your parents want the best for you but don't know how to handle it. Try to have a sit down with them and repair/reconcile. 17 is a tough fucking age. Sometimes we realize too late how important our parents are, especially at that stage. Hope it works out.
 
I just like to smoke man. I don't consider it a problem, but it is a daily ritual. I do not drink anymore and rarely use psychedelic substances and when I do, it's for spiritual purposes. I have tried talking to them but they are not interested. We have had infinite amounts of sit downs and therapies and all usually because they hate weed. For 4 years they have fought so hard against it and ruined my life but i still smoke and i still get the benefits from it. Im just going to work and save up for an apartment i guess
 
Psychedalienation said:
I just like to smoke man. I don't consider it a problem, but it is a daily ritual. I do not drink anymore and rarely use psychedelic substances and when I do, it's for spiritual purposes. I have tried talking to them but they are not interested. We have had infinite amounts of sit downs and therapies and all usually because they hate weed. For 4 years they have fought so hard against it and ruined my life but i still smoke and i still get the benefits from it. Im just going to work and save up for an apartment i guess
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I'm chiming in again. If they are telling you no and thrown you out the answer is no more of it right? Maybe when you get your own place you can smoke, right now you can't.
 
Yea that sucks. I'm at the mercy of my parents right now, even though I've been on my own for 10 years plus. Now I'm back where I started. Obviously sneaking it isn't going to work in their house, and it seems like an open conversation isn't in the picture for now.

I understand their concern for the MDMA. Regardless of how great it can be, regular use does have severe effects on the brain; that's why I stopped. More importantly it is a felony to posess it so they are definitely looking out for you there. Having a posession charge on your record or possible jail time will follow you the rest of your life. Also, they don't want to lose their house (I know it's over the top, but that's what my parents were freaking out about years ago).

Maybe for now you will have to cut back on smoking. Leave some at a friends place and just smoke when you're able to without raising red flags e.g. weed smell, red eyes, giggles, munchies. Just give it a shot. Who knows, you might feel better cutting back a bit anyway. Keep us updated.
 
Your parents love you, and are worried about you. It's their house, and their rules. In some states and countries if you got busted with drugs, or arrested, they would go to jail or prison, and you being 17 would go into foster care or some juvenile detention center for people who are not yet legal adults, and they could have their house taken away.

Read this article here:
http://www.cnn.com/2014/09/03/us/philadelphia-drug-bust-house-seizure/

Can you stop using drugs for a long period of time, get your life and priorities settled, and move back in until you save up enough money to move out to your own place or with a friend?

Since you posted how you are an alcoholic/addict you do run the real risk of relapsing, and becoming addicted to other drugs if you continue to use drugs. You're only 17, you can get your life straightened out and not have it revolve around drugs and getting high.

I hope things get better for you soon and you can move back in or find a place to live.

Are you still in high school or have you graduated? If you graduated, are you taking classes at all at a college, university, or community college?
 
I'm not gonna lie. Youre kind of screwed man. I wish I could tell you that you have options, but I can't. Vagrancy is your only option. I'm sorry.
 
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