We're not really into BDSM, but we do both like rough sex and me being the dominant one. But I guess it just seems like there's only so much hair pulling and ass slapping I can do before it starts to seem passe. I mean the mouth spitting and choking thing is really hot, but we need more variety. We only have rough sex about once a week, but it doesn't take very long to run through all the basic stuff like pinning her down and talking dirty. Then I find myself struggling to think of something "dominant" that I can do to her. Tying her up or restraining her is cool, but it's not really as hot as regular "rough sex". It's more about treating her like a whore and making her feel used. That's her biggest turn on, and I must say, it's a great way to fuck. I don't want to actually hurt her, it's more about the feeling of control, specifically for her. She likes to feel dominated and forced. She's talked about having me rape her (with a safeword of course). I'm a little bit crazy myself, and I find the whole thing wildly arousing. I'd love it if she punched me in the face right when I'm about to cum, but I've talked to her about it and it makes her uncomfortable, so that's off the table. We do all the standard porn stuff like gagging, anal and everything. But even after I run through all the basic porn moves it still seems like I'm running out of ideas. Without doing actual pain or bondage stuff, there aren't more than a handful of "dominant themes" available. I've listed off pretty much everything I can think of, and I can cycle through all those tricks in about 15 minutes, so I need to expand my repertoire.
