ForEverAfter
Ex-Bluelighter
You know those ads that say, "If you give $5 a day, you can save a child's life."
Or, "If you donate $10 we can restore a child's sight."
How many of us make these donations?
I know I don't, and I used to feel bad about it.
But, in the end, life is hard. And I've struggled with depression and drug addiction.
It might sound greedy to some people, but I need everything I have.
A lot of people I know are plagued with guilt about the fact they don't donate.
I've experienced it to some extent (like I said earlier) but - often - it's quite serious.
People don't like talking about it, much. But, if you push them, there is a lot of pain below the surface.
A lot of people, it seems, spend their entire lives feeling guilty about what they have.
Yet, it rarely amounts to anything... So, why should we feel the pain?
Are we just pretending to care?
I mean: if I'm not willing to donate $5 a day - and I'm not - doesn't that mean I don't care very much?
Practically, I care less about a starving child's life than any number of "luxuries". Don't I?
Is that just human nature? Is there anything wrong with it?
...
Wealthy people aren't very popular, but - statistically speaking - they make the majority of donations.
We tend to stereo-type the ultra-rich as disgustingly greedy fat cats, that don't care about the world.
But, these are the people donating their money (and sustaining our economy with their hard work).
It seems to me that people don't donate - as a general rule - unless it has NO impact on their lifestyle.
We don't really make sacrifices. (Like how I'm not willing to sacrifice my daily coffee/burger/whatever.)
If I ever get to a point where I can afford to fully finance my house and my family is (totally) comfortable, I'll donate.
Until then, I don't feel guilty about not "doing my bit" to save the world... What do you guys think?
Do you donate?
Have you done volunteer work?
If not, why not? (Be honest. I'm not judging.)
If you do donate/volunteer, do you think less of people who don't?
...
If you could save your child or save a hundred thousand starving children in another country, who would you save?
Isn't it human nature to be selfish?
Or, "If you donate $10 we can restore a child's sight."
How many of us make these donations?
I know I don't, and I used to feel bad about it.
But, in the end, life is hard. And I've struggled with depression and drug addiction.
It might sound greedy to some people, but I need everything I have.
A lot of people I know are plagued with guilt about the fact they don't donate.
I've experienced it to some extent (like I said earlier) but - often - it's quite serious.
People don't like talking about it, much. But, if you push them, there is a lot of pain below the surface.
A lot of people, it seems, spend their entire lives feeling guilty about what they have.
Yet, it rarely amounts to anything... So, why should we feel the pain?
Are we just pretending to care?
I mean: if I'm not willing to donate $5 a day - and I'm not - doesn't that mean I don't care very much?
Practically, I care less about a starving child's life than any number of "luxuries". Don't I?
Is that just human nature? Is there anything wrong with it?
...
Wealthy people aren't very popular, but - statistically speaking - they make the majority of donations.
We tend to stereo-type the ultra-rich as disgustingly greedy fat cats, that don't care about the world.
But, these are the people donating their money (and sustaining our economy with their hard work).
It seems to me that people don't donate - as a general rule - unless it has NO impact on their lifestyle.
We don't really make sacrifices. (Like how I'm not willing to sacrifice my daily coffee/burger/whatever.)
If I ever get to a point where I can afford to fully finance my house and my family is (totally) comfortable, I'll donate.
Until then, I don't feel guilty about not "doing my bit" to save the world... What do you guys think?
Do you donate?
Have you done volunteer work?
If not, why not? (Be honest. I'm not judging.)
If you do donate/volunteer, do you think less of people who don't?
...
If you could save your child or save a hundred thousand starving children in another country, who would you save?
Isn't it human nature to be selfish?