Eveleivibe
Ex-Bluelighter
Evey, while it's good to see that you are standing up for yourself a little bit, I think you may be swinging a little too far the wrong way.
I'm saying this in public because I think other people need to hear it, and I don't really believe in private bollockings -- doing it in the open avoids the bollockee being humiliated by being dragged off, and it prevents the bollocker from going too far. Plus, it gives everybody a warning, in case there was not just one person responsible, or somebody else thought they could get away with it.
You know you can be a strong person when you have to. Now just please try to avoid turning into a bully.
That's it, end of announcement. Go and shake hands or offer to make a cup of tea or hug or something. Life is too short to waste on crap.
Are you refering to this?
Trust you to say summit daft n sarcastic. If you've nothing sensible to contribute maybe not instead of the sarcasm? I don't find it funny that a 21 year old VUNERABLE girl died after purchasing diet pills. She had her whole life ahead of her n all you can do is make your usual sarcastic comments.
I knew there was a reason i stopped coming here.
Anyone else want to make juvenile comment about someone losing their life after purchasing diet pills off the net?
Seeya all later
Evey
Whilst I accept that the tone of this post was harsh, the person in question had initally attacked ME within a month of joining this site saying I've a heart of stone n go around attacking members. Not one person told her off for her mean remarks to me yet I received many PMs telling me to take no notice of her nasty comments.
I feel that it's unfair that I'm attacked on here n if I dare say anything against any other poster I'm quickly sat on by practically the whole forum. Why was the person in question not told off for her mean n hurtful remarks towards me n her continued sarcasm towards me whenever I post here?
The topic was a serious one. We were discussing legal highs n while I completely understand that many of you would disagree with the views I gave on them, I did try to explain my reasoning n was willing to listen to alternative solutions (as opposed to my view that they should be banned).
A young girl known by many of us (she studied in the local uni) of 21 died taking what she thought was slimming pills off the net n died. She was vulnerable having suffered bulimia n I find sarcasm distateful when we're discussing a matter that involvs many dying.
I understand that many people here take RCs n I'm honestly not trying to be mean here in what I was saying. If anyone can think of another solution that will prevent people like Ella dying from purchasing stuff off the net I'd like to hear it n would be all for it. It scares me that people could be taking all sorts n there's nothing being done to prevent these vulnerable doing doing so n risking lives.
As for me having a heart of stone that comment was mean n untruthful. I would do anything for people I care for n always try helping people if I can. And I don't go around attacking people at all I defend myself when people on me so is it any wonder I feel hostile towards that individual?
If people would stop attacking me all the time whenever I vent, ask for help or give an opinion I would not be so defensive.
I'm not a bully. I've been bullied my whole life so if I bullied others I'd be a hypocrite.
Evey