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Is the Pull-Out Method Safe?

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So im with this chick. We aren't entirely exclusive. Its an open relationship. But we both have an account here. We both have our computers on pornmode cuz its not too clingy or whatever.

So we've been fucking for about a year now using the pull-out method every time. I have pretty good damn timing, I can pull out a condom if i wanna bust inside her or she wants to feel me grow, but she isn't on any form of birth control.

So after a year now, im sort of wondering what the deal is. There was also a time she was on top and for some random reason i went to bust after like 1 minute and pushed her up busted on like half the sheets and half her ass then got it back up almost immediately and pushed it back in and she didnt say anything.

So do some men not have sperm in pre-cum? I googled this ahead of time and didn't really find a definitive answer.

So i had fucked this other chick somewhere inbetween that. And she wanted me to cum inside her then ran and got planned B pills the next day just to get me off. But i don't think she was gonna buy the planned -b if I had pulled out.
 
Pull out reduces the chances of pregnancy, but not STDS.

It only takes one sperm to make a baby.

Yes, there is pre-cum... which can still have some sperm in it. And of course, you could lose control and bust a nut in her anyway. Cumming all over yourself (penis) and sticking it back in... that's still sperm.

Things you may not know:

When a woman has orgasms. She is also increasing the chance of pregnancy (it makes the cervix more active, touching the other side of the vagina).
Once the sperm is past the cervix, its in the uterus (which is smaller than her fist) - her body knows which Fallopian tube has the egg and will force the sperm into that direction. This is cool to watch... and this actually takes seconds to happen.

She should be on birth control pills or depo shot. Most states will PAY for free pills because it reduces pregnancy which costs them more. So its either $0~15 a month. But the woman must take the pill every day, at the same time. Skipping one pill makes a difference. Also, if she gets sick and is on antibiotics, then The Pill doesn't work. (guess how I know)

There is also the IUD, which lasts for about 3~5 years. She can get one for about $500... and not have to worry about keeping up with The Pill. Some states (like Colorado) will do this FOR FREE... because they would rather not have young pregnant mothers who are not ready for parenthood. Then when you/she are in your late 20s or 30s, you can children then.
 
No, it's not safe.
She can still get pregnant - pre-cum carries less sperm but it does carry some. You might be minimising your chances slightly but it's not a foolproof method in any way.
And obviously it doesn't reduce the chances of STDs in any way.
 
I have a 6 yr old son that is a perfect example of how well the pull out method does not work.

That said, he's the best thing that ever happened to me--I'm so much a better person, responsible, clean, that I'm happy it didn't work

But for a lot of people for whom pregnancy would be a disaster--get another method. The pill, the shot, IUD, something. Cause after a year, well, even on a roulette table if you spin long enough your number will come up...
 
Its not safe for sti prevention and neither is it guaranteed to ensure she doesn't get pregnant.

The only thing that will prevent these likely occurrences is a condom!
 
Well, one thing is, a woman needs to be ovulating, generally, to get pregnant. This is happening in their body (they drop an egg that waits to be fertilized, I believe) for 3-5 days of the month. Now, what I'm about to say isn't science talk, just what I've noticed. But, I've had a couple of partners who I was with for a long time, and learned their body. When they ovulated, their "wetness/lubrication" during sex was always a little more stickier. So watch for that. I have no kids, but I'm not sure if it was from my technique (avoiding sex during ovulation/pulling out) or if I'm simply not fertile. Never had a sperm check. I've been told I emit plenty of goop, though. But I'm sure, now, that has nothing to do with fertility.

But, yeah, some birth control would be your best bet. But, I began feeling bad about it because it does affect their mood and they say it makes them gain weight. But, it's less weight than a baby in there. And one should only want a clean incubator (human body) if they introduce a baby into it.

But, is the "pull out method safe"? Naw, man, it just lowers the chance. As said above, it will not prevent STD's, and pre-cum can impregnate someone. But, I will have to say and believe that pulling out will reduce the chance of getting someone pregnant VS just blowing it inside her.
 
Of course, the less spunk that gets up there, the less chance there is of one your little swimmers scoring. But no, its not particularly effective. And if you cum on yourself and then get right back in there... well, I'm amazed she's not pregnant. Its possible one or both of you have low fertility or are straight-up infertile.

If you're in an open relationship, you should be using condoms. And you should probably both go get tested right about now.

I can't use hormonal birth control (causes behavioral changes) and I'm allergic to too many metals and plastics to risk putting in a copper. But condoms work just fine, man. You need to be thinking about yourself a little more - man you want to get an STD or stuck with a pair of child support payments? You ready to be a father? She ready to be a mother? (Good tip here: if you're not at a point where you're ready to use condoms in an open relationship with no other birth control measures in place other than pulling out, you're probably not quite ready to raise a sprog yet)
 
ThePharmacist4925 said:
I mean it's worked for me in the past, but it hasn't worked for a lot of people so take your own risks and understand the consequences.
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Same.

I think i got very lucky in my early twenties, most sex was unprotected and sometimes not even pulling out.. now i look back and think 'christ, my life could of taken a very different direction..' im too risk-adverse these days, an unplanned child would ruin me financially.
 
It's safER if you pee before sex every time, but as others have posted, what you are doing is really not great from a sexual health perspective. I'm nonmonogamous also, but I get tested at least 1x a year and have an IUD, and I use condoms wherever there's any sort of doubt about STI status.
 
Do they even have sex ed anymore? I'm a "no stupid question" kind of person but I sometimes feel ambivalent about it, I will admit
 
It has always worked for me, then again I have never been with a girl who was not also taking some form of birth control as well. I also have been with the same partner for almost five years now, and have only slept with four other girls.
 
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