Ive been debating whether I should go visit someone I know in county jail...this person was the female half of my H connection, She got married to this guy a few years ago, but I have known her for about 8 years, and for a time, we were hanging out everyday, partying, not really dating, more like friends with benefits, who hung out together all the time.
Once she got married, our relationship basically got to be that of a dealer, and customer, only really talking when I hit her up for dope, but once I started copping more often a few months ago, when I lost my legal prescription, we started talking more, and met a few times for more than copping dope.
Now that shes been in jail for almost a week, Im finding myself missing her, I want to go visit her, but I dont want her husband to find out I visited her (he is in the same jail, but obviously the male section)...I know they are separated, and while Ive never been in jail, I do suspect he could possibly find out somehow, and he may get suspicious. I know him fairly well, I met him after they got engaged, but I never really got to be good friends with him, more like just an acquaintance, 99% of the time, when I copped, I would text her, and she would be the one meeting me, Im not sure, but I think he had her going out to meet and deliver all the shit, and he pretty much dealt with re-upping and he would ALWAYS weigh out, package and get all the bags ready for her to go on a run, he would stay at home though.
The few times me and her met for more than copping, I got a room at this motel nearby, I will admit, it felt great to be with her again, after so long, I didnt love her or even desire to be in a real relationship with her, we were both content with how our 'friendship' was. Since I was copping dope almost every day, it gave her an excuse to meet me/text and talk to me daily, and her husband thought nothing of it, although the time we had in the motel was limited, as she was kept EXTREMELY busy with other customers...I couldnt believe how many texts she got just during the times in the motel, she was constantly meeting people, going to pick up bags to deliver, dropping off money so she wasnt driving around with an insane amount of money. LOL
Im also thinking I should NOT go visit her, and just accept that shes going away for awhile, and deal with it, after all, I was a paying customer, my cell number is all over both of her phones, plus Im not sure if the jail records or even keeps track of conversations between prisoners and visitors, I wouldnt want to accidentally say something I should not!
Im curious what you all think I should do.
Once she got married, our relationship basically got to be that of a dealer, and customer, only really talking when I hit her up for dope, but once I started copping more often a few months ago, when I lost my legal prescription, we started talking more, and met a few times for more than copping dope.
Now that shes been in jail for almost a week, Im finding myself missing her, I want to go visit her, but I dont want her husband to find out I visited her (he is in the same jail, but obviously the male section)...I know they are separated, and while Ive never been in jail, I do suspect he could possibly find out somehow, and he may get suspicious. I know him fairly well, I met him after they got engaged, but I never really got to be good friends with him, more like just an acquaintance, 99% of the time, when I copped, I would text her, and she would be the one meeting me, Im not sure, but I think he had her going out to meet and deliver all the shit, and he pretty much dealt with re-upping and he would ALWAYS weigh out, package and get all the bags ready for her to go on a run, he would stay at home though.
The few times me and her met for more than copping, I got a room at this motel nearby, I will admit, it felt great to be with her again, after so long, I didnt love her or even desire to be in a real relationship with her, we were both content with how our 'friendship' was. Since I was copping dope almost every day, it gave her an excuse to meet me/text and talk to me daily, and her husband thought nothing of it, although the time we had in the motel was limited, as she was kept EXTREMELY busy with other customers...I couldnt believe how many texts she got just during the times in the motel, she was constantly meeting people, going to pick up bags to deliver, dropping off money so she wasnt driving around with an insane amount of money. LOL
Im also thinking I should NOT go visit her, and just accept that shes going away for awhile, and deal with it, after all, I was a paying customer, my cell number is all over both of her phones, plus Im not sure if the jail records or even keeps track of conversations between prisoners and visitors, I wouldnt want to accidentally say something I should not!
Im curious what you all think I should do.
