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EADD Oi! What Do You Look Like? v. Ginger Bears & Clown Holes

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class-a-team said:
The only good thing about being female is free drink/fags/drugs tbh
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True actually, I fucking hate being a girl a lot of the time. Especially at concerts/in clubs/anywhere I'm trying to enjoy myself where creepy guys are likely to spoil it but I've already ranted about that plenty of times so I'll restrain myself.

Proper arrogance where you really think you're the absolute tits must be good though I agree spliff.

This thread is so off topic, where did the pics go! 8)
 
class-a-team said:
Not even one type of person for me, but sometimes the shit people come out with makes me think "how on earth did you not feel embarrassed saying that?!"
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Yeah the second paragraph i was referring to all arrogant people in general. I hate to sound like a old women, but those kind of people fucking repulse me!
 
I'd take arrogant confidence over a boring self depreciation any day of the week.

Nothing more unattractive than a beautiful woman who walks into a room with her shoulders hunched and not able to make eye contact.
 
class-a-team said:
I think that people that boast in general are dicks. Especially the 'humble brag.' Arrogance is my least favourite trait by far.
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Likewise, winds me up extremely quickly. a few good looking people i know spring to mind, ugly on the inside, although they do have a nice side, but arrogance out in full force sometimes especially when drunk, instant dickheads
 
SummerSerenade said:
True actually, I fucking hate being a girl a lot of the time. Especially at concerts/in clubs/anywhere I'm trying to enjoy myself where creepy guys are likely to spoil it but I've already ranted about that plenty of times so I'll restrain myself.
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When i see people doing this it makes me feel awkward even though im not even involved in the situation. People who go out 'on the pull' or go to clubs just specifically to try and fuck a girl, really are pathetic cunts. Its so blatantly obvious when boys/men are trying it and its so fucking cringey to see. Cant imagine how horrible it must be having countless amounts of dickheads coming up to you and trying it.

For me; going out is about having a good time with mates/strangers and if one things does lead to another then thats all good, but if your opinion of having a good time is going out and perving up every girl who likes slightly tipsy; then your a too-bit cunt.
 
One Thousand Words said:
I'd take arrogant confidence over a boring self depreciation any day of the week.

Nothing more unattractive than a beautiful woman who walks into a room with her shoulders hunched and not able to make eye contact.
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Boring and self depreciation are not one in the same. From my experience its always been the seemingly quiet ones who turn out to be the most genuine people and ones that i would actually want to jam with.
 
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SummerSerenade said:
True actually, I fucking hate being a girl a lot of the time. Especially at concerts/in clubs/anywhere I'm trying to enjoy myself where creepy guys are likely to spoil it but I've already ranted about that plenty of times so I'll restrain myself.
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^ This. But yeah same, I'll stop myself from going on a tangent.

One Thousand Words said:
Being a white working class male.
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I'd imagine so yeah.

One Thousand Words said:
I'd take arrogant confidence over a boring self depreciation any day of the week.

Nothing more unattractive than a beautiful woman who walks into a room with her shoulders hunched and not able to make eye contact.
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There's a difference between confidence and arrogance IMO. Confidence is never a bad thing (although women are often lead to believe otherwise). People that constantly brag are insufferable though, they have to be compensating for something.
 
Thinly veiled proxy war makes for good lurking. I'll stick my oar in. In my opinion arrogance and self depreciation are two sides of the same coin but never the twain shall meet as each viewpoint feels threatened by the other.
 
Are you saying that self-deprecation is never genuine? Have you heard of the self-verification theory? I was reading about it recently and it made a lot if sense to me on a personal level.
 
No I'm saying that they are both over compensations . Is it a genuine thing to be down on yourself all the time and all that goes with it. Is it a genuine thing to be up about yourself all the time and all that goes with that. They both mask insecurity. They both avoid feeling pain. An overly confident person finds a similar person genuine but finds a self depricating person false and vice versa. They are both ungenuine states if to be genuine is to feel good about yourself but balanced. That's my take on it anyway.
 
Over confidence is truly in the eye of the non beholder. People love to cut down people who show confidence more due to their own lack of confidence.

Sometimes you have to fake to to make it, but more often than not you still have to walk the talk.
 
Truly confident people don't feel the need to brag though. The sole purpose of bragging is to convince everyone else of your worth and obviously if you really believe you're the shit then you wouldn't care for the opinion of others to the same extent as someone lacking in self-confidence who craves for the approval of others. I think that much of how we are perceived by others is determined by how we view ourselves, however.
 
Yes! My brother walked into my dads house which is also my brothers homeand gave me a none too friendly fuck off. I said whats yer problem?he told me it wasbecause i was a drug addictedscumbag or wtte! I said no thats how you perceive me and that is not what i am nor how i see meself. He told me that that is how i should see myself because thats what i am.

Theres state provision for people like me dont ya know! Why would your family want to help you if theres a state agent for the job. Fuckibg members of the labour party and their unsociable socialism.
 
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