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If you could only take 1 drug for the rest of your life what would it be?

How to make friends and influence people.

Kill them with kindness....

worth a try I always think...and I think Shambles is man enough for a group hug situation...others run..Got no time for people that lash out on others..look in the mirror.

Transference-throwing in my big word....and I thought we had made so much progress today...:!
 
inflorescence said:
How to make friends and influence people.

Kill them with kindness....

worth a try I always think...and I think Shambles is man enough for a group hug situation...others run..Got no time for people that lash out on others.
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Me neither. Particularly when they stick to their usual approach of trying to intimidate whoever the youngest and newest female poster. Even more so when they don't even bother to read what they're hurling mindless vitriol at cos all they see is what they apparently perceive as an easy target.

I definitely do group hugs though. And indeed individual ones. I'm a bit of a fan of 'em actually. Even with the Monkeyman with the incredibly well-used penis... whenever he gets around to that looking in the mirror thing you mention.

We should gang up on Crackers there with a stealth hug. I could well be wrong but not sure he'd be one for hugs 'n' <3s - not around these parts anyway. He bloody loves it really I'm sure.

*hugs for whoever wants 'em*

<3
 
Shambles said:
Me neither. Particularly when they stick to their usual approach of trying to intimidate whoever the youngest and newest female poster. Even more so when they don't even bother to read what they're hurling mindless vitriol at cos all they see is what they apparently perceive as an easy target.
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Perceive being the key word ;)

I wouldn't normally bother replying to bullies as I am non confrontational to the extreme. It just worries me slightly to think that, on a forum such as this, that comment could have been aimed at someone more sensitive (unlike me, who just doesn't give a shit) and they may have been upset by it. And that's just not on.

I haven't had a good ol' hug for ages. Everyone over 'ere, you're all in.

BHM is probably too busy shagging one of his vict-, err, conquests, however.8(

*Hugs from the depths of hell (my room, ohmygawd it's hot)*
 
Oooo, I think 'easy target' and 'vitriol' and 'intimidate' are a bit sweeping. He's fairly independently indescriminate with his choices most of the time imo.
Re: new prolific female newbs, I think it seems more like issuing a bit of a prodding to see what they're made of

Been guilty of the same thing, probably always will be, too.

I'm always up for a group hug. and Im more than happy to accommodate bhm. he can stay over my side of it so you two can avoid getting into anymore cock jostling .
 
inflorescence said:
How to make friends and influence people.

Kill them with kindness....

worth a try I always think...and I think Shambles is man enough for a group hug situation...others run..Got no time for people that lash out on others..look in the mirror.

Transference-throwing in my big word....and I thought we had made so much progress today...:!
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Not that I'm making excuses but sometimes when people lash out on others, it's not always as simple as it seems. People may have a lot of anger in them due to things that have happened / happening and what-not - and a lot of the time may not even realise they're doing it - or that there's a pattern with them doing it. Sometimes, when we so often do stuff, we do it out of awareness, until it's pointed out to us, may sound silly that but it's true. For instance, take venting. A person may vent once - people think nothing of it, they vent a second time, again people think nothing of it. They then become used to the pattern and habitually vent. Now it no longer is a "one of thing to people," it is now seen as annoying but the person is unaware so entranced in the behaviour as a defence mechanism, making excuses to themselves to continue doing so as it helps them "release negative emotions," then people tell them that you are not so nice, people slowly turn against them and the person is wondering why, thus becomes more resentful thus continues the negative behaviour. That's an example but what I'm getting at is try not to judge people who lash out because human beings are complex and it's not as simple as it seems.

I need to take my own advice to be honest, as I'm quick to judge others who wrong me but like you say "kill people with kindness" works because if people are lashing out a lot, I'm assuming they're expecting the world to be against them thus being defensive and if someone, expectantly is "nice," well then it's bound to throw them off set and make them think "eh up, maybe this person is ok, really!" Anyway I'm probably talking a load of bollocks as usual LOL.

Evey

EDIT x 1000000000 Yes Group Hugggggies!
 
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I would need a lot of MDMA to hug any of you, and even then it would have to be early in the piece before you smell of sweat and disco goo
 
Marmalade said:
Oooo, I think 'easy target' and 'vitriol' and 'intimidate' are a bit sweeping. He's fairly independently indescriminate with his choices most of the time imo.
Re: new prolific female newbs, I think it seems more like issuing a bit of a prodding to see what they're made of

Been guilty of the same thing, probably always will be, too.

I'm always up for a group hug. and Im more than happy to accommodate bhm. he can stay over my side of it so you two can avoid getting into anymore cock jostling .
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Now I know you must've taken that MD, Marmz ;)

He does focus specifically on any new, young female posters - also goes for anybody who happens to be present if there's no new, young female posters to hand at the time of course but I'm struggling to see that as a plus point. You do prod at the girlies. You prod. He just randomly attacks based on nothing whatsoever and always goes for the lowest possible blow he can muster. Confusing one of my patented rambly posts about addiction with what he apparently believed to be what Summer's imaginings of a possible future addiction were like isn't even a schoolboy error. It's another one of those lil revelations of just how much ability he has to follow basic conversation. He doesn't even know who or what he's lashing out at with that vitriolic attempt at intimidating his perception of what constitutes and easy target is (and yes they are the right words). He is so blinded by misogyny and gynophobia that it doesn't matter who or what he actually addresses cos it's very clearly his own utter inability to get over whichever one of his adolescent fantasy women that dumped him 20-odd years ago that he's addressing.

You can prod peeps to see what they're made of cos you have substance. He is dead inside and will stay that way until he realises it and decides it's a bit shit and he'd probably have a much better time - maybe even actually have that sex he seems to be missing... or perhaps it's the other bit he's really missing... the thing he can't even bear to see in others cos he can't just accept that he wants and needs it too. He's the boy at primary school pulling on girl's pigtails and making them cry. One day he'll surely get past that stage and realise that they don't actually like that... not without prior consent anyway.

And there's never any possibility of any cock-jostling between me and BHM. Wouldn't be fair on the poor fella now would it.

Aaaaaand... back to hugs all round I say <3
 
Shambles said:
Now I know you must've taken that MD, Marmz ;)

He does focus specifically on any new, young female posters - also goes for anybody who happens to be present if there's no new, young female posters to hand at the time of course but I'm struggling to see that as a plus point. You do prod at the girlies. You prod. He just randomly attacks based on nothing whatsoever and always goes for the lowest possible blow he can muster. Confusing one of my patented rambly posts about addiction with what he apparently believed to be what Summer's imaginings of a possible future addiction were like isn't even a schoolboy error. It's another one of those lil revelations of just how much ability he has to follow basic conversation. He doesn't even know who or what he's lashing out at with that vitriolic attempt at intimidating his perception of what constitutes and easy target is (and yes they are the right words). He is so blinded by misogyny and gynophobia that it doesn't matter who or what he actually addresses cos it's very clearly his own utter inability to get over whichever one of his adolescent fantasy women that dumped him 20-odd years ago that he's addressing.

You can prod peeps to see what they're made of cos you have substance. He is dead inside and will stay that way until he realises it and decides it's a bit shit and he'd probably have a much better time - maybe even actually have that sex he seems to be missing... or perhaps it's the other bit he's really missing... the thing he can't even bear to see in others cos he can't just accept that he wants and needs it too. He's the boy at primary school pulling on girl's pigtails and making them cry. One day he'll surely get past that stage and realise that they don't actually like that... not without prior consent anyway.

And there's never any possibility of any cock-jostling between me and BHM. Wouldn't be fair on the poor fella now would it.

Aaaaaand... back to hugs all round I say <3
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BHM is probably the only member in EADD I've not actually tried to converse with. Maybe something to do with him calling me a troll once, how bloody DARE he lol
Right a pillow is calling for a humping and a bed is calling for a bumping..... so Nos da people! :D

Evey
 
SummerSerenade said:
Deal. If I get close enough I will be able to suck out your soul and steal your seemingly fabulous life. And you get to be a 19 year old cokehead, good trade no?
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I am far too much of a hippy to relive my 20th year as a coke head. Coke is for yachts and infinity pools, none of which I could afford at 19.

Running cargo through rain forests was more my scene at 19 and if given the chance I would live that life again in a heart beat
 
Shambles said:
Now I know you must've taken that MD, Marmz ;)

Aaaaaand... back to hugs all round I say <3
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Didn't actually :p it was too late at night in the end, gotta be going out soon. Shots still in my draw. (will it be okay, 2 days now? ... not solidified so Im gonna put it back in t'fridge for tonight) .. please tell me Ive not wasted it.

And re the monkey, hrmn, while I do identify with some of your angles above, I'm gonna keep out of this one .... hrmn, lets just say for reasons of transparency/disclosure and conflicting interests ...;p

Eveleivibe said:
Bhow bloody DARE he lol

Evey
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But so did a good proportion of the forum Evey. Me included (in my head anyway). A hefty proportion of the forum questioned you in terms of a troll theory
 
Marmalade said:
Didn't actually :p it was too late at night in the end, gotta be going out soon. Shots still in my draw. (will it be okay, 2 days now? ... not solidified so Im gonna put it back in t'fridge for tonight) .. please tell me Ive not wasted it.

And re the monkey, hrmn, while I do identify with some of your angles above, I'm gonna keep out of this one .... hrmn, lets just say for reasons of transparency/disclosure and conflicting interests ...;p



But so did a good proportion of the forum Evey. Me included (in my head anyway). A hefty proportion of the forum questioned you in terms of a troll theory
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WOW.... Really? Practically the whole sub-forum thought I was a troll???? Shittttt. I guess I made some impression on EADD then lol.

Still all that's past now onward n upward.

Hugggiessss people! The suboxone is kicking in now thank goodness!

Evey
 
SummerSerenade said:
I do not know any IV drug users - therefore, how can all the folk I encounter end up fucked?
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precisely

SummerSerenade said:
Do you think it's possible to do it once or every so often and not get fucked up (not fucked up high, that's what I'm hoping for, fucked up in life terms)?
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there you go, if youre still confused

and fwiw, you name it, i inject it - but i personally wouldnt risk slamming some of the shite that gets sold for cocaine in europe these days. youd be much safer and better off money AND experience wise finding some decent speed to slam

but thats just my opinion, feel free to disregard




SummerSerenade said:
Shambles is one of the aforementioned experienced parties who has taken the time to write some extremely useful and interesting posts over the last few days addressing my questions. Which I am very grateful for
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uh huh


SummerSerenade said:
nothing like going into the club toilets, snorting some coke and coming out with that secret 'I'm cooler than you' smile
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like peas in a pod
 
Y'know I've never once sniffed cocaine in a toilet. FACT! I have injected snowballs in toilets on many an occasion though. And been kicked out of many a place as a result 8)

One thing I will agree with BHM on is that I'd be deeply dubious about IVing UK coke. I felt much better about shooting rock cos I mostly washed it up myself and was as close to being 'pure' as you're likely to get (no bicarb obviously when made at home). Then again, I've shot 7% heroin on more than one occasion when that was all that's available. I wouldn't now but then I'm not addicted now. There's a lesson in there somewhere I'm sure :sus:
 
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