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If you were a virgin, what age would you start lying when asked if you are a virgin?
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I don't see the point in lying about it if you're past a certain age. If it's to a group of people, so what if you're a virgin? The worst mistake I think people can make is believing that joining in the whore house games that most modern people now play will make you a better adjusted person.. when actually these people who are so sexually "free" are damaged mentally (can't prove this, my subjective opinion).
I always avoided the question or talk about sex until the age of 25 when I met my first girlfriend. I think I lied once at uni when I was 18, but I didn't have the self-confidence then to believe I was ok the way I was. But when I admitted the truth to her and she accepted me for who I was at 25, well, it made me feel good. I don't think it's morally wrong to lie about it, but what's the point? If someone is not willing to accept you as you are at that point then keep moving until you do find someone.
Why be ashamed of who you are? This fucking degenerate society we live in is obsessed with sex in an unhealthy way, and it pisses me off. Giving in to peer pressure from a bunch of fucktards solves nothing. The people who are older and still a virgin are no more screwed up than the rest of the non-virgins! Forget what society thinks on this issue and just have belief in yourself.. most people don't have a fucking clue anyway so why get hung up about what they think?
I always avoided the question or talk about sex until the age of 25 when I met my first girlfriend. I think I lied once at uni when I was 18, but I didn't have the self-confidence then to believe I was ok the way I was. But when I admitted the truth to her and she accepted me for who I was at 25, well, it made me feel good. I don't think it's morally wrong to lie about it, but what's the point? If someone is not willing to accept you as you are at that point then keep moving until you do find someone.
Why be ashamed of who you are? This fucking degenerate society we live in is obsessed with sex in an unhealthy way, and it pisses me off. Giving in to peer pressure from a bunch of fucktards solves nothing. The people who are older and still a virgin are no more screwed up than the rest of the non-virgins! Forget what society thinks on this issue and just have belief in yourself.. most people don't have a fucking clue anyway so why get hung up about what they think?
LearntYoung
Bluelighter
I had never lied about it up until I lost my virginity at the age of 18.
Most of my friends lost theirs when they were 16 and some people were making fun of me every now and then.
It's part of the shitty state today's youth is in, but to me that didn't mean I had to keep it from the world.
It really wasn't such a big deal to me that people had some crappy remarks about it every now and then, it felt like it was more or less their problem, not mine.
Especially since I just didn't really have a problem with it.
Most of my friends lost theirs when they were 16 and some people were making fun of me every now and then.
It's part of the shitty state today's youth is in, but to me that didn't mean I had to keep it from the world.
It really wasn't such a big deal to me that people had some crappy remarks about it every now and then, it felt like it was more or less their problem, not mine.
Especially since I just didn't really have a problem with it.
abracadabra girl
Ex-Bluelighter
30? I dunno. I also don't get why you'd lie about it, except maybe in the guys locker room (assuming you're a guy).
ParappaTheRapper
Ex-Bluelighter
Nothing wrong with being a virgin.
It will show thru sexual points of view that only you or one partner, or their past partners gave to you.
Should u lie? Yes. You should lie to be tactful. If u don't it will expose your sexual thought source as porn, masterbating, projection of a friends sexual experience, etcetera.
Nothing wrong with any of it.
I agree that sex is beatiful, but, also smells like fish.
Its too stinky to be competitive with.
It will show thru sexual points of view that only you or one partner, or their past partners gave to you.
Should u lie? Yes. You should lie to be tactful. If u don't it will expose your sexual thought source as porn, masterbating, projection of a friends sexual experience, etcetera.
Nothing wrong with any of it.
I agree that sex is beatiful, but, also smells like fish.
Its too stinky to be competitive with.
Someone I know (I'm not his mate I just know him) is going to be 31 next month and he's still a virgin! He's never even had a girlfriend or even chated a girl up. He's got a big drug problem and he's an ugly fuck too lol
He's even such a little creep he created a Facebook account of me and was trying to talk to girls pretending to be me.
He's even such a little creep he created a Facebook account of me and was trying to talk to girls pretending to be me.
TheGrasshopper
Bluelighter
I swear i have seen this in a horror movie.. friend or room mate gets murdered while they sleep.
Cheers.
Joker11789
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I wouldn't lie ..just the type of guy I am but I know when I was a virgin I did act different but I was also 14 or younger lol ..at 15 my life changed ..not bc sex but sex , cheating, gf ...life in general ..
soo idk if I'd be that different or not but I wouldn't lie , why lie you are what you are and you probably in one way or another chose to be a virgin ...
tons of girls find it cute and guys like me find it a challenge and fun plus it's amazing considering you dnt have to worry about so much (diseases these days.. And so on) ..
i get get why ppl lie but I just don't think it's something to be embarrassed about even if you didn't choose to be a virgin and just couldn't get any bc you weren't good looking/popular/player/whatever ..
think about it ..no one cares once you're an adult about most childish things and most would see this as just a wow type thing ..maybe some pitty thrown your way (not talking about sex though it's possible but a waste) ..maybe some embarrassment but once you reach a certain age (I'd say late college not the 1st 2-3 years lol) ..ppl mature and don't care ..
heck some ppl probably wish they still were virgins..
maybe at like 80 ? Or if someone you don't like who you work with asks and would rib you forever causing embarrassing moments at work ..ya then hide your personal BS of course ..
but with friends , s/os etc.. Who cares though I wouldn't say right away unless asked just because I also wouldn't say how many times I've been laid right away either lol ..that comes later usually .
soo idk if I'd be that different or not but I wouldn't lie , why lie you are what you are and you probably in one way or another chose to be a virgin ...
tons of girls find it cute and guys like me find it a challenge and fun plus it's amazing considering you dnt have to worry about so much (diseases these days.. And so on) ..
i get get why ppl lie but I just don't think it's something to be embarrassed about even if you didn't choose to be a virgin and just couldn't get any bc you weren't good looking/popular/player/whatever ..
think about it ..no one cares once you're an adult about most childish things and most would see this as just a wow type thing ..maybe some pitty thrown your way (not talking about sex though it's possible but a waste) ..maybe some embarrassment but once you reach a certain age (I'd say late college not the 1st 2-3 years lol) ..ppl mature and don't care ..
heck some ppl probably wish they still were virgins..
maybe at like 80 ? Or if someone you don't like who you work with asks and would rib you forever causing embarrassing moments at work ..ya then hide your personal BS of course ..
but with friends , s/os etc.. Who cares though I wouldn't say right away unless asked just because I also wouldn't say how many times I've been laid right away either lol ..that comes later usually .
Joker11789
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Ok ..being a virgin is one thing ..but the fb part ..wow
also does he have ridiculous high standards and basically thinks he deserves the best girl ? Those types I know (idk any virgins but some of my friends think they deserve the best gf when they themselves are trash ..and I've told them lol)
between drugs, ugly and the fb account ...sounds like he's sad , desperate and someone you shouldn't let drag you down (not saying ditch your friend ..sounds like a speech haha )..if I were u I'd be more careful of my shit and beat his ass (ok maybe too old for that). For the FB thing unless it was a joke ..
Waffle Sock
Bluelighter
I once lied to a chick that I WAS a virgin. It was supposed to be a quick joke, but she seriously believed me. She thought it was special and cute. I played along with it. I banged her like 2 days after this. She wanted to be my first. I was like 19 then. I don't see this approach working for 23+ yr olds... well maybe depending on how well of an actor you are.
LianeJones
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Well, It depends on what age I lost my virginity. If I lost my virginity during school level, then I will definitely tell that I am virgin, but it had happened in college level, then I would say that yes, I am not a virgin.
LearntYoung
Bluelighter
It's the other way around, silly!
ChipTrippyFox
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I don't think I would lie about it to be honest.
sean107
Bluelighter
i started lying about it at 15-16. stopped lying about it at about 18 and lost it 2 months ago at 19. made my gf cum like 15 times in a row before i came once haha.
yes. of course you did stud.