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Any fathers with plans for Father's Day?

StickyChron

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I split my custody with my ex, we both have 50/50 and it turns out shes going to have them this year. I'm thinking about going to the beach for the day and possibly taking a little MXE and floating around. Anyone else have any cool fathers day plans with or without your kids?

Mods, you'll probably move this but I don't know where, thanks in advance.
 
lol, that's an alternative way to celebrate father's day ;)

PD >> DC I guess..
 
i don't know if mxe is the way to go if you are going to be feeling bad about not being with your kids, mxe gets me thinking about my loved ones alot, more so than any other drug
 
fathers day??? shit guys don't get me started my bastard of a father is finally dead I can celebrate that and be glad I don't have any kids to do the same thing my father did to me.

that's my fathers day happy fathers day dad!(if your looking up at me from hell you can see im giving you the middle finger)

and to the first poster nice man you may as well be tripping with your kids at least your not locked in a basement smoking crack yelling to your son to leave the room so he can get high.
 
trainspotter10102 said:
fathers day??? shit guys don't get me started my bastard of a father is finally dead I can celebrate that and be glad I don't have any kids to do the same thing my father did to me.

that's my fathers day happy fathers day dad!(if your looking up at me from hell you can see im giving you the middle finger)

and to the first poster nice man you may as well be tripping with your kids at least your not locked in a basement smoking crack yelling to your son to leave the room so he can get high.
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I'm sorry Trainspotter....that whole situation does qualify as suck ass. Perhaps in time you'll see what a broken man he was...I can tell ya that when they(fathers...OR mothers that disowned you/screwed you over) have to sit for 9months, dying everyday, that they face all their wrong doings, which is...just fucking sad. And there's nothing they can do about it. Broken Man...I think he was&was too proud to admit the insurmountable, unforgivable pain he put on you. And he went quick-he didn't have that moment beside death to cry & apologize, which is sad , when mistakes and hurt is only seen or acknowledged next to death. The tears came a little too late. I I do wish for you that he'd had that moment.
Ugh! Father's Day..! They should have some kind of of alternate "celebration" for all those who can't "celebrate", for many reasons!
 
I work in an elementary school. It can be a pretty sad occasion for kids (same with Mothers Day) for a variety of reasons. I try to tread lightly around holidays--they are minefields for a lot of kids even though they try to hide it.
 
^ I imagine it would be a delicate topic-while some children have every good reason among the stars to celebrate the joys of having a true, caring, involved, loving, proper father who provides much needed foundations to navigate through life; other children either don't even know the meaning of a Father and sadly, so many would have been better off not knowing what a "Father" is...breaks my heart.
 
Emme80 said:
I'm sorry Trainspotter....that whole situation does qualify as suck ass. Perhaps in time you'll see what a broken man he was...I can tell ya that when they(fathers...OR mothers that disowned you/screwed you over) have to sit for 9months, dying everyday, that they face all their wrong doings, which is...just fucking sad. And there's nothing they can do about it. Broken Man...I think he was&was too proud to admit the insurmountable, unforgivable pain he put on you. And he went quick-he didn't have that moment beside death to cry & apologize, which is sad , when mistakes and hurt is only seen or acknowledged next to death. The tears came a little too late. I I do wish for you that he'd had that moment.
Ugh! Father's Day..! They should have some kind of of alternate "celebration" for all those who can't "celebrate", for many reasons!
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thank you emme I just don't know what went through my fathers head like if I had a kid nothing would keep me from them same with my mother.

My mom begged borrowed, hustled, and suffered to try and give her kids a better life than she had while my dad drove her crazy refused to help pay for anything and stayed far away from us kids. My mom had nothing and had to look afte rus kids all day and pay for everything despite my dad being a millionare with his own airplane a 70,000 truck and the list goes on my mom had this broken down car with the sreering wheel halbging on by a few wires and windows that didn't roll down we would break down all the time and dad refused to come get us ever.

I cant imagine why he wouldn't even want a picture of me to see how I grew up into a man ( a broken man but still a man) I mean he lived 10 minutes away and had joint custudy of me but never saw me since I was 10 years old. I have seen him around town on occasion once at work and again at the gym I remember working out next to him after not seeing him for 5 years or so when I was a bit younger and he looked at me and just acted like he didn't know me (or he simply didn't recognise his kid) that really hurt me the times I saw him and he didn't know who I was yet I remembered him. I still had the same face and everything its hard to mistake me for someone else. Fathers day means nothing to me it reminds me of the Christmas times my mom had to beg people for money to buy us kids presents or even food because my father used to purposely not pay child and spousal support the 3 months before Christmas time every year just to be sure we would be miserable at xmas time the government had to take it off his wages half the time cause he always dicked my mom around making her wait so long for her only source of income after the divorce. Too many times we got kicked out of a place we rented cause my dad was 2 month late on child support that he was court ordered to pay my mother based on her illnesses and how much money my dad made. well you got your wish dad ive suffered a long hard life , had to grow up way to fast and seen/heard things no kid should experience.

All I can do is pray I never grow to be like my dad which is something I do a lot.
 
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So I ended up having my kids! Spent the day doing things they wanted to do. We saw How To Train Your Dragon 2 in 3D which was very cool and then took our dog on a nice long walk that ended in a picnic. Good day, no mxe needed.

My dad was a piece of shit that was barely ever there, he never told me he cared about me or loved me when we was there and we still have a terrible relationship to this day. However, its made me all the better father to my children. They're home schooled, organic eatin', no TV watchin', happy, intelligent little creatures that I absolutely adore. Fathers day is a stupid greeting card holiday, but I think good parents deserve respect and the cards they made were really cute. Fuck you Hallmark.
 
That's really nice sticky. I am a separated dad too and reading your first post I felt sorry for you not seeing your kids on Father's Day of all days.

Even 7 yrs after my divorce I still have down days when I wake up and they aren't around.
 
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