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YaBa

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Girls, I would like to hear what kind of fantasies you have? Are your fantasies like we men easily might think? Big, muscular and preferably many men who give no mercy while taking you OR romantic 1 hour foreplay with candle light? Way off? More detailed better so I can bury this subject once and for all.

1. What you fantasize when masturbating?
2. What you fantasize when having intercourse?
3. What you fantasize when receiving oral?
4. How would you describe yourself in your relationships with people? Are you usually more dominating or you like that someone else takes that part? Confident vs insecure?

Would like to hear your thoughts! And if anyone want to have more detailed chat about secret of female mind, please PM me :)
 
This is a very dated book but you might like reading it.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Secret_Garden

My Secret Garden: Women’s Sexual Fantasies is a 1973 book compiled by Nancy Friday, who collected women's fantasies through letters and taped and personal interviews.

I read it in college and it's OK, some of the sex fantasies were odd or a bit wild to me like the "rape" and "incest" fantasies or the way some women apparently would fantasize about being gang banged, and there were other sex fantasies that were just odd as I don't think they're things most people are into, but I'm not a woman and I don't have a female mind.

That woman also wrote a book about men's sex fantasies and that one was more amusing since there was some guy that wrote to her telling how he fantasized about putting her into bondage, spanking her, and stuff like that.
 
Girls usually seem a bit embarrassed to discuss such things in person but ones I've heard from talk all about:

1) Domination and basically rape.
2) Unplanned sex in unusual places, being coerced or forced into such situations.
3) Strangers and people they don't know well.
 
My X gf always told me she would fantasize about older men, ideally in their mid 40's (she is 22)... That was her only thing really.
 
Someone I know says their fantasy is someone who wants it all the time and pays half the bills.
 
I like this topic because I really don't get to talk about my inner-most fantasies to anyone, so to find a forum about it thrilled me. To tell ya'll a little bit about myself, I'd consider myself an average, yet intelligent, blonde women in her mid 20's. I have a bf who lives w/ me and we frequently have intense, sensual sex. No complaints in that department. Needless to say, my fantasy delves a bit deeper then just that and it's a bit descriptive, so tell me if I've crossed the line, but from what I've seen thus far, this forum seems free from most kinds of judgement.

Sometimes when I'm home alone or laying in bed at night I think about 2 lines of men as far as I can see just waiting to sleep w/ me... to get a little more specific, one line would be all black men and the other white. I'd want to dress as sexy and as slutty as I possibly could, maybe 8" stiletto heels, black fishnets topped w lace and pink bows w/ black garner straps attached to a black and pink corset that shows off my 2 shoulder tattoos and makes my tits look busty and juicy. I'd want to wear heavier, dark eyeshadow and look downright irresistibly sexy and slutty.

Once men finally made it to my bed, I'd only want the black men inside of me, both my holes. I'd want the white men constantly in a circle around me jacking of to me getting fucked by the black men... I think about roughly 5-7 white guys surrounding me. It's just something about being the center of attention and the only female being ravaged. Having the power and control to make hundreds of men hard solely by just looking at me makes me wet to think about.

I wouldn't want any man to go to waste and I wouldn't want any part of my body that could pleasure a man to go to waste, either. So as two black cocks constantly penetrate my holes, cum inside them, then have another hard black pair replace them, I'd also want to stroke the hard white cocks around me. I'd want everyone to be pleasured by only me. 1-2 could be in my mouth while I stroke 1 in both my hands, another 2 could fuck my soft shaved pits. As white dicks start to cum, I'd have them absolutely drench my face and body. So much so that the cum on me and in me would make me so full I'd feel like a glazed doughnut ready to pop. Maybe all that painted cum could act as lube for the cocks in my hands or the black ones fucking me as it drips down my body to my holes.

While this was occurring, I'd also want my bf to be there watching. Not necessarily as a cuckold or whatever they call it, per-say... but rather turned on and jacking off to what's occurring in front of his eyes. Still, though, he would not be allowed to touch me in anyway, not my smooth legs, big ass, tits, nothing. He'd also have to be the last to cum after all the stallions had finished with me... not on or around my mouth or inside of me either, but somewhere less poetic such as on my heel-strapped feet or in the cup of my hand. Wherever he did, I wouldn't want it anywhere near my pussy, ass or mouth.

Geez, look at me go. When I think about this fantasy as in depth as I've written it above, I nearly almost always cum... except in my mind the scene is so much more realistic, raw and lustful. So, I hope I haven't gone to far but there it is, my inner-most sexual fantasy. I'd rather not hear about what I might be lacking in my sexual life or what problems I might have, but rather positive criticism where sexual related comments can be shared back and forth in support of one another regarding us girls' darker sides ;) I'd be happy to hear from both men and women. Chow!
 
SparkPlug1369 said:
I like this topic because I really don't get to talk about my inner-most fantasies to anyone, so to find a forum about it thrilled me. To tell ya'll a little bit about myself, I'd consider myself an average, yet intelligent, blonde women in her mid 20's. I have a bf who lives w/ me and we frequently have intense, sensual sex. No complaints in that department. Needless to say, my fantasy delves a bit deeper then just that and it's a bit descriptive, so tell me if I've crossed the line, but from what I've seen thus far, this forum seems free from most kinds of judgement.

Sometimes when I'm home alone or laying in bed at night I think about 2 lines of men as far as I can see just waiting to sleep w/ me... to get a little more specific, one line would be all black men and the other white. I'd want to dress as sexy and as slutty as I possibly could, maybe 8" stiletto heels, black fishnets topped w lace and pink bows w/ black garner straps attached to a black and pink corset that shows off my 2 shoulder tattoos and makes my tits look busty and juicy. I'd want to wear heavier, dark eyeshadow and look downright irresistibly sexy and slutty.

Once men finally made it to my bed, I'd only want the black men inside of me, both my holes. I'd want the white men constantly in a circle around me jacking of to me getting fucked by the black men... I think about roughly 5-7 white guys surrounding me. It's just something about being the center of attention and the only female being ravaged. Having the power and control to make hundreds of men hard solely by just looking at me makes me wet to think about.

I wouldn't want any man to go to waste and I wouldn't want any part of my body that could pleasure a man to go to waste, either. So as two black cocks constantly penetrate my holes, cum inside them, then have another hard black pair replace them, I'd also want to stroke the hard white cocks around me. I'd want everyone to be pleasured by only me. 1-2 could be in my mouth while I stroke 1 in both my hands, another 2 could fuck my soft shaved pits. As white dicks start to cum, I'd have them absolutely drench my face and body. So much so that the cum on me and in me would make me so full I'd feel like a glazed doughnut ready to pop. Maybe all that painted cum could act as lube for the cocks in my hands or the black ones fucking me as it drips down my body to my holes.

While this was occurring, I'd also want my bf to be there watching. Not necessarily as a cuckold or whatever they call it, per-say... but rather turned on and jacking off to what's occurring in front of his eyes. Still, though, he would not be allowed to touch me in anyway, not my smooth legs, big ass, tits, nothing. He'd also have to be the last to cum after all the stallions had finished with me... not on or around my mouth or inside of me either, but somewhere less poetic such as on my heel-strapped feet or in the cup of my hand. Wherever he did, I wouldn't want it anywhere near my pussy, ass or mouth.

Geez, look at me go. When I think about this fantasy as in depth as I've written it above, I nearly almost always cum... except in my mind the scene is so much more realistic, raw and lustful. So, I hope I haven't gone to far but there it is, my inner-most sexual fantasy. I'd rather not hear about what I might be lacking in my sexual life or what problems I might have, but rather positive criticism where sexual related comments can be shared back and forth in support of one another regarding us girls' darker sides ;) I'd be happy to hear from both men and women. Chow!
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Just... Wow. Got a boner reading that.
 
Girls don't be shy. This thread could be very helpful to us guys that want to better understand the inner workings of the fairer sex. Plus the one detailed fantasy posted so far was flipping hot.
 
Hot!

SparkPlug1369 said:
I like this topic because I really don't get to talk about my inner-most fantasies to anyone, so to find a forum about it thrilled me. To tell ya'll a little bit about myself, I'd consider myself an average, yet intelligent, blonde women in her mid 20's. I have a bf who lives w/ me and we frequently have intense, sensual sex. No complaints in that department. Needless to say, my fantasy delves a bit deeper then just that and it's a bit descriptive, so tell me if I've crossed the line, but from what I've seen thus far, this forum seems free from most kinds of judgement.

Sometimes when I'm home alone or laying in bed at night I think about 2 lines of men as far as I can see just waiting to sleep w/ me... to get a little more specific, one line would be all black men and the other white. I'd want to dress as sexy and as slutty as I possibly could, maybe 8" stiletto heels, black fishnets topped w lace and pink bows w/ black garner straps attached to a black and pink corset that shows off my 2 shoulder tattoos and makes my tits look busty and juicy. I'd want to wear heavier, dark eyeshadow and look downright irresistibly sexy and slutty.

Once men finally made it to my bed, I'd only want the black men inside of me, both my holes. I'd want the white men constantly in a circle around me jacking of to me getting fucked by the black men... I think about roughly 5-7 white guys surrounding me. It's just something about being the center of attention and the only female being ravaged. Having the power and control to make hundreds of men hard solely by just looking at me makes me wet to think about.

I wouldn't want any man to go to waste and I wouldn't want any part of my body that could pleasure a man to go to waste, either. So as two black cocks constantly penetrate my holes, cum inside them, then have another hard black pair replace them, I'd also want to stroke the hard white cocks around me. I'd want everyone to be pleasured by only me. 1-2 could be in my mouth while I stroke 1 in both my hands, another 2 could fuck my soft shaved pits. As white dicks start to cum, I'd have them absolutely drench my face and body. So much so that the cum on me and in me would make me so full I'd feel like a glazed doughnut ready to pop. Maybe all that painted cum could act as lube for the cocks in my hands or the black ones fucking me as it drips down my body to my holes.

While this was occurring, I'd also want my bf to be there watching. Not necessarily as a cuckold or whatever they call it, per-say... but rather turned on and jacking off to what's occurring in front of his eyes. Still, though, he would not be allowed to touch me in anyway, not my smooth legs, big ass, tits, nothing. He'd also have to be the last to cum after all the stallions had finished with me... not on or around my mouth or inside of me either, but somewhere less poetic such as on my heel-strapped feet or in the cup of my hand. Wherever he did, I wouldn't want it anywhere near my pussy, ass or mouth.

Geez, look at me go. When I think about this fantasy as in depth as I've written it above, I nearly almost always cum... except in my mind the scene is so much more realistic, raw and lustful. So, I hope I haven't gone to far but there it is, my inner-most sexual fantasy. I'd rather not hear about what I might be lacking in my sexual life or what problems I might have, but rather positive criticism where sexual related comments can be shared back and forth in support of one another regarding us girls' darker sides ;) I'd be happy to hear from both men and women. Chow!
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This is super sexy!! I'm hard as steel right now!
 
^ I would hazard a guess that that isn't a typical female fantasy..

And for me, pretty much anything that's quite filthy.
 
My fantasies kind of change back and forth over time.... One of the big ones is nearly identical to what SparkPlug1369 posted, hehe. <3 I would only have to add that everyone also acknowledges me as queen of the universe at the same time. =D I also have gotten the rape ones from time to time, though not as much. Gang bangs are definitely a big recurring thing though. All of that stuff is specifically for when I fantasize about guys. When I fantasize about girls, it's all really heavy BDSM stuff, lots of latex and bondage and often like violet wands and stuff. Anything lacey is also really good in any circumstance.

Those are the things relating to "regular" sex.... Then there's the more abstract stuff. So far I've yet to meet any guys who describe fantasies to me like this, though I have met other girls. These things are generally highly symbolic. Magical transformations, being murdered, going out-of-body, being possessed by a demon, controlling multiple bodies at once, vore (all in one piece), fusing with other girls, seducing guys and then transforming them into girls.... Also any sort of extreme emotion or anything which is highly sensual stimulating (such as psychedelic visions) can really get me going. Actually I find tripping alone to be far more sexually satisfying than any sort of physical stimulation I can possibly imagine. Add a partner in to the experience and I'm pretty much set. :D
 
Goddess Mode,

I like the way your mind works.

Some lucky person is going to spend a lifetime getting to know you....and somehow I'm guessing that even after a lifetime, he/she will only have scratched the surface. <3
 
I think there is something worth mentioning, and this is not directed at anyone in particular. This is directed more at the less experienced males reading these posts.

A good many fantasies stimulating the inner lives of women are not anything they'd want to ever actualized. I'm speaking about the rape and gangbang fantasies that are not too uncommon among females. Simulated with someone they trust, possibly, if it is the kind of fantasy that can be simulated safely.

I know this is common sense for most, but maybe not to everybody.

Now carry on; keep those hot fantasies cumming ladies.
 
Azure Cloud said:
Goddess Mode,

I like the way your mind works.

Some lucky person is going to spend a lifetime getting to know you....and somehow I'm guessing that even after a lifetime, he/she will only have scratched the surface. <3
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Hehe, thank you Azure Cloud. ;) With any luck, that person may already be in my life, someone who's imagination is shockingly similar to mine.... I certainly want to spend the rest of my life getting to know her the same way. :D

Azure Cloud said:
I think there is something worth mentioning, and this is not directed at anyone in particular. This is directed more at the less experienced males reading these posts.

A good many fantasies stimulating the inner lives of women are not anything they'd want to ever actualized. I'm speaking about the rape and gangbang fantasies that are not too uncommon among females. Simulated with someone they trust, possibly, if it is the kind of fantasy that can be simulated safely.

I know this is common sense for most, but maybe not to everybody.
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^^ This is a good point to make if anyone isn't clear. For example, I don't really want to be murdered. 8) But the submissive meaning behind it is very appealing. I find psychedelic death experiences to be quite satisfying in this way, even if the build-up can be terrifying.

Rape is obviously of course as said here also something I would only ever want simulated, not actualized. A gangbang is something I could really go for though, just not of the forced kind.... They're actually not that hard to set up if you know what you're doing though. It may be because I just live right by a big city, but I've checked out the fetish scene here and it's pretty developed. Though, the question is whether or not you'd want to do it with just a bunch of random guys.... I mean it all sounds good to me, but after some recent changes in my life (such as connecting with the aforementioned incredible girl) I'm starting to lose my interest in doing anything with people who I don't actually feel a deep connection with already, gangbang or otherwise. That might be a little harder to pull together....
 
Goddess Mode, I think I'm developing a blue-crush on you. Don't worry though, I'm not the possessive or jealous-stalker type; this is all just fantasy anyways. Regardless, this woman in your life must be one very cool person; lucky her and lucky you!

As for gangbangs, (for the record I've never been a part of one) unless a gal has an in charge type male friend there to help keep everyone in line, I could see things getting out of control pretty easily. Be it condom rules or no double anal penetration requests, I don't see how a single female could keep multiple men from just doing whatever if they so choose.
 
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Haha, I'm flattered Azure Cloud, and don't worry, I'm very understanding. :P My love and I are actually considering doing a polyamorous thing in fact, but it's not yet set in stone.... We're still figuring out our lives at this point. Though, at the end of the day my heart will always belong to her. :) And lucky me indeed that she feels the same way. ^_^ In the meantime, I'm looking forward to getting to know you more as well. ;D

My understanding is that the smart gangbangee treats the situation with the seriousness it deserves. Setting up a couple of casual meetings (like lunch in the park) for everyone to get to know each other and weed out the troublemakers.... Also, it's recommended to have multiple onlookers both to watch out for your safety and happiness, and to help stimulate some of the participants on their down time if necessary. I've also heard that you should never be the center of a gangbang without first being one of those onlookers for someone else so you know what to expect. There's protocol for this stuff lol. I personally also wouldn't ever do it without my partner present. <3
 
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