MadCity
Greenlighter
So here's the scoop. Both 29 year old. Straight. Live apart. Together a year. Great chemistry, better than average relationship in general.
I (the male) tend to be more affectionate than the average guy I guess, but I also tend to crave affection more than most I'd say.
I'm just generally kind and thoughtful, and that carries over in to the relationship in way of me doing a lot of sweet/kind/nice/thoughtful things for her.
She's very nice, as well, but I would definitely desire for her to be a little more affectionate so I can feel desired or loved or whatever.
I started thinking perhaps I do too much nice shit to the point that maybe she feels too secure in the relationship.
Of course, I want her to feel secure with "us", but at the same time maybe it's beneficial to withdraw a little bit???
I hate the idea of playing dumb fucking games with her, but am I perhaps making a mistake being so sweet all the time?
Not wearing the pants enough or whatever the hell it's called?
I'll try to report in as often as possible, but I'd like to hear tips, advice, or opinions if you have some.
Thanks.
I (the male) tend to be more affectionate than the average guy I guess, but I also tend to crave affection more than most I'd say.
I'm just generally kind and thoughtful, and that carries over in to the relationship in way of me doing a lot of sweet/kind/nice/thoughtful things for her.
She's very nice, as well, but I would definitely desire for her to be a little more affectionate so I can feel desired or loved or whatever.
I started thinking perhaps I do too much nice shit to the point that maybe she feels too secure in the relationship.
Of course, I want her to feel secure with "us", but at the same time maybe it's beneficial to withdraw a little bit???
I hate the idea of playing dumb fucking games with her, but am I perhaps making a mistake being so sweet all the time?
Not wearing the pants enough or whatever the hell it's called?
I'll try to report in as often as possible, but I'd like to hear tips, advice, or opinions if you have some.
Thanks.